Army Thread MOnday 1st July

[Zenstyle]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Right! Off to my uncles to print out my boarding pass from my lappers.

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Zenstyle;1526839 wrote: You're right Arsey... it's up to me to be the adult and I need to take charge and smooth it out... same as I always have done really.

I think it was the wee kid in me got out for a while today. I have some mixed emotions about what happened when I was growing up here and I've always held it against her for not protecting me. But I'm an adult now and I better pull those socks up.

Obviously a dinnae ken yer maw - or the history an a' that. But... sounds a wee bitty like she's the kid here? (Ever spoken to her about your mixed emotions???) Parents not protecting, or somehow failing to protect (even if they don;t mean to) can breed life long resentment... even if for the only reason that one of their jobs, as parent, is to protect. Please mind yourself that by smoothing things over - i.e. YOU change, she disnae - that you don't get more resentful.

(By the way - I speak from the child's perspective as I have not yet had the privilige to be a parent)... Molls and Tipps and Satz and jacs and Whizzy and Questy and P3 (where is she?!) and others all have experience of the parent job.

I'll shurrup now. Jist had a cawfee so am a bit verbose.

[some-dumbass]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

satz123;1526752 wrote: Hey Mr DA !
This place is quiet at this time of day.
I was once called a 'skiver' for logging on at work - so now I've called this time of day : living in SKIVERVILLE .:welcome:

Are you in work at present ?
How are you feeling today on Day 1 ?:goodjob:

hi Satz,

I'm not working at the moment - got made redundant a few weeks back, remarkably not AL-related!

I'm doing okay. crappy night's sleep last night, so just woken up from a tactical nap & feel a bit more human now. I can do day1's, it's day3's that I struggle with

congrats on your 36 years btw!

SD

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Good evenings, general wavings and yooooooooooooo hoooooooooooooooooooooos
Firstly me lovely Zennifer, have this . Just getting me brain into gear. Had a bit of a nanna nap.

And to Satzuma and Mr Satz.



Just getting me brain into gear. Had a bit of a nanna nap.

[sweetpea29]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Evening Army :hallo:

Welcome DA :welcome: Have ye been reading about the site? Tool box is great for suggestions n wot

Congrats Satz on 36 yrs of marriage :goodjob:

Zen sorry yer havin a shitty day with emotions all amok. More sorry cant even give ya advice but all can do is give ya a virtual big hug:l

D'Arsey- still no speakin to ya for pissin orf to Canerda wifout me! :upset:

How's the rest of yis?

[sweetpea29]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

:hiya: Jacks

[satz123]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Zenstyle;1526831 wrote:
Happy Anniversary Satzuma and Mr Satz!!!






Young love is a beautiful thing! :h

There was a couple across from us ordered lobster - this caught my attention of course ..... I'd say they just got engaged - they were all over each other like a rash - he was hanging on her every word.
Jazus the difference between them and us. Mr S was looking over my shoulder as I spoke.
Now - I can do that -'cos I is a woman & can listen to 2 conversations at once ( been proven - stop laughing) - but Mr S :no:
I think I remember saying "never again" on Saturday ?
Do you think husbands are like the grog - we keep going back hoping for a different outcome ?:H:H

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

some-dumbass;1526856 wrote: hi Satz,
I'm not working at the moment - got made redundant a few weeks back, remarkably not AL-related!
I'm doing okay. crappy night's sleep last night, so just woken up from a tactical nap & feel a bit more human now. I can do day1's, it's day3's that I struggle with
congrats on your 36 years btw!
SD

So pleased you came back. Day 3 was always my falling point.
I know I've said before but worth saying again.
Day 1) Feeling proper crap.
Day 2) Bit better not much sleep, less crapper
Day 3) So much better, what was the problem.............I'll just have a couple.

Rinse and repeat.

Looks like you know that day 3 is going to be the biggie so a plan is needed.

A good read through the https://www.mywayout.org/community/f1...box-27556.html for a start.

Does anyone know where that 101 things to do instead of drinking thread is?

[sweetpea29]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

satz123;1526864 wrote: There was a couple across from us ordered lobster - this caught my attention of course ..... I'd say they just got engaged - they were all over each other like a rash - he was hanging on her every word.
Jazus the difference between them and us. Mr S was looking over my shoulder as I spoke.
Now - I can do that -'cos I is a woman & can listen to 2 conversations at once ( been proven - stop laughing) - but Mr S :no:
I think I remember saying "never again" on Saturday ?
Do you think husbands are like the grog - we keep going back hoping for a different outcome ?:H:H

Ah Satz(( Last night or was it night before? Yis were all putting a girl off havin kids. Now tonight yis are putting me off marriage!!

[satz123]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

sweetpea29;1526868 wrote: Ah Satz(( Last night or was it night before? Yis were all putting a girl off havin kids. Now tonight yis are putting me off marriage!!

Ah sure we stuck together for 36 years I suppose...... must be summit
can't expect lobster forever :H:H
I coudda had lobster -but didn't want it :H
Didn't want a fella all over me neither - I was just out of work, cranky & hungry :H:H
So I'll shurrup !

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

I know a good lawyer, Satz.

[Recluse]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Evening

JackieClaire;1526866 wrote: Does anyone know where that 101 things to do instead of drinking thread is?

This the one Jackie?

https://www.mywayout.org/community/f9...ing-53608.html

Congratulations again on your 36 years of marriage satzy :goodjob:

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

Knew I could rely on you , Reccybear.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

mollyka;1526883 wrote: I do know how u feel!
Man in library tonight - telling me all about the books his WIFE likes to read - titles,authors the lot - not sure that joe even knows I CAN read - never mind wot I do read!!
Ah sure - s'pose they cud b worse - huh?

:H:H:H Snort.

[satz123]

Army Thread MOnday 1st July

mollyka;1526883 wrote: not sure that joe even knows I CAN read - never mind wot I do read!!

:H:H :H
*snort*
Yeah - doubt I'd have gotten away with all me drinking in the day living with lobsterman:H