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[magic]

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Luv.....

I love you as well.

Please find a good rehab centre and check into it. Soon.

Ask for the help you need and deserve.

Sometimes it's hard to believe but there are people in this world ready and willing to help you but it's up to you to find them and ask.

Please.....start asking.

More2 is right, love yourself as much as you love your children.

Love yourself as much as your children love you.

Stand up, Lisa, head held high, and ask for help.

Then accept it. All of it. You are worthy.

Nancy xxx

[Guest]

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I sit here today, crying......................why do I do this to myself? I went in Brittanys room, alll her clothes are gone. My babies are gone. I reallly haave no reason to live anymore. I have failed, I am a failure!!!!!!!!!!

[doubter]

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to luvuall

Dearest luvuall,
Please do not fall into the depths of depression. I sincerely am praying for ur well-being. Also, I remember u as the kindhearted person who was the first one to comfort me when I first posted in distress.
Ofcourse, I'm sounding cliched but please don't get too dejected. You've been wonderful. Now be strong.
Warmest regards
Doubter

[Guest]

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I am looking today for a rehab. I have to get in one. I have tried to do this alone and I can not.

[Guest]

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I know several of you only check this thread....I am having a hard time and NOW, this morning I get a call and a very good friend of mine lost her husband last night in a car accident. I just can not believe this. Why????? He was young, they have a daughter.....WHY???? You have no idea what it feels like to open your door and the highway patrol and coroner be standing there telling you your life as you know it is over. I just can't understand this. Why does this happen???? It ruins your life....LITERALLY. It is ruined. Everything you do and live for is changed. I will never forget the first time I went grocery shopping after Billy died. I bought all this food, food only HE ate. I sat in the car and sobbed for an hour. I didn't realize it until I was putting it in the car and it dawned on me that he was dead and NO ONE liked the stuff I bought but him. I was just so used to buying it, it didn't occurr to me. I started drinking.....his 2 year anniversary is almost here. He has been gone 2 years.

[Cinders]

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Luv,

Get into rehab now. Please?? There must be some around you close. Call AA and ask them. Lots of people in AA have gone to rehab!!

Please, please, please take care of yourself.

Love,
Cindi

[southernbelle47]

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Luv....You have so much pain.....Please love YOUR kids enough to not put them through any more pain that only you can control. You have to know how it feels to loose someone you love...don't do that to them. Get some help today......please?

You know I love you and sending prayers for you.
:hNancy

[Guest]

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I tried Pm'ing Bootsie...................her mailbox is full..I need Lenairs #

[KateH1]

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Luv,
Here is the # 1-888-419-8392. I hope you call.

XX Kate

[LVT25]

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LUVUALL---
I know you don't "know" me, but I see what you're going through and it seems like so much for one person to bear. I just want you to know I am so very sorry, and I care. I so wish there was more I could do, like even give you a hug. I'm late for work, but I'll keep checking in, and if you just want to talk to anyone you can PM me. I've been through some of the same. Hang in there!!!!

[Guest]

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I called!!!!!!!!! He is calling me back this afternoon.

[KateH1]

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Great!! Luv,
I would also keep trying to contact other rehabs. It will help you to stay focused. If there is a wait for Lenair, at least you will have options. Have you contacted your County Mental Health Org.? Most of these organizations have low or no cost treatment. You do not have to commit to a program until after you hear back from Lenair.

It appears that you need help Now! Drinking is no longer an option! Waiting is also not an option.

You know your children are safe with their father. A short time away from them to do this will give returns 100 fold. For all of you.

Take Care

[toughintexas]

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LUV, if you can't get there this week, then find another place, I'm going to e-mail Bear to look up however he looked up the places for Morrison, just in case! Love you tons!

[morrison]

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Luv, I couldn't find that email Bear sent to me, but this looks like the site that will lead to the list of rehab centers.

Substance Abuse Treatment Facility Locator

I would have done a more filtered search, but I don't know what city Luv lives in. If anybody knows, you can click the link and do a refined search. I'll PM Luv the link as well.

[Niblet]

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Luv, I'm not quite sure what to say ... I love you dearly and wish I could share your heavy load... I'm so very sorry about your friend losing her husband and their little girl losing her daddy.. That is just heart wrenching...
I'm so glad that you are checking out Lenair... Please know that your children think the world of you and want you well... we all love you so much xxx Please love you too.