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I do not really believe in reincarnation, but just in case....I am putting in my request..I want to be male. I can be a flea as long as it is a male flea...

[Noella]

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I've read your other posts today and I am sending you a big hug. My mom passed away suddenly over 12 years ago and I still remember the pain of the first few years. Speaking from the other side of "time will help", I swear the pain will ease, even if it's slow and never does go entirely away.

However, with reply to this post, may I ask why you'd rather be a male? I have quite a few guy friends, and contrary to popular belief even if they don't show grief as much, it's no easier for a guy to lose a loved one than it is for a gal. It just flat out sucks all around.

:happyheart: :hug: :flower: :heart:

Sending hugs and hopes for peace.

Noella

[Allie]

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Yep,
would have to agree with Noella from my observation of my brother and his wife after their little girl drowned. My sister-in-law was hysterical, and a complete wreck for a year. My brother who is a doctor, buried himself in paperwork. Never saw him cry once. But he does he have a drinking issue now...

See? Either you internalize it, or externalize it. But pain is pain, and pain hurts. So glad you are talking about it. I wish there was something I could do!

Cyberhug...
Allie

[tea]

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lol fan.