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[kuya]

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Ann Carolina;1510719 wrote: I am not prudish. I am not judgemental. I simply think that personal sexual activity is just that-PERSONAL.


And KUYA-if you are referring to ME driving drunk-more power to ya!

I certainly did. How about if I post about how great my bf is at licking me?? But maybe I could throw in that well...if I'm drunk not so great.

STUPID BS

um Ann.....no, I wasn't referring to you drink driving, I didn't even know that. Many people here drank and drove, I was making a point about group and social mores, not pointing the finger.

Being an alcoholic is considered as PERSONAL, so much so that people will drink themselves to death rather than lose face and seek help...........but we come here and spill our guts with every detail .....because it seems to help.

Maybe Sweetie felt the details made it clear how caring and giving SHE had been, making his bad behaviour after so confusing.

I don't care what personal stuff you disclose sexually, some do, but as I often say there is no right, there is no wrong, but there are consequences.

I am sure Sweetie is well aware now of the consequences of sexual disclosure in this place. She may be younger and raised in a more sexually open environment, who knows.

I don't see it as STUPID BS but definitely NOT worth falling out over Ann

[learningtolovewinter]

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Okay, well... that was rather entertaining!
Yup, kinda off to throw such stuff in the wind, but made me laugh!

(Yes, yes, inappropriate... inappropriate.....).

[FreeFly]

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He doesn't sound so great a catch Sweetie. I say dump the boyfriend, dump the booze, find yourself and then find a lovely man who will cherish you for you. I honestly think a cup of tea and good book would be so much better for you right now, and no doubt have a happier outcome for all parties involved

[hadit]

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Yeah, If this is no joke,give him a miss sweetie. Sounds like and AH to me!!! And take a good hard look at your relationship with AL. IF you need help with giving up the booze you have come to the right place!

[treetops]

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umm - I couldn't resist reading this thread.
I have another question.

Sweetie - you got up early and tried to be nice. Is there something that happened the night before that provoked this need to be nice when the guy was so much asleep?

I ask this because there is a pattern where some of us have been attentive in the bedroom area to make up for our drunken behavior the night before. And as a woman, I can say it works - to a point.
If you want to talk about your AL problem - then this is the place. Your relationships and your sex life is part of that and as others said, it up to you how much you disclose.

[Wine-no!]

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Half an hour... Girl, you got patience (and stamina) :giggle:

Anyway, as the others have said, there was no need for him to be narky.. Maybe there was something else that annoyed him? :hug:

[drinkingal]

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I think the op is taking the piss. To me it just read like someone who's baiting for a reaction, I mean who talks like this on a forum? unless they're trying to get a rise out of everyone (pardon the pun)

[Anjicia]

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I think she'staking the piss too i mean if she's read around the forum you would know that very intimate details are not really what this place is for. Its a bit vulger sorry to sound prudish. I did get a laugh out of it tho. Half hr bj's? some stamina involved lol. If he can't talk about whats bothering and you're turning to drink you need to question why are you such a relationship.

[Wagoneer]

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:blush:

drinkingal;1510842 wrote: I think the op is taking the piss. To me it just read like someone who's baiting for a reaction, I mean who talks like this on a forum? unless they're trying to get a rise out of everyone (pardon the pun)

Agreed. I am no prude, but damn! Made me blush:blush:

[paulywogg]

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perhaps she had already been drinking and it pissed him off she was up drinking so damn early? sounds like a likely scenario,or still drunk from the nite before and he knew it,would piss most people off

[bettygirl]

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i'm worried about sweetie's jaw...

[red67]

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bettygirl;1510943 wrote: i'm worried about sweetie's jaw...

:H:H:H

[Unwasted]

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OH, now that's hilarious Bettygirl. At first I thought you knew something we didn't. Then I GOT it, duh.

So, sorry I just had to laugh:H:H:H

Sometimes ya just gotta..............

[Tipplerette]

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Well if she's still reading, she now feels ten times worse. It's not ok to describe sexual acts here but it is ok to poke fun at someone who has pleaded for help here.... and you guys are STILL doing it. We've lost a few members to suicide in the last few years... what's one more. That seems to be the attitude. Anyways, lately this place has been a dissapointment.

I am still working on my sobriety but using other sites and books a lot more than coming here. The amazing, encouraging individuals are being over-shadowed by the pompous, holier-than-thou judgemental people. I'll take sex talk any day over superiority any day.

[Doggygirl]

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Tipplerette;1511060 wrote: I'll take sex talk any day over superiority any day.

Agree. We never know how deep our verbal cuts are going.

I used to drink in some really low places and did some really low things. I need to remember that and stay humble.

Sweetie if you are out there, I hope you are OK.

DG