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    May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

    So I was on my almost 30 day mark.. As you all know my girlfriend moved on and went to stay with another man... That other man 2 days ago called me , somehow they found out where I was staying and said some nasty things, I did go back and say some awfully mean things....

    I did go back to drinking 2 days ago... I just could not handle the phone harassment. I am trying to cut down on my drinking to get back to the norm...

    I am a looser I cant beat this
    Bobby

    Thank You All For the Help
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    #2
    May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

    Hi Bobby,

    Sorry about your girlfriend leaving you. You are not a loser....because you came here, asking for help. You might want to post in the Newbies Nest or in Need Help ASAP. Keep us posted, and keep reading. You can do this.

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      #3
      May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

      For starters, you are NOT a loser!

      I made it to 40 days 3 times...and 3 times I drank on day 40. There was something about making it that far and I thought I was "cured". All you gotta do is start over. You only fail when you quit TRYING.

      Come on Bobby...you CAN do this.

      Don't answer them anymore, they are not worth it!

      :l
      :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

      Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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        #4
        May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

        Bobbyslife;1497367 wrote: So I was on my almost 30 day mark..

        I am a looser I cant beat this
        Bobby

        Thank You All For the Help
        Hi Bobby - you are not a loser. In fact you were winning - almost 30 days AF is an amazing achievement.

        I'm sure you are still very much feeling the grief of losing your girlfriend (and my opinion only here, but sounds like you're well and truly better off shot of her!) but you made it through the worst without alcohol and you can do it again. This is just a slip. Put those nasty people to the back of your mind - what possible reason could they have for getting in touch with you to abuse you anyway. It sounds like they are the losers here. It's time to forget them and move on.

        Get back on track without alcohol and start looking forward. Keep close to MWO - everyone here is warm and friendly and will help and support you.
        Never put off to tomorrow what you can achieve today!

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          #5
          May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

          HEY BOBBY

          Agree with K9-you are NOT a loser! You recognize the issue, admit it and struggle. THAT IS HUGE! You are not in denial; you are aware!

          Don't beat yourself up. As you get sober and your mind clears I bet that you start too realize how important it is to get toxic people out of your life. Life if too short to spend any of your energy on negatice bullshit.

          Take care and hang in there

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            #6
            May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

            Ann Carolina;1497377 wrote: Agree with K9-you are NOT a loser! You recognize the issue, admit it and struggle. THAT IS HUGE! You are not in denial; you are aware!

            Don't beat yourself up. As you get sober and your mind clears I bet that you start too realize how important it is to get toxic people out of your life. Life if too short to spend any of your energy on negatice bullshit.

            Take care and hang in there
            Totally agree. Welcome back Bobbyslife. Hope you settle in again and get the support you desire. And try to be kind to yourself, k? :l

            P.
            "People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone."
            
? Audrey Hepburn, Actress and Philanthropist :heart:

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              #7
              May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

              bobbyslife,dont EVER call yourself a loser! you are doing good,ive followed your story in the nn a while back that ex of yours and her new man are childish game players,f-em!
              I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

              I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
              Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                #8
                May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                YOU ARE NOT A LOSER !!
                Meow-Meow
                MonaKitty

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                  #9
                  May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                  Thank You all Very Much

                  So grateful for a site like this.. It took me a while to go back and read what I wrote.. Regret the stupid things I said back and should have just ignored them. Back on to Day 2. Going through these nasty withdrawls.. Did it help anything Nope

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                    #10
                    May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                    Nope, not a loser at all Bobby. I went 11 months without a drink and let a situation get to me and was back on the wine. I am at 60 days today actually and am still struggling. We are all one drink away from day one again. You are trying and that is half the battle. Don't let your guard down. AL is a tricky bastard. Just yesterday, something in my brain said, why not? Luckily my sober hand reached out and slapped me in the head. Part hormones I guess, part alkie. Whichever, it certainly sucks and I can't let it get the best of me. The past is the past and you have great things ahead of you. We are all here to support you friend.

                    Love Waggy
                    February 27th, 2013. A New , Successful Start. :h

                    When everything seems like an uphill struggle, just think of the view from the top!!

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                      #11
                      May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                      Hey Bobby

                      Well done on not giving-up :goodjob: You are certainly not a loser :l

                      Keep strong and best wishes xx

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                        #12
                        May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                        Thanks Waggy

                        Congrats on those 11 months AL free, That must have felt great. Wishing I could come close to an accomplishment like that. AL is very sneaky and It caught right up to me.. I even thought about moderating those 2 days I was just drinking beer, but just like that when right back to how I was drinking. Trying it again and just the thoughts of the past are sneaking up. I know AL could fix that. And that store is just 2 minutes away. But sticking close to my good friends here and just going to read. Alcohol is really a downer and depressant as they say, Since Im feeling so empty and worthless. After speaking to my doctor, he said He will not prescribe any meds to make the withdrawls easier, except the only thing he will do is admit me to a rehab detox center. I already did that I told him, it was only 5 days, and I learned more about drugs, where to get them and only good thing about it Is I met some great people that where going through the same struggle..

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                          #13
                          May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                          Bobbyslife;1497367 wrote: So I was on my almost 30 day mark.. As you all know my girlfriend moved on and went to stay with another man... That other man 2 days ago called me , somehow they found out where I was staying and said some nasty things, I did go back and say some awfully mean things....

                          I did go back to drinking 2 days ago... I just could not handle the phone harassment. I am trying to cut down on my drinking to get back to the norm...

                          I am a looser I cant beat this
                          Bobby

                          Thank You All For the Help
                          Wow Bobby..... Hope that was some celebratory drinking.... Just think, you might still be with the woman who thought it was appropriate to track you down with a new guy just to say nasty things to you.

                          Seems to me you got him to take some dead weight off your hands.... It's not her you are attached to, it is the thought of her.

                          So if you're done celebrating, it's time to open your life to someone who is going to see you and has no interest in nastiness.
                          Heaven is high and earth wide. If you ride three feet higher above the ground than other men, you will know what that means.

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                            #14
                            May be A Great Topic I am a LOOSER

                            Tartaroo;1498487 wrote: It's not her you are attached to, it is the thought of her.

                            .
                            Tartaroo - these are very wise words. I can apply this to my life all over the place.
                            February 27th, 2013. A New , Successful Start. :h

                            When everything seems like an uphill struggle, just think of the view from the top!!

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