I have been sober for a couple of "just for todays", and I am learning about boundaries!
I started realizing that certain things just didn't work for me anymore... I was amazed as my "boundaries" had no borders, anything goes, way of least resistance, etc.
I went to a music festival on Saturday, 30 000 people. I estimate that 20 000 of them were seriously intoxicated. No judgment. When I realized that I NEVER have to do it again, I was amazed! lol!
I used the 12 hours to watch ME, the way it was just the other day.... And I was overcome with compassion. Young girls (15/16) being groped whilst they looked on with glazed eyes... My daughter is 14, so it was a wake-up call for me...
On a lighter note, with all the beat-boxing and Ibiza vibes, I concluded that it is impossible, for me, to do it stone cold sober!!!!
Sobriety rocks!
Hugs from sunny SA
Sol xxxx
I started realizing that certain things just didn't work for me anymore... I was amazed as my "boundaries" had no borders, anything goes, way of least resistance, etc.
I went to a music festival on Saturday, 30 000 people. I estimate that 20 000 of them were seriously intoxicated. No judgment. When I realized that I NEVER have to do it again, I was amazed! lol!
I used the 12 hours to watch ME, the way it was just the other day.... And I was overcome with compassion. Young girls (15/16) being groped whilst they looked on with glazed eyes... My daughter is 14, so it was a wake-up call for me...
On a lighter note, with all the beat-boxing and Ibiza vibes, I concluded that it is impossible, for me, to do it stone cold sober!!!!
Sobriety rocks!
Hugs from sunny SA
Sol xxxx