30 days???

[cowgal]

30 days???

Feel for you

Spedteach I hope you can get back on the wagon, as I have a hard time fighting this too.

Hugs,


Mary Anne

[brittzak]

30 days???

Spedtech,
Have you tried Topa? Have you tried the supps from here with Topa?

Greenie and Nibs...my nirdies have laid 5 eggs...man I hope they hatch...

[cowgal]

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nirdies!

HA, LUV, I hope that was a topa-dopa mistake or do you call them that? I am so happy for you, new lives in your own back yard!! How sweet is that, will you adopt them and hand feed or just let their mommies do their job, don't know much about how that works, just think it is cool as can be!!!

I made it back to AA yesterday, the meeting I had my accident at, had butterflies in my stomach walking in the door, but got nothing but love and hugs from everyone who knows me.............

We are going to try to go to the beach but it really looks like rain.......................we'll see, think I will get my butt to the gym, have gained about 5 pounds just eating and sleeping over the past week recovering, that SUCKS!! Will lose it as quickly though, probably mostly water weight, and without drinking it should be easy!!!

Miss you all, please check in, haven't been able to get on my pc for about 4 days, my only way to check in has been my phone and I am not always that good at typing on that thing!:H

XOXOXO:l:h

MA

[cowgal]

30 days???

Where is everyone??

I feel so lonely................:upset: just kidding, but I do miss everyone. Finally about back to normal here after the accident, they still have my car so I am sure I have a huge bill coming for what is not covered on that, then I fork over$500 when I pick up the car......Oh well , I am alive and won't have a car paent for a while.....

Xoxoxo

MA

[greeneyes]

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Hello, Hello! Alive & well here!

MA, why would there be stuff they didn't cover? You should just be out your deductable, right? Glad the AA meeting was a good one for you. :l

Luvie, how's those nerdies? :H

sped, We're going to have to put you in remedial class! Maybe just try to do damage control when you DO drink if you just can't stop yourself. Why does hubs come back earlier than 30 days? Does he have trouble fending for himself? If he actually stayed gone 30 days would that make a diff whether you drank or not? This is turning into 80 questions.

Nibs, "light" the sauna? Wha, gas? My pets are shedding like crazy too. I put some lip stuff on my chapped lips the other night and had furry lips from the pet hair. Ewww...

[cowgal]

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hey

Have a little time before Mike, yes horrible, terrible fearful MIKE comes in.................he is out of control......................taking my first test Friday, was delayed by the accident, but was just talking w/ a friend and the sooner (ASAP) I can get out of this delusion the better, that is basically what it is, "everything is fine, we will be ok, then the other side, "You whore, you are cheating on me, I know it, I want a divorce",......................I cannot stand it much longer...............:upset::upset: Just how I feel right now, and BTW my house is infested w/ fleas AGAIN, just like last summer, the dog has to go if nobody will care for him, it is neglect!!!! I care for the horses, chickens, cat, :h the dog was Mike's deal, I have told him a MILLION times he has to get him to the vet, he is dying!!!! The fleas are sucking all his blood, it is horrible, maybe I will take him in the rental (in all my spare time!!???)


LUV, Greeneyes, Nibs, anyone I missed, love ya:l:h

MA

[greeneyes]

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MA, I don't think from from your side of the fence that you can see what he is doing to your self esteem. (Ahem, voice of experience here.) There is no "we". He is on a dangerous volitle path of self destruction and is taking prisoners. He has already hurt you emotionally and physically and it is only going to escalate. IMHO, you are in an ever increasing dangerous situation. Let me give you a little gentle encouragement......

GET THE F**K OUT OF THERE!!

I think that pretty much covers my take on things. :l :h

[time2change]

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MA
I wish I could say that I think Greenie is wrong, but I can't. You know that I have been in your shoes and when you are in the situation it seems so easy for others to tell you what you should do. However, I hope that you know it is because some of us have been in your shoes that we can give you advise. There are no easy solutions in this situation, but you must do what is best for you and the kids. Your self esteem is only one of the things he is going to destroy and the sooner you can get away from the situation the better off you will be. We are only saying so because we care....:l:l:l

[spedteach]

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Good morning,
Bet everybody's sleeping. I volunteered to take some friends to the airport at 5:00 so I'm up, drinking coffee.
MA, don't really know your situation, but from what I've read, it sounds pretty horrendous. Picking up and leaving is a scary thing, but it sounds like maybe that's what you need to do. Glad you're safe after your accident.
Greenie, I do need remediation! How about remedial rehab. My husband comes back when I'm sober and I ask him to. 30 days gone wouldn't really make any difference, except financially...30 days at a motel!
Got to go to the airport.
Hey y"all. I do have 12 days af today.
Will check in later.

[greeneyes]

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Sped, GREAT JOB ON 12 DAYS!!
Gee, 30 days in a motel, no wonder he comes home early. That's like a double whammy punishment for him! Is there something that you think WOULD work? Wonder if a behaviorist can set up their own behavior mod program in an unbiased fashion? That would be tough.

MA, time is much more graceful than I. I know nibs, luvie, TIT, Bird and all are going to agree that you need to get away from him. You know we love you and can't stand what we are watching. What can we do to help?

[cowgal]

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Hey all

iAnother rainy day here, don't know how much more I can take!!!!! My yard is and has been a swamp for about a week now!! Hope you all are well...... David just had his mammogram for his lump on his right breast, he has a lump on it that has been hurting and growing...... Poor kid, he was a little embarrassed going to a mammogram office as a guy, but it is the only way to check and be sure it is not cancer, the labwoek came back normal, which is a good thing, now we kust have to wait for these results......hanging in here, not the greatest, but not too bad either......really BAD day at work yesterday, today not so bad.

xoxo

MA

[brittzak]

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MA....in your own time you will get out of there. I don't know how you are staying. He is abusing you honey. I know you know it. I have all been in your shoes....you will get out. One day you are just gonna wake up and say I can't take it anymore. I can't live like this anymore. My first husband beat my face in the floor. He degraded me....it took me so long before I finally left. I finally had enough. I don't know why, but one day I just couldn't take it anymore.
I mean birdies...not nirdies..LOL I am a retard sometimes.
Sped...good for you on the 12 days!!!!

[brittzak]

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Hey we now have 6000 posts....geez...

[greeneyes]

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Looks like a pretty weekend here. Gotta do house chores and the yard is ratty. The shrubs need it too! So I'll go to a craft fair instead! I can haul ass like MA and Luvie and knock out the house this AM and do doggie park and a little yard work tonight. Figure out tomorrow tomorrow. Luv have fun at the zoo today. Geez, did you sleep at all last night? I slept through Jay Leno. I knew I would.

OK MA, I'm backing down. I just wish you'd hurry up. You deserve no less than sheer joy in your life. Come up anytime you want to get away. :l

That eyeball startled me when I clicked save, LOL

[brittzak]

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That would be great MA...we could all three get together. I didn't sleep at all Greenie. Had alot on my mind. I am very stressd out right now. I am nervous about today too. I am hoping taking Billy's Mom to this function is a good thing for her. It is a great support group for me. And really most of the people in the group have lost children...I am kinda an oddball. One lady lost her brother, but most lost their child. She needs some people to talk to besides just me. Don't get me wrong, I dont mind talking to her, but my grief and hers are not the same , I think she needs another Mom to support her that has lost their child. Kinda like us...unless you have drink before you can't really support an alcoholic.
Where is Nibs at??? She went camping and never came back...LOL