...for being drunk when you aren't? I misplaced something this morning, and dh says to me, well no wonder, you were pretty out of it-you had a whole botle of wine last night by yourself. Well, the truth is, I had a glass while making dinner, and a glass while in the bathtub- a 4 hour total time span. I did NOT pour big glasses. There was only half a regular size bottle left to begin with-leftover from Easter. So I told him that, and he said "oh", and walked away. HE had 2 beers last night. HE had so much wine on Easter he was stumbling and has no memory of the last half of the day. But because I am working on my (over)consumption, I am the identified problem drinker. :durn:
Oh well, I know the drill- it will take a while for people to register the change, and they are used to blaming me, and my drinking in the same thought. But not all of my scewups are alcohol related:H . AND, I am doing this for me, not his approval, though that would be nice. Anyway, just needed to vent a bit- I have been moderating pretty well for several weeks now, but no one at home has seemed to notice!
Oh well, I know the drill- it will take a while for people to register the change, and they are used to blaming me, and my drinking in the same thought. But not all of my scewups are alcohol related:H . AND, I am doing this for me, not his approval, though that would be nice. Anyway, just needed to vent a bit- I have been moderating pretty well for several weeks now, but no one at home has seemed to notice!
He is pretty good most of the time! Mojo-you are right, by my telling the story on him, I was trying to make myself feel better. Even though I hadn't had too much last night, I was still tender and defensive about past times. My story is just that- MY story, not his-though our lives ARE pretty intertwined after 25 plus years.
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