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[Unwasted]

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Well, ok then, I apologize. Sweetie, I stand corrected - I really thought you were tooling us around.

If you're still reading please let us know that you're ok:sorry:

Sincerely,
UN

[kuya]

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Tipplerette
I'll take sex talk any day over superiority any day.



Agree. We never know how deep our verbal cuts are going.

I used to drink in some really low places and did some really low things. I need to remember that and stay humble.

Sweetie if you are out there, I hope you are OK.

DG
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I second, or is it third this?

I find it ironic that a thread entitled 'my penis is enormous' ran for many pages and provoked hilarity in all but the most religious. Talk about double standards!

Sweetie hasn't checked in since yesterday. I hope she reads this thread in its entirety and realises not everyone feels offended.

[Wildflowers]

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Tipplerette;1511060 wrote: Well if she's still reading, she now feels ten times worse. It's not ok to describe sexual acts here but it is ok to poke fun at someone who has pleaded for help here.... and you guys are STILL doing it. We've lost a few members to suicide in the last few years... what's one more. That seems to be the attitude. Anyways, lately this place has been a dissapointment.

I am still working on my sobriety but using other sites and books a lot more than coming here. The amazing, encouraging individuals are being over-shadowed by the pompous, holier-than-thou judgemental people. I'll take sex talk any day over superiority any day.

I couldn't agree with you more Tipps. But, this is MWO it's not actively moderated. At least not to the degree it may have been once. It was even recently stated by one long term member that people were often cruel to ea other, but still stayed sober. That's not for me!. No Ma'am!!!... I need & want caring, positive people as much as realisticly possible in my life.

Very hard when possibly being knew to sobriety ~ recovery. Little Strategies, vulnerable, skill sets, tools.

I mean this post upset people its there business! Tipps, its Sweeties & others to take what they like, do what's best to help them.

I've still overall been helped, as I've learned by the good & the bad from here. Still may be hard for a newer person.

I must shower away, strap my handsome sexy man in his high chair. It's creamy pesto tortelini ( ah feck can't sp ), marinated peppercorn pork medallion. I can't make up my mind salad or veggie.

Still nuts, but I'm sober. I quit smoking on my one year. I feel a bit better today. Minus marbles, hot flashes.

Sweetie, say hi to the Army if ya want.. I shall return with a thankfull post to my friend Jackie & the others. I've been over helping people, myself just a bit. On my quitsmoking forum. I took parts of MWO with me. See what you gals & guys did.

Please Come back Sweetie.... You are a capable, confident, caring woman. That's the three C's from WFS. Yes, I've been spending a little time there. Sweetie you are worth sobriety ~ recovery!!!.... :l :h

[Wine-no!]

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I certainly was not in any way offended. Check in and let us know you're ok Sweetie x

[Struggles 106]

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OH COME ON!

Anyone coming here asking for help and support gets it. I think there is no debate about that.
To get said help and support it is not necessary to go into detail about sexual activities. I do not apologize for asking if it was a joke, and I do not apologize for saying not to guilt trip people here as an excuse to drink.

I don't care what age you are there is common sense and there is self-respect that goes into what you write. I have told the unvarnished truth here MANY times about being drunk and promiscuous. Did I go into detail about the degrading things that were done to me? NO! And why is that? UNNECESSARY to the narrative-UNNECESSARY to convey the message.

I can take it if you want to demonize me for saying so. If she wants help she can get it. A lot of you responded as if the dick sucking was fine to expound on. So go ahead. I stand by my point.

If someone is in a position precarious enough to consider suicide (as was mentioned here) I doubt that my lack of interest in hearing about "riding" a penis has any bearing on that at all.

JEEZZZ

[Siren136]

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I try not to get involved in drama but I must speak up on this. The detail provided by the OP was not pornographic AT all. It was just enough to convey the level of intimacy shared by both people leading to the problem she was having. She was crying and reaching out. Publicly reprimanding her and judging her for what she posted was NOT appropriate. Period - not debateable.

If you didn't like what she wrote you had 4 choices.

1) Report the post as offensive to the mods.
2) Send her a PM asking for less detail next time or for her to edit the post.
3) Ignore it and help with the issue
4) Stop reading and go elsewhere

You can not know what effect your harsh words will have on someone else, especially on an online forum. If you cannot lead with kindness in your heart and give people the benefit of the doubt, then that says more about you than anyone else. Take your petty issues and judgements elsewhere.

[Struggles 106]

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HARSH WORDS???

The truth will set you free, and I have no petty issues or judgement.

And no thanks I will not go "elsewhere".

To clarify-I did not say anything was "pornographic".

On second thought maybe I will go elsewhere. What a bunch of bullshit

[Wine-no!]

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Ann Carolina;1511347 wrote: The truth will set you free, and I have no petty issues or judgement.

And no thanks I will not go "elsewhere".

To clarify-I did not say anything was "pornographic".

On second thought maybe I will go elsewhere. What a bunch of bullshit

I think Siren meant go to another thread rather than go to another site.
Please don't go... This is getting out of perspective :l

[Siren136]

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Ann Carolina;1511347 wrote: The truth will set you free, and I have no petty issues or judgement.

And no thanks I will not go "elsewhere".

To clarify-I did not say anything was "pornographic".

On second thought maybe I will go elsewhere. What a bunch of bullshit

Oh, ffs

1) The OP was accused of TMI - pornographic detail.

2) This post was addressed to everyone, including, but not limited to you, A-C. Not everything is about you.

Me - done with this.

[paulywogg]

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this whole thing needs to be dropped,its causing more upset between more members,sweetie probly forgot about the post already anyways,lets get our mwo peace back!

[MonaCat]

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Sweetie, you can delete this post if you wish !

[aspman]

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i must be a dirty old perv, i am a little upset i missed the unabridged version...
if you are still reading Sweetie try to not fall into the trap of letting other peoples actions be a trigger, you will 100% regret drinking to "show" someone, the old me used to do things like that.
had a good day? crack a beer.
had a bad day? crack a beer.
had a run of the mill day? why not crack a beer.
Monday, i need a beer. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, the same.
Friday i deserve a beer, sat Sunday the same. for Christ sake i used to blame the DAY of the week to have an excuse to get hammered.

take care mate, stress less. in 100years no one will even remember.

Aspy.