Army Thread Monday 12th August

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

Girly - just sending you a whack of positive vibes. You had the wise words of Molls, Jacs and Reccie this morning - couldn't think of a better place to come, with no better people when booze has battered the shit out of you. DO please ring the number Jacs gave you and i'm wishing you all the very best. Keep coming back to the barracks. Let us know how it goes. We're here for ya hun :l

[satz123]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

Just off for a read back :waving:
btw this just popped into my in-box today: the frivolous bit resounded with me.



We all have a genius within us and when one of us doesn?t develop or use our special gift, a void takes place.

Each of us is born with a specific genius that was bestowed upon us so we can do our part to make this world a better place. All of us have a role that we?re uniquely suited for. Imagine our planet without trees, oceans, or clouds. In this same way, when one of us doesn?t develop or use our special gift, a cosmic void takes place..
This unique talent or ability may be hidden from your own sight like a golden treasure buried under shifting sands. Often, we spend so much time dazzled by the talents of others that we can overlook our own gifts. It may even be that our unique ability is something we view negatively. Perhaps we find it difficult concentrating on any one subject for long; meanwhile, others are thrilled by our ability to weave various ideas throughout our conversations. Or, you might think of yourself as ?frivolous,? when it?s likely your charming approach to life casts a light of inspiration that others can?t help but follow.
It?s important for all of us to try to find our special gift and discover how we can best express it. Ask others to name what they think is your most overlooked talent or character trait. Their answers may change your life.Explore these riches that are yours to express, and you may find yourself helping others discover and develop their own blessings. Acknowledge and appreciate the gifts you see in those around you. Tell your neighbor that loves to garden how much her green thumb enlivens the whole block. Thank your coworker for always greeting your days together with a smile. Tell your close friends that their ability to listen makes your world a better place. Our unique gifts are like golden rays of expression that can encircle the world with light.

[girly wirly]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

haven't rang yet as I haven't had the courage. i feel ill. sweaty, shaky i want a drink. i've managed lots of water and im trying to keep myself busy.

[satz123]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

girly wirly;1542739 wrote: haven't rang yet as I haven't had the courage. i feel ill. sweaty, shaky i want a drink. i've managed lots of water and im trying to keep myself busy.

Girly
Follow Jackie's advice - she works in this field.
She suggested alcohol to get you through today ?
Do as she says & make the 'phone call

[satz123]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

JackieClaire;1542685 wrote: Can't believe I'm going to say this but I'm going to have to advise you to drink today.

You're in withdrawal and at this point you need alcohol to stop them. Try and drink just a little alcohol at regular intervals.

Ring AA on 0845 769 7555 tell them where you are, leave a number and someone will get back to you.

If the symptoms get worse ring an ambulance.

Hate to sound harsh but this is serious, me lovely.

Please follow JC's advice

[Siren136]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

satz123;1542735 wrote: Just off for a read back :waving:
btw this just popped into my in-box today: the frivolous bit resounded with me.



We all have a genius within us and when one of us doesn’t develop or use our special gift, a void takes place.

Each of us is born with a specific genius that was bestowed upon us so we can do our part to make this world a better place. All of us have a role that we’re uniquely suited for. Imagine our planet without trees, oceans, or clouds. In this same way, when one of us doesn’t develop or use our special gift, a cosmic void takes place..
This unique talent or ability may be hidden from your own sight like a golden treasure buried under shifting sands. Often, we spend so much time dazzled by the talents of others that we can overlook our own gifts. It may even be that our unique ability is something we view negatively. Perhaps we find it difficult concentrating on any one subject for long; meanwhile, others are thrilled by our ability to weave various ideas throughout our conversations. Or, you might think of yourself as “frivolous,” when it’s likely your charming approach to life casts a light of inspiration that others can’t help but follow.
It’s important for all of us to try to find our special gift and discover how we can best express it. Ask others to name what they think is your most overlooked talent or character trait. Their answers may change your life.Explore these riches that are yours to express, and you may find yourself helping others discover and develop their own blessings. Acknowledge and appreciate the gifts you see in those around you. Tell your neighbor that loves to garden how much her green thumb enlivens the whole block. Thank your coworker for always greeting your days together with a smile. Tell your close friends that their ability to listen makes your world a better place. Our unique gifts are like golden rays of expression that can encircle the world with light.

This is what I was trying to say to RC in the Stella thread. Who are any of us to hide our light from the world? How dare anyone of us be ordinary? Be the best you that you can be.

Girly, I'm thinking about you and hoping you stay safe and get the help you need.

[girly wirly]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

im goingto try food

[Recluse]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

mollyka;1542676 wrote: Just gettin a wee bit uneasy here --- still haven't heard from either Si or Laura -- guessing they still aren't talking --- and I did text Laura last week that I was missing them and Jamie..... nowt back over the weekend........ NOT GOING TO STICK MY NECK IN ---- bit strange tho........ ah shit --- when Joe and I were having problems the LAST person on the planet I'da wanted in the middle of it was my mother so...........

This slipped under my radar earlier molls - I was struggling to keep up with all the posts. It's only natural you would be concerned, but I honestly think you're doing exactly the right thing by not getting too involved. All you can really do is be there if either of them should want to talk and try to keep the channels of communication open. I don't think it's possible for you or anyone to patch up their relationship for them - they have to do that for themselves, and they will do if they both want to enough. Try not to worry - the situation will resolve itself one way or another, given enough time - it has to.

[Recluse]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

girly wirly;1542739 wrote: haven't rang yet as I haven't had the courage. i feel ill. sweaty, shaky i want a drink. i've managed lots of water and im trying to keep myself busy.

Take a drink and make the call girly. There's absolutely nothing to be afraid of. No-one can make you do anything you don't want to do or go anywhere you don't want to go. If you don't like what's on offer, it's easy enough to say "thanks, but no thanks", but remember the person on the other end of the phone will be there for the sole purpose of trying to help you, so listen carefully to what they have to say.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

girly wirly;1542739 wrote: haven't rang yet as I haven't had the courage. i feel ill. sweaty, shaky i want a drink. i've managed lots of water and im trying to keep myself busy.

Now listen again, you are in withdrawal. It can be and is very dangerous.

No one else can do this for you, get a wee drink inside you and make that call.

There'll be someone waiting for you there.

[girly wirly]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

why is my poop just yellow/green water?

[satz123]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

Recluse;1542748 wrote: This slipped under my radar earlier molls - I was struggling to keep up with all the posts. It's only natural you would be concerned, but I honestly think you're doing exactly the right thing by not getting too involved. All you can really do is be there if either of them should want to talk and try to keep the channels of communication open. I don't think it's possible for you or anyone to patch up their relationship for them - they have to do that for themselves, and they will do if they both want to enough. Try not to worry - the situation will resolve itself one way or another, given enough time - it has to.
So wise Reccie ! the voice of reason always :l

Recluse;1542753 wrote: Take a drink and make the call girly. There's absolutely nothing to be afraid of. No-one can make you do anything you don't want to do or go anywhere you don't want to go. If you don't like what's on offer, it's easy enough to say "thanks, but no thanks", but remember the person on the other end of the phone will be there for the sole purpose of trying to help you, so listen carefully to what they have to say.

As above !

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

I wouldn't even hazard a guess, Girly.

You need to make that call and get some medical treatment.

[girly wirly]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

ive managed to eat. if i can just get through the day ill start antabuse tomorrow.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Monday 12th August

So you're not ringing the number.
What happens if you don't get through today?
Antabuse is a fabulous tool for staying sober but it'll do naff all for withdrawals.

Sorry, I've got to go again.