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[DidItForMe]

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Gabby:

Find out where they are getting the stuff and then go personally kick that person's sorry ass! Nasty stuff!

[SKendall]

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Gabby, so sorry about your son. You can buy that stuff online now so it's really hard to control the access.

Sending hugs

[Guest]

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Gabs, when is your divorce final? Sounds like you are being kept hostage by this impending divorce. Your ex needs to get over himself and look at his boys and realize what is going on. I'm in the mood you want me to off him for you?
Hugs
Mar

[sammys]

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Hey that is not good, kids do like to experiment but when a parent finds out you have to do something. Talk to him if he won't keep trying. My Dad as I remember when I was a teen asked my everyday if there was anything I wanted to talk about, and also asked my if I was ok. He kept it up and I eventually stop experimental stage. I hope this helps.

XXX
Sammys

[happycamper68]

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A lot of kids on Vicodin these days. Drug dealers sell all sorts of pills now, plus they can buy it online if they can get hold of a credit card. How did you find out Gabbs?

My 17 year old cousin takes it too, "recreationally", it makes you high unless you actually have legit pain, then the drug would go to the pain source. And yes, very very addictive. You need to talk to your son about it, or maybe your other son knows something and he might confide in you?? Good Luck hon. :h

[betty boop]

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Wish that you lot lived in the UK, I have a very good friend that is the british champion in lots of martial arts areas, He isn't a thug but has told me that he would break the legs of anyone hurting me or any friend of mine. What a lovely friend to have .... well I love him anyway ....

[Mrs Macks]

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OMG Gabby !!! Like the others i wish in some way, or another i could help you, Please keep us informed.....sending loads of love and hugs (like that will help) thinking of you Gabster !! Love ya lots...

Lisa XX

[Popeye]

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Gabby; and your family.:h

[luv2quit]

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Gabby,
I'm in the same sitiuation as a father. Ex wife's family gives millions to childrens hospitals and grand kids are abused mentally , verbally and physically. In court 1 time a month because I'm a hobby. But I'm a firm believer GOD rewards those that do the right thing. Stick to your guns just as I have and do the right thing for the children. My kids are bought off all the time but they still prefer dad because I love them. My 16 year old told the attorney ad litem he would rather be in foster care than stay with his mother. Stay strong because others live your life also/

[Elizabeth]

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How did you find out Gabby? Is the source reliable enough? Maybe this is the time to show the courts that your X is not the stable enviroment your children need. TELL YOUR LAWYER.

[tea]

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In tears here Gabby, no advice from me though just wish I could give you a cuddle.

Lorna

[fsophiah]

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I'm with Elizabeth. All caps. TELL YOUR LAWYER. Your boys are living in a toxic environment, and they need to be removed from their father's care. There is recourse, but since you can't work with their dad, and since the boys don't want to deal with you (and why would they--you want to hold them accountable), then you need to see what you can do legally.

[gabby]

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Ok....had a long talk with the principal of the school yesterday and my attorney also.
The principal is going to do a random UA on him on monday. Which wont show anything but marijuana...but it will at least show that. He needs to be busted for something and at the very least it may slow him down. They offer a school drug rehab program. Now we all know first hand as addicts that it wont do any good unless he is willing but at least the problem will start to be brought to the forefront.
My attorney was out of town. (of course) But I got to tell his paralegal the whole sorted story. Which is so much more detailed than you all know. OMG....I would need to type for hours not to mention it wouldnt be good to flood it online. Last weekend the boys had a huge altercation with their dad on a drunk and my oldest had a fist fight with him. Both of them got scared and left. I got wind of it and managed to get them to come over to my house for safty and to get off the street. (this was at 2am) the only way I could get them to come over was to make a deal with them that I would leave them here alone. I didnt want to do that but it was my only choice. The next morning when I came home they were so baracaded in it was scary. The garage door was unpluged and TIED SHUT

[gabby]

Now I'm really worried!

Ok....had a long talk with the principal of the school yesterday and my attorney also.
The principal is going to do a random UA on him on monday. Which wont show anything but marijuana...but it will at least show that. He needs to be busted for something and at the very least it may slow him down. They offer a school drug rehab program. Now we all know first hand as addicts that it wont do any good unless he is willing but at least the problem will start to be brought to the forefront.
My attorney was out of town. (of course) But I got to tell his paralegal the whole sorted story. Which is so much more detailed than you all know. OMG....I would need to type for hours not to mention it wouldnt be good to flood it online. Last weekend the boys had a huge altercation with their dad on a drunk and my oldest had a fist fight with him. Both of them got scared and left. I got wind of it and managed to get them to come over to my house for safty and to get off the street. (this was at 2am) the only way I could get them to come over was to make a deal with them that I would leave them here alone. I didnt want to do that but it was my only choice. The next morning when I came home they were so baracaded in it was scary. The garage door was unpluged and TIED SHUT from the inside! They werent locking me out it was their dad they were hiding from. They knew I had a key to the front door that was only locked normal. But yet they live with this man! I dont get it. They come to my house for safty but live with him the drunken abuser and seem to pose to be on his side. But they have plenty of money in their pocket. My sons gf told me dad was paying my oldest 25 bucks an hour to work for him at his business. Damm....I wouldnt mind havin that kinda money. She also told me what all he was spendin it on too. This is the son that just got out of jail for marijuana use. She said she felt guilty for what he was spendin on her. I told her not to and let him blow it all on her if she could. That much less to spend on the other. She is a good girl and doesnt do anything wrong. I dont know how he keeps her. I think his looks....seriously and she has a good heart and a soft one like me. I am so glad to have her tho. She is really my only in right now. So glad she tells me stuff. I'm gonna submit this before I lose it. Computer is actin weird and I dont have time to retype. I gotta go to work and am ramblein anyway. Thanks you guys for your replys I'll be back.

[Guest]

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Damn Gab! This is so complicated. I wish you the best. I am worried for the boys as well. Why did they baricade themselves in? were they afraid their Father was coming to get them? I think somewhere deep down they might be trying to protect you that's why they wanted you out of the house. One question that is not any of my business,so don't anwser if your not comfortable. But if you have the UA done. Will the boy feel pushed to far? I am no parenting expert by far my daughter and I can barely keep it civil and she is 28.
I care
Mar