Army Thread... 20th September

[girly wirly]

Army Thread... 20th September

I know Im really scared xxx

[littlepinkcat]

Army Thread... 20th September

mollyka;1558635 wrote: :H:H - d'ya'know --- I'm not --- seriously!! Joe's moods used to be a huge catalyst for me drinking --- he used to regularly go into these sort of silent sulks --- little things -- like going to bed without saying goodnight making himself a cup of tea and none for me..... silly little things... but they hurt --- and I used to get so wounded --- I'm not going to this time -- it's a year and three months since he's done this --- and it's not without reason, I know he's a bundle of nerves re. the business and everything --- but... ah feck him!!!


Fuck Girly --- trying to tone down my hard-lineism here --- but that's fucking serious.....

Our Mrs pinky is the same about feeling left out with little things similar to what ur saying and as my brain often thinks quite male, I don't even realise I am doing it, shes really sensitive to those things regularly and I am only sensitive to them things rarely, shes quite a female mind and mines quite male, he may not even realise hes doing it, mrs pinky says i do it more when im stressed

[littlepinkcat]

Army Thread... 20th September

mollyka;1558640 wrote: omg Pinky -- that is really really interesting!!! and yes, he does it with stress, and do you REALLY not realise you're doing it? I often wonder that about him cos it seems so cruel to go on like that to someone you love??

Well I soppouse the stress gets u all riled up and less aware of my actions, so I become more aware of it in how mrs pinky reacts so if she sulks etc, then i click what ive been doing, but its hard to break because when i am stressed i just kind of in my own world and not very aware of how it affects others, i would say we have a slight awareness, but the stress blocks most of the awareness

The way I think about it is Mrs pinky is very sensitive she would like to spend a lot of time with me and likes kisses goodbye and cuddles and to be generally made to feel like shes the only girl in the world to me and 80% of the time i try to do that, but I have to think to do that cause my mind doesn't automatically work that way and i can seem cold, aloof and cruel. However when she says to me after hours of sulking what ive done i think well u r the only girl to me and i realise i do not naturally show that outwards ALL of the time and some women like it to be ALL of the time and most male minds can mange it 70-80% of the time and in that 20% the female mind sometimes kicks off a bit, just an opinon though and im sure many women on here will beat me with a club for saying this, LOL

[littlepinkcat]

Army Thread... 20th September

Mollers enjoy the coffee................ it's not a needy thing when some women react that way it's more of just how they are like a natural thing, it's part of some womens personality, it's not a bad thing, it's just some males don't work that way as often as some women do and thats when slight conflict may arise, it does me the world of good for mrs pinky to tell me i'm being cold cause then i can address it and start to be more mindful of her

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

mornin...

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

wot a good read this mornin on the thread.
yer a smart cookie Pinky...
might start PM'ing you for advice and such!

Molls - its my birthday!
Honest...
No really, it really REALLY is....
Uhm....
Can i have TWO cupcakes?

why does nobody believe me?!

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

x-post there Molls :hallo:

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread... 20th September

Good morning Zennifer, Nora, Pinkles, Mollymoo, Girly Wirly, Tippppppperooooooo, D'Arsey,

Girly, sounds like you're going through a horrible time, but believe me and the 200 or so others here that it will get better. Good for you for opening up to your other half and friend.

Ackshully think there was a thread going on about liver pain..............I'll go find it.

[Recluse]

Army Thread... 20th September

Morning

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread... 20th September

Found it. Chief Bromden (sp) is the thing I vaguely aware of.

https://www.mywayout.org/community/f9...ain-80130.html

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

Morning Jacs and Reccy :wavin:

Special :l to you Girly. As ever Jacs and Molls giving the best advice possible.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread... 20th September

Morning Reccy and Amybear.

Crikey I can't stop .

I'm orff out for lunch with the luvverly Jenz. Might actually put me glad rags on.

Ooh ya divil smoking in the sitting room. Shall I get ya a large bottle of Frabreze while I'm in town.

Here is one amazing fact from me. We've lived in this house for 26 years plus and I have never ever smoked in any of the bedrooms.

[Recluse]

Army Thread... 20th September

Think I wanna join your Aftercare group with all those cakes you make for them molls. Does anyone else there make cakes?

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

mollyka;1558666 wrote: :H:H -- sorry Arsey --- just mebbe insert a 'sometimes' (with regard to me!) into that statement:H

:H

Aye, but it's always meant with the very best of intentions.

[RunningCourage]

Army Thread... 20th September

Recluse;1558670 wrote: Think I wanna join your Aftercare group with all those cakes you make for them molls. Does anyone else there make cakes?

There's a ship sailing at 11am Recs... if we run we could catch it and get some cakes in :H