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    I AM SO UPSET...

    I just got an email from my sister telling me my cousin has died....Patty struggled terribly with AL for many many years- lost everything- home kids, husband, job.....she got it together several years ago, married a man she met in AA, had a child....

    I don't know what to do...I don't want to talk to my sisters anymore.. All they do is poisen my soul but...I want to know what happened to Patty:upset::upset:

    I am so upset ...I don't understand. How in the fricken hell can she be dead!!!!!!! No no no no no ........

    She is our age for Gods Sake!! We spent our childhood together...she was one of the few relatives who knew how fucked up my dad was...

    She can not be dead. She simply can not be dead...there is now a huge sudden crack in the earth..

    Please advise...
    I am so upset...
    :l
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    #2
    I AM SO UPSET...

    sorry for your loss

    Hi Kradle,

    I am really sorry to hear about your cousin. Is there anyone else you can call besides your sisters to find out more? I haven't dealt with loss that much but when it did happen I just consoled myself by thinking that I was experiencing the loss because of everything good I had gained from a person.

    Take care,
    Nancy

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      #3
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      I am so sorry for your loss! Please stay strong and keep posting. Perhaps you could contact her husband to see what happened versus one of your family members. Will send prayers your way!
      DW

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        #4
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        Her brother, my cousin is an attorney in the city we all grew up in. I am going to email him. I simply am in shock...
        On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
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          #5
          I AM SO UPSET...

          Oh how sad. How very tragic. Kradle keep us in the loop. You are in our hearts. My condolences to you and your family.
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            #6
            I AM SO UPSET...

            Kradle,

            I am so sorry for your loss. Let us know what you find out.

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              #7
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              Oh no Kradle,
              My sorrow to you and yours.
              FT
              AF with a few speed bumps during 2014 & 2015 but will succeed.
              As of 4/12/2014 I have not smoked at all and feel great.

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                #8
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                Kradle, I'm so sorry for your loss. I grow to hate AL more every day...for what it has done to me and my friends here. We will be thinking of you....Byrdie
                All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                  #9
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                  Kradle - I am so very, very sorry. My thoughts are with you. Please know how much we care. :l:l:l:l
                  "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                  ..........
                  AF - 7-27-15

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                    #10
                    I AM SO UPSET...

                    So sorry:l Kradle. Wishing you strength.
                    Enlightened by MWO

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                      #11
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                      I am so sorry sweetie
                      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
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                        #12
                        I AM SO UPSET...

                        Kradle, so sorry to hear about our cousin, hope you are able to find out some more information....
                        On a mission, and the only option is success. My family and I deserve a better life, an AF life.:h

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                          #13
                          I AM SO UPSET...

                          Kradle, I'm so sorry. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. Stay strong and please don't consider drinking. It makes absolutely everything worse, not better.

                          UN :lilheart:

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                            #14
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                            I'm so sorry and sad to hear this Kradle. I hope you are able to find out what you want to know, and derive some peace from it. Please stay connected to MWO while you go through this.
                            AF since 6JUN2012

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                              #15
                              I AM SO UPSET...

                              Hi Kradle,

                              Im very sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace xx

                              Thoughts are with you xx

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