30 days???

[brittzak]

30 days???

Bootsie, where's are UTUBE show? Can't wait to see.

[louise]

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Thanks LUV. I have followed this thread off and on over the past year (since I've been off and on) but didn't post a lot as I was trying to moderate and the goal here seemed to be AF. That went well for a while but then the old habits came back. So I'm back and trying for an AF stint of at least 30 days. Starting day 8. Made it through Fri night which is always the hardest for me (Jewish, custom is to say blessing over candles, wine and bread and have nice dinner) so I'm rooting for you too Rusty. Hope everyone is having a nice weekend.

[cowgal]

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hey all

I am just sneaking on, well, don't really have to sneak, Mike went out to a party DRINK OFF HIS A$$!! He really shouldn't be driving all the way across town, hope he doesn't kill someone or get a DUI! Maybe that would be a lesson though!? I am on day 4 today Rusty, so 1 day behind you, someone said these 2 days 4 & 5 are really emotional, but I have just had the BEST DAY ever!!

Happy Saturday everyone, talk to you later!!!

love and hugs,:l:h:l

MA

[Cinders]

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Hi, my 30 day friends. I haven't had a chance to post over here much lately. I've been busy elsewhere.

But know you are always with me.

Nibs, glad you are having fun with the gardens!!

BearFamily, we are all so thankful you are with us. I watched the whole wedding video the other night. I was in a lot of pain and it really helped me get through some tough hours in the wee morning. What a beautiful wedding.

TNT, I talked to my girl about the Lithium Orotate. I think I am going to order it. Thanks for the advice and info.

Mary Anne, day 4, AWESOME!! Decide no matter what happens this weekend with hubby, you are gonna get through it. I am very proud of you, girl.

Louise, glad you are here, the people on this thread are just incredible.

Bootsie, HI!!

Morrison, If you pop in, just wanted to say "hi" to you, too. I am still on the Antabuse, are you?

More2, I hope you get better soon. I've really been hurt by this silly thing I have, beginning to wonder if it is something besides just a simple sinus infection. Have to wait it out to see.

Luv, just a couple more weeks!! You had better share the minute you can!!

Det and Dx, Hi!!

If I have missed anyone, I am so sorry.

Other than this neuralgia I am having, I am feeling much better today and I have my two grandsons over to "spend the night" just for the heck of it. So glad to be sober so I can do that.

Love,
Cindi

[Rusty-576]

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:thanks:Hi everyone: I cannot believe how supportive everyone has been thanks to everyone for making me feel welcome
Brittzak Thanks for telling me I am the new nut in the tree
Louise I am rooting for you we both made Friday night. Saturday night is my problem night but I will be AF
Cowgirl I am so glad you had such a great day I hope you rack up many many more
Determinator thanks for all you strength and support
Niblet thanks for all of you encouragement

Be well everyone

[louise]

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Hey Cowgirl, Did you just say your husband drove across town drunk to go to a party? I didn't realize you were only on day 4 or 5. I would say you are one strong person to stay AF with that. I'm glad you had a good day. Hang in there with Rusty and me. We will all say for the weekend we were alcohol free on Monday. Can you convince your husband to take a taxi home?

[brittzak]

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Lousie, I think most of here have the goal of being AF, but we don't always achieve it. Whatever anyone's goal is or where there are in achieving, they are welcome. No one here has LONG LONG term sobriety. We are all trying though. So post away girl! None of us are perfect. I like coming here because the love and support is UNCONDITIONAL! There is very little love in life that is unconditional.
Cindi, YES less than 2 weeks away now. Starting to freak alittle. Funny how bad I want this, I am driving half way across the world and spending a freaking ton of money, but I am nervous as hell! I am confident though that this will be my answer. The accomodations I made while in Vermont has WIFI, so I will be posting to let you all know.
Rusty, keep hanging in. It is worth it! You can do this.
To everyone else.....I hope you are all having a nice weekend. LUVUALL so much!

[cowgal]

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hey all

It is Sunday AM, he didn't kill anyone, I am starting day 5......................hopefully I can talk someone into riding a short one this AM..........then to gym, pool, meeting w/ my sponsor to tackle steps 1 & 2, then a meeting........another full day, so I KNOW I will be AF!!

Louise, thanks for the thoughts, you will be fine!! Rusty, hope you made it and have a great day today.

LUV, I am sooooooooo excited for you going to Lenair!! You will do great!!

Nibs, hope you have fun in your garden!

Cindi, you are so kind, and remembering everyone, I am trying to, but know I will miss a few sorrilly.................(is that a word??)

TNT, Bird, Dex and Det, Bearfamily.................... HI!

Have an AWESOME Sunday everyone!!!!

Lots of love!!!:l:h

MA

[greeneyes]

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One week and I'll be packing for Lenair. To never drink again. To be my normal self. To quit fighting every day. I can almost feel my horizons ready to open up. Like Luv, I'm a little nervous too. I sort of wish I wasn't going alone. It's OK, it'll be very grounding for me. And really, this is all about me. Maybe sometimes major life changes are just meant to be handled alone. I have all of you and some of my close friends and siblings. Thank goodness.

[Ripple]

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I have a question: does Lenair cater to Ethic backgrounds? A woman i was in rehab claimed to have gone to this fabulous place in Vermont once because she American Indian and did not have to pay a dime? Any dibs on this, could it be the same place?

[greeneyes]

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Rippy, I don't think so. Perhaps there was a government stipend or something like that. They have a non-refundable deposit and when you go for your first visit, you pay the balance when you walk in the door. Notihng in the handboook indicates ethnic discounts. I think that would be asking for trouble in a legal sense. So if it was Lenair, I would bet SOMEBODY paid for it.

[brittzak]

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Ripple, I doubt it was Lenair. There is nothing in the booklet they mail out upon making the appointment about your ethnic background. To even make an appointment you have to pay 1200.00 AND it typically takes at least a month, maybe longer to get in. It is a privately owned practice. I wonder where she did go, that is interesting.
Greenie......we are certainly about to embark on a BIG change, aren't we? I know we will be so glad we did this.
Cowgal, hope you got a ride in this morning and glad hubby made it home OK.

[Ripple]

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no problem, going by her story. I know the state was paying for her 3rd. Rehab in Connecticut. I believe she was certainly Indian and did do a program in Vermont, where I am uncertain. It was a really nice place...Every situation is different. She was a trip thats all i know!

[Ripple]

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well, you girls are choosing a delightful time of year to be in beautiful Vermont, one of the most earthly states in the northeast to do your rehab. It is so peaceful and quiet in Vermont. I hope the best for you both as you picked a glorious place. If you want Rippy to visit you, i will. Just let me know, it is about a 2 hour drive. :l

[brittzak]

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Ripple, Janie and I are going to try and see each other, maybe we could all have dinner? I need to get there and see how the first day goes. Bootsie was REALLY tired and slept alot after I have never been to Vermont so I am pretty excited about it.