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    Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

    I got sent this and thought it might make you all realise and think about what you put up on here as some of you still don't get the message of the dangers.

    It is aimed at children but it has made me more cautious, especially after a couple of recent PMs I received.



    Shannon could hear the footsteps behind her as she walked toward home. The thought of being followed made her heart beat faster. "You're being silly, she told herself, "no one is following you." To be safe, she began to walk faster, but the footsteps kept up with her pace. She was afraid to look back and she was glad she was almost home. Shannon said a quick prayer, "God please get me home safe." She saw the porch light burning and she leaned against the door for a moment, relieved to be in the safety of her home. She glanced out the window to see if anyone was there. The sidewalk was empty.

    After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on.
    She sent him an instant message:
    By Angel213:
    Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

    GoTo123:
    LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighbourhood?

    ByAngel213:
    Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

    GoTo123:
    Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have
    you?

    ByAngel213:
    Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

    GoTo123:
    Did you have a softball game after school today?

    ByAngel213:
    Yes and we won!!

    GoTo123:
    That's great! Who did you play?

    ByAngel213:
    We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

    GoTo123:
    What is your team called?

    ByAngel213:
    We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

    GoTo123:
    Did you pitch?

    ByAngel213:
    No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!

    GoTo123:
    Catch you later. Bye

    Meanwhile.....GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

    Her name: Shannon
    Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
    Age: 13
    State where she lived: North Carolina
    Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.

    Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eight grade at the Canton Junior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on-line. He had enough information to find her now.

    Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ball park that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.

    By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her. Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the fear she had felt. After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of hershirt. He knew he had found her. Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

    Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

    Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

    "Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

    "Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."

    Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

    "Do you know who I am, Shannon?" the man asked.
    "No," Shannon answered.
    "I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."
    Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14 and he lives in Michigan!"
    The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them.
    But while others do it to find kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line.

    You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you.

    Your name the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."
    Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan?"
    He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"
    She nodded.
    "I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky.
    The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line.
    The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on -line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"

    #2
    Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

    Yup, I think that's what this is saying.

    If you are too honest and open, you can be taken advantage of by some who are a bit ....... dodgy, mischievious, dangerous....call it what you like.

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      #3
      Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

      Just use common sense which it seems the majority are doing. I haven't seen any information on this site that would lead to know where someone is.......then again I haven't really looked to hard.

      Thanks for the reminder, Blue
      "Keep your eyes and heart focused on the end goal at all times, and never settle for less."

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        #4
        Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

        Thanks for your reminder, Blue. Surely I'm not in danger but, I worry about my children ,the youngest one just had her 21 birthday, and she is far away. But really, staying home and chatting can be more dangerous than having fun in some place. What a strange place is our world today! My beautiful girl is perhaps safer in Praga than at home????
        Ellen

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          #5
          Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

          Bluebell, that was really scary, and the worrying thing is the number of parents who allow their children unsupervised and free access to the Internet... Its easy enough drum into them the dangers of talking to strangers on the street, people they can actually see, but the Internet is a whole different ballgame...
          A F F L..
          Alcohol Free For Life

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            #6
            Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

            That's so true. The internet is a scary instrument, particularly for kids. If I had any, they wouldn't be surfing unsupervised (sorry to be such a net-nazi, but stories like Blue mentioned are all too common, particularly here in Asia where the Internet is a relatively new phenomenon).

            All the more reason for the Pencil Mafia to have the webcam brawl, right ;-)
            Paddy
            Time's fun when you're having flies. - Kermit the Frog - eace:

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              #7
              Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

              Nah Paddy,

              I, henceforth - (or is it forthwith?), will not be participating in the "webcam brawl". I'll be the one getting my hair done that day. And every other day.

              So who the heck are the Pencil Mafia? Geeesh! What's in the water today?

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                #8
                Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

                I am of the beleif if someone wants to get you they can, With records being so public and the internet. It is easier than ever. My Grandson's Father has a picture of my Grandson on his my space account. It would be so easy for someone posing as a woman to get in touch with him find out what weekend he has him and show up and take my Grandson. Nothing could really stop it. My neighbor had a fit last year when he found out his 13 year old was calling herself "sexy girl" on her my space account. He wanted it her to close the account but his wife let her keep it with a name change. We have to be careful 2 months ago I was in a store with my Grandson man came up was talking to the boy being nice proceeded to hit on me. Don't you think I wasn't looking behind me for the rest of the day. That why I have loud dogs..and Talulah has a very protective nature.

                Mary

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                  #9
                  Dangers of Giving Out Too Much Info on the Net...

                  I just printed it off for my kids to read later today.

                  It's a wake up call, that's for sure.

                  Thanks Bluebell!

                  Tawny, I think Paddy is refering to subscribers with the pencil under their name as the "pencil mafia"
                  :h :h :h :h

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