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    STRESS and the MIND

    This is the first of two articles I wrote on meditation for a magazine a few years ago.
    I thought some of you may be interested after Irishlady’s thread last week.
    I couldn’t find it the other day, but here it is now. It was aimed at a younger audience, but there may be some useful information here, so I haven’t modified or edited it.
    More information and meditation techniques are being posted in “What We Believe” threads.

    STRESS MEDITATION AND THE MIND
    This first article briefly discusses what we are (and are not) endeavouring to achieve through meditation, how we try to escape from our emotional turmoil and runaway mind, and fail, and what we can do about it.

    What is meditation, and why bother doing it?
    At its most basic, meditation is a way of relaxing your body and mind.
    It is not an endurance test or a quest for dramatic experiences or getting into some higher state of mind.
    It does not have to involve having to sit in strange positions, nor does it have to involve chanting, incense or wearing mala beads and unusual clothing. And it will definitely not include levitation or out of body experiences!

    For many centuries meditation has been practiced as a way to experience a mind at peace.
    The mind is by nature joyous, calm and clear.
    Meditation is the pathway that allows us to relax within ourselves.
    It allows us to have a mind where you can control your thoughts and emotions.
    Just imagine being able to say “stop” to thoughts or negative emotions.
    To have the capacity to be master of your own mind. To be able to be still whenever you want, to have a calm and peaceful mind.

    More than ever, to-day’s society and our lifestyles expose us to high levels of stress, anxiety and emotional turmoil.
    Loneliness, feelings of inadequacy, fear of the future and so on contribute to our already agitated mind.
    Yet it is we ourselves who have generated these thoughts and feelings - the greatest harm we do to ourselves (and others) comes from our minds. Many of us use various methods to escape, and we usually reach out for something familiar that we associate with relief.
    You can spend hours watching TV, surfing the net, or you can turn to drugs, sex or alcohol, but none of these escapes offer lasting satisfaction.
    We shouldn’t waste our lives drowning in drugs and alcohol.
    Too often we prefer the familiarity of our habituation to the certainty of an unfamiliar peace.

    When we begin to meditate we realize how wild and frenzied things are: how wild our mind is, how wild life is.
    What you do now comes from the mind and the thoughts you have at this moment.
    Everything begins from the mind. Everything you do, everything you say.
    You need to be aware of the type of thoughts that you are having. What are you thinking? How do you react to things?
    The change starts from there, the future changes from there.

    Meditation requires concentration, and concentration can be very elusive as the mind always wants to wander.
    In meditation we are quietening our mind by using the technique of mindfulness.
    To discover the basic goodness of our mind we have to slow down and experience our mind as it is.

    The intention is not to remove stimulation but rather to direct your concentration to one element - one sound, one word, one image, or one's breath. When the mind is "filled" with the feeling of calm and peace, it doesn’t take off on its own and worry, stress out, or get depressed.
    With meditative awareness we can begin to fully understand our negative patterns and have the motivation to work on them to change those patterns.
    We can ask if we want to continue perpetuating the same suffering, or experiment with a different way of behaving.

    We quieten our minds with a simple form of meditation called “peaceful abiding”.
    For me, meditation becomes a way of "grounding" myself, of reaching a place of peace and stability,

    What a wonderful state of mind to have – calm, peaceful, stable - letting our mind be as it should.

    With practice, our mind is no longer bounding untamed from thought to thought.

    We learn how to let ourselves just be here peacefully.

    And when we are experiencing the present moment, we are experiencing life.

    “When you enter into meditation, it is good to enter with a smiling heart.”

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    Rags, I have read your post and would like to try this myself. One question. If i sit and become relaxed, obviously my mind wanders all over the place. Do i let my mind do this to begin with? Then gather myself to concentrate on just one thing? ie. my breathing or a calming picture in my mind. This sounds quite hard as my mind is always thinking too much! Do you meditate? I would love to find inner peace and try to push all the confusion away. I would like to learn the technique of mindfulness.
    Thanks . Bella

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      #3
      STRESS and the MIND

      You know Rags, Normally I read quite quickly, letting my eyes skim over the words, but I focused on each word of that post, took my time reading it and as I read it I could feel my mind calming and settling down, thank you..

      Love, Louise xxx
      A F F L..
      Alcohol Free For Life

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        STRESS and the MIND

        Irish, Thank you. Now, nip into WWB and download my gift for readers.

        Bella, you do the same. It may answer your queries.
        What I think you mean is that as you come to settling down your mind, and mine, and everyone else's is awash with thoughts. Of course it's fine to just allow those thougts to eamble for a short time, then when you are ready to get into position then close your eyes, that is when you gently put those thoughts aside. Go read my thread as I mention just what you're talking about. There's a breathing meditation there and another one, plus a first thread which talks about being patient with yourself. So have a look, print out the meditations and give them a go.
        DO NOT alternate one to the other. Just try one out for a few days. Give yourself 10 minutes or so. Read it in the thread.
        Bella, the inner peace is there within you. Truly. ANd you will experience it. Truly. Just give yourself a little time, and patience and trust yourself.
        I'll chat with you in the WWB (What we Believe) threads as this is for General stuff.
        And RJ will quite rightly boot me off general if I put up posts like this in this section.
        I just wanted to put this here to see if anyone was interested, and to direct them to WWB.

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