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[Niblet]

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Luv what a jerk the kids Dad is !!!! Gosh, one day he'll wish he could get this holiday back with them... What can you do but exactly as you gracefully have done... Make a wonderful Thanksgiving with your loving family... You are an amazing Mom. xxx
I'm making a plan to stop by everyday or so and not get out of touch again. I just felt too disconnected.
I hope you are all well, Hugs xxxx and a to go with it !

[brittzak]

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So glad to have you back home Nibs...you were so so missed!!!!!!

[brittzak]

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Goodmorning my luvs....woke-up hot, stuffed up, in a complete rage of FUNK this AM...it got kinda warm in the house last night and I had on flannels...dog is crying like a fool for her food...I kid you not she SCREAMS for it like a baby...so I stumble to laundry room cursing like drunken sailor cause I am pissy....give her food growling at her...stumble back to shower, get in OH WHAT RELIEF...my head was so stopped up from the heat in the house...so felt 1000's time better and instant mood adjustment. Got ready for work, kids ready for last day of school before the holiday...and off we came. Still AF and having no cravings at all.....YIPEEE!!!!! Made chili last night so brought it for lunch today. Painted Zak's room lastnight...looks so nice!!!! Have to put all his new decorations up tonight...his room is being done in Georgia Bulldog's...his fave! Even got the ceiling fan. He is very excited!!!!!

[bestlifeldms]

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More2,

These are such difficult times. It's hard to have our lives, as we know them, totally change at one time. It is good that your son shared his feelings and that everything is on the table. So much better for him to share his pain than to carry it alone. "Would I be crazy to let her?" I think you already know the answer to this. I would discuss it carefully with your hub and make the decision together. What an adventure!

[brittzak]

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Have any of us ever done a sane thing in our LIVES...so your all moving to CALIFORNIA....GREAT! I think you know the answer already as well. GF has been around for awhile...... At least your son can come to you, for that you should feel very proud. You raised him right!!!!! I knew leaving your house had to be hard. I didn't realize your son was coming..I thought he was staying there for college....do what you all feel is best for your family as a whole. I think the decision is made already though like best said!

[momof3]

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I'm with the girl going to CA. Then of course, I love happily ever afters.

Happy TG to all

Mo3

[brittzak]

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING to all my 30 day family.....I am up and cooking already. LOVE IT!

[Niblet]

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Happy Thanksgiving to all my USA neighbours !!!!

Awww... More2, what a heartwrenching situation for your sons GF.... I also think that this sweet gal should be able to have a chance at a good life away from home... If it doesn't work out for whatever reason, you've done the best you can with Gods child... Sometimes when sad situations such as selling the family home etc brings you all closer together as you grieve leaving it... Be well my friend. xxx
Is that turkey I can smell all the way up to Northern Ontario??? Teee !! Heee !!!
It's great to be back guys, Love you all lots and then a titch more, Hugs, xxx

[greeneyes]

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Hey everybodoy! Had a great day yesterday! Fun games after dinner & laughed so hard we almost peed our pants. Tears in the eyes! Everyone but me was drinking wine, but all was great! Going to pack a lunch and go letterboxing today. I have 10 finds in my log book so far! I got a little blue ribbon by my name on the site We might make one to plant today. Wish I could stay longer, but even this much has made a big impact in the healing myself and my life arena. So grateful for that. :h

[brittzak]

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Greenie.....you sound so good. I am glad you found a hobby to busy yourself with. Sounds great!!!!!

We went and had Christmas pics today and furniture shopped....I have found living room furniture finally. I am buying new furniture and a Dyson vaccum cleaner for the house for Christmas. Brit and I both HATE our vaccum now....we have a Rainbow...was a costly mistake. I think I was half drunk when I bought it and I hate it!!!! My God lugging the thing around is painful it is so heavy.

Made a huge pot of soup today. Ham, tomatoes, and rice...I make it with the leftover ham every year after Thanksgiving...so the winter soups are in the freezer now!

Now, I think I need to paint before the furniture comes...UH...I am NOT doing it...my neck and shoulder are still really hurting me, so I am contracting this chore out. Hope I can find someone in December...

[cowgal]

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hi all

I am sad and lonely here, TG was ok, ate alot to compensate for being in the zone as everyone else...............nobody but the kids were really sober....................was a drag. I thing today was worse though, feeling TERRIBLY lonely right now.............heading to a meeting, but wondering if I will ever feel "loved" or "a part of" did the "turkey trot"yesterday, had a little fun, but just w/ this family, not feeling good...........................REALLY REALLY REALLY want to just "escape", you know, drop out of sight, or disappear for a while.....................

love you guys, feel like I belong here, but that is about it, and at AA, so off to a meeting in 1/2 hour...........................sorry to be down, just been crying alot, left dinner w/ tears in my eyes.:l:h:l

MA

[brittzak]

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OH MA....I am so sorry. I really don't have any advice honey. Hopefully, some members in AA can offer some advice. I do feel for you and wish I could say or do something to help though. You are welcome to come visit if you need a break???? I would even meet you somewhere. Just a thought...love you

[greeneyes]

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Hey, offer's here too MA! I'm by myself and have a guest bedroom! I get that feeling sometimes too. It won't last. You and I are too high spirited for those feelings to get a hold on us! Surf the wave......:l

[brittzak]

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Hell, I might come escape to your house Greenie...LOL You don't think MA needs to come to a Zoo with 2 kids????? We are actually very quiet believe it or not ...now I can't make Iris (cockatoo) behave real well but everyone else has been trained...LMAO....

[greeneyes]

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LMAO!!! That's not what I meant when I said I'm by myself! The way you cook all the time, I'm coming to YOUR house for a break. I'll bring games to play any you cook, LOL!! Actually, I'm not kidding. :H