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[Niblet]

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Luv, I'm so sorry to hear that your Mama took a turn for the worse Hon... Drink plenty of water and hop back on track.. You can do this... Love and Hugs to you...xxx

I'm not sure if I'll stop by later tonight as our son has a friend over and it is "Survivor" night... popcorn and no telephone calls...
Well, I should get ready for work..
I gotta add guys, Hubbys brother called in a huff last night stating that he was calling a family meeting... their single mother (who sold a house, has a retirement pension, an inheritance from her mother 8 years ago) needs the three of them being my hubby , his bitch sister and pricky brother to set up a payment plan...where we pay x amount of dollars permonth for her to keep her 2 Bedroom apt, van, her insurances etc... ect.. anyhow, my hubby said that wasn't possible as we just bought a camp a couple years ago, the boys aren't grown and gone etc.... His brother then yelled, "I just want to see your F@###$ in' A$$ at the meeting !!! My hubby said, "you had better talk to me a little nicer buddy" then his brother hung up... My hubby was just like the man of the house back when he was only 14 making sure the furnace kept going, clearing the drive, painting the house, mowing the huge lawn... and on and on.. He had a full time summer job at 15 for goodness sakes... no fun was had... His mom and dad always said, " You Owe Me " for what ? giving birth to him? I don't understand it... Poor hubby couldn't hardly sleep,,,, we just want to be left alone...this sucks... Both our families are soooo warped,,, then again it makes you wonder if it is you ??
So, I will enjoy this sunny day and be happy to have a loving family, hubby, critters and you guys along with Dad and Lyndy... hugs xxx

[toughintexas]

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Luvbug, I'm so glad you are ok, I was really worried, I just happened to come in the kitchen and refreshed the computer before I turned it off, and saw your thread....I flopped around all night last night....just hang in there ok, its going to be alright, you know we are here for you! I'm finally feeling better, but hubby is down for the count, had to call in our relief pharmacist from Houston to come work for him, so I'm going to be playing nursemaid, assisted living helper, whatever starting today, to get him better. Next week is our anniversary, and my birthday, and we had some plans, but they'll go to heck in a handbasket if we don't rally to the finish soon! Nibs, have fun for Survivor night, seems like you are in survivor mode yourself, I swear families can be the craziest things ever...sounds like your Mom-in-law has plenty of means to care for herself, they should just make investments with her assets and let those pay for the monthly expenses....they are probably thinking they'll divvy it up 3 ways, and when she's gone, split up her estate 3 ways, but, that's kinda dumb if you have to "support" her til death do them part! I say, your hubby should do whatever he feels like is best for his FAMILY....you and the boys, sounds as if he's paid his dues already! Magic, Cindi, glad you are both sooooo great, and with us here! DET, don't OD on caffiene buddy, you'll be shake, rattling and rolling like a fiend...lol....I know DX is anxiously awaiting your return, have a wonderful weekend you two! Ok, I'll try to check in later if I can catch a break from nursing....lol....love you all...

[Guest]

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OMG, this is why I stopped drinking...INSTANT IDIOT...for sure. Bad day, but better today. I love you all to death. I didn't even remember half of the crazy crap I posted. Embarrassed..yes, but humbled. It is in BLACK AND WHITE just how dumb a drunk gets. OMG.....I am so sorry I worried you all.

[MDBiker]

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We're just glad you are ok and back luv.

Nibs, I swear. I agree with Tex. I wouldn't let her go without food or a place to sleep; but if his bro and sis want to take care of her in some special way, tell them you admire them for their generocity and kindness. Then move on back to he crib.

Tex, I hope hubby has an easy time with the flu.

Cindi, I too like the new name. I hope you are doing well.

Everyone else, I am running late and have to get back to work. I will check in later if I can

bear

[Guest]

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I reallly just want to die, I am so tired of fighting.....

[KatieSmiles]

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LUV!
Stop this insanity right now!
Hang on and hang on tight, girl!

[Determinator]

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Luvs, you are down because your body and brain are depressed from toxic overload....time, AF, exercise and vitamins is the cure for anything. I know it sounds simple but isn't. This fight gets unbearable at times and just when you think you can't take it....you can. and then it starts to get a tiny bit better. Hang in there hon XXXXX

[bird]

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Hi all,
Its raining so hard it frightens me. Its like a monsoon out there. Wish I'd picked the kids up from school instead of them in the bus in this shit. Too late now. I got some powdered l glut the other day and it really works so much better than the pills. Going out to dinner with friends tonight so I will need it. I dont really like going out on Fridays, I just like to kick back at home. Maybe theyll cancell cuz of the weather. Am still busy with dental appts and monday I have a physical. Wed. my oldest to the orthodontist and more dentist the following week. Geez....luv hope you are feeling better. Things can be so difficult at times. Later on. love bird

[MDBiker]

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Luv, are you feeling better? Come on and visit with us a little. We welcome you back.

bear

[Cinders]

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LUV,

When you are sober and read this, I want you to note something that I have noticed when I drink and then look back at my posts.

We drink to escape something, be it pain or worry, etc, and what it does is end up depressing us so badly!!

It is actually a good thing to do, Luv, go back and reread your posts and realize what your drunk brain says to everyone else. It is truly telling.

I am truly praying right now you are okay. You are a mommy and are needed, Luv. :l

Your friends here need you, too.

Love,
Cindi

[magic]

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Hey LUV,

I sent you a long PM this morning before I went to work but your box is full.

We all get tired of fighting sometimes but what's the alternative?

Giving up? Look at what you'll be giving up, sweets.

We must play the hand we are dealt. All of us. Each and every one of us.

I know very few people who have an easy life. Some appear to but they are lying.

While playing this game of cards we make choices. Some wise, some not.:h

There ARE things in this world we CANNOT change. We can change how we deal with them, how we feel about them, what to do about them.

If you need to go to your Mama, GO.

God Bless, LUV.

I promise that your world will be better, one day.

Nancy xxx

[bird]

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Nicely said Magic.

[Niblet]

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Hello everybody,
Luv I hope when you are reading this you are feeling alot better... You have had enough...
If only I could share your burden I would....

I had to get up bright and early to be at the school for the senior boys basketball tournament... Then it was off to town for a surprise birthday party for my cousin... It's kinda funny because he was born on the leap year..so this year he is 40, but actually only having 10 real birthdays.. Well Tom is a private investigator so we bought him a kiddie police bade, handcuffs, a gun and holster, baton etc along with a card for a 10 year old boy... We left the party early and no presents were opened yet, so I'm sure he'll be cuffing all his fellow police officer friends that were at the party also... He is such a good sport... He will have a pounding head along with many more of them tomorrow morning...Me, I'm looking forward to sleeping in, drinking coffee and watching fishing shows.

Tex and Bear thankyou so much for giving me the true peace of mind ... It was bothering me so much to think that we would be strapped into yet another monthly payment.. all for nothing... If there was anything in the end the sister and brother would get it all... so many special little things belonging to their father was given to them as they are the favourites... I love that we do our own thing, pay our own way and are never surprised or disappointed. Thanks again.. I just knew I would get some non-judgemental oppinions...xxx

So, my eyes are getting heavy and it has been a very long day... One hour at a time Luv.. Please know that I love you dearly... We will always be right here for you... Always. Have you called your loving Daddy? I remember one time you had talked with him on the phone and his loving words put you at such peace.. You felt that he knew exactly the right thing to say.. Please consider calling him. He loves you dearly and knows you are hurting.

[Guest]

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Good morning all, up early this morning and I am making bacon, sausage, and pancakes. We gotta get out of this house today, so I think I will take the kids bowling and out to eat. My friend and his daughter will go also. Our daughters are both 14 and love each other to death. Hope you are all well...thanks for putting up aith my craziness lately. I love you all deeply.

[Niblet]

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Yummm Luv that sounds deeeee - lisssshhh !!!!
Enjoy this beautiful day with friends and familly xxx
It is super sunny and warm for a change... Yahhoooo it almost feels like spring !!
Gonna go outside for some fresh air and sunshine
I have to be into work really early tomorrow morning to cover a shift, so it almost feels as though I haven't had a weekend off atall... Oh well.. Enjoy your day everybody, Hugs, xxx