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[MossRose]

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finallydone;1573159 wrote: I am the only guy and before too much longer I will be knitting sweaters and swapping recipes.

LOL!! Guess I didn't think about this until just now

[sunshinedaisies]

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finallydone;1573159 wrote: Urgent Call! We need some guys for the skype group! I am the only guy and before too much longer I will be knitting sweaters and swapping recipes. So come on guys I know some of you would like to join us. So come on over!

I could teach you to crochet if you like.....

[K9Lover]

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FD - Please stop pretending like you don't ALREADY crochet, sew, knit and make jewelry. We are onto you. LOL

:H

Back to the topic on hand, I saw a chat log on my iPad last night and I didn't know what to do. It sucks being such a dum dum.

[finallydone]

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Well you got me K9! The cat is out the bag! LOL :H I had to clear chat history last night as it was getting long. It's up and running now. Gettingitright please send me your skype name so I can re add you back your a valuable member there!

[gettinitright]

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You didn't clear it FD! You can only clear your own. We can all still see it. I'm still connected to everyone as we each accepted each other.

[finallydone]

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gettinitright;1573657 wrote: You didn't clear it FD! You can only clear your own. We can all still see it. I'm still connected to everyone as we each accepted each other.

Just re add me! We need to talk about some stuff and clear the air. We both got upset at each other. It happens right know when we are both in early recovery. I apologize to you for letting comments get to me and mine get to you. Please forgive me and let's move on. We need you part of the group. You add a lot of charisma and fun to it. SO PLEASE COME BACK. Add me facebook:christian.thorson.7 and for anyone else who wants to join please pm me. Thank you!

[sunshinedaisies]

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I don't think it matters that the history gets long - it is good to be able to look back and see it anyway -

[MossRose]

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FD. please delete me from the group. I will no longer be participating. For reasons I am not going to divulge in public, I don't feel I would be a good addition to the group anymore. Thank you.

[finallydone]

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The group is ending! And I am leaving MWO for good. I am tired of someone asking me my thoughts on a subject and shoving it down my throat and making up stuff that isn't true. I will find help in other places. Thank you everyone for your support and I wish everyone the best. The skype group is officially done. Good luck to everyone in there journey!

[gettinitright]

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Nobody asked for YOUR thoughts. You asked and didn't like the answer you received. Stop throwing a hissy fit like a 2 yr. baby girl.

[finallydone]

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You are one class act!

[gettinitright]

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Who asked who and who attacked who? Then you deleted me from the SKYPE group, then started on Facebook. I had to delete you there. Then texting went on til 3:23 AM in the freaking morning. You're a idiot and if you think you can belittle this gal...think again buddy. I wasn't going to do this but you don't know when to STOP!!! There....single, working moms...we are all pieces of shit. I have never in my life see such twisted BS.


[12:11:37 AM] Christian Thorson: I will ask you point blank here.
[12:11:46 AM] Lisa Chapman: what?
[12:12:31 AM] Christian Thorson: Would you rather stay at home and work and take care of your kids as your man is out working and earning a living for the family?
[12:12:39 AM] Christian Thorson: I know it sounds sexist
[12:13:24 AM] Christian Thorson: How come every woman I talk to wants to be home with there kids and dad is out working
[12:14:01 AM] Lisa Chapman: No I wouldnt because I dont want to be controlled by someone. IF relationships were forever like they used tobe, maybe but they arent. So, if you are up and left behind, what happens to you? I have ALWAYS worked
[12:14:48 AM] Christian Thorson: Who said it was about controlling someone
[12:14:56 AM] Lisa Chapman: I worked from home 3 weeks after Brit was born and went back when Zak was 6 weeks. I always made more money than my husband too
[12:15:12 AM] Lisa Chapman: Because it is. Relationships do not work like that naymore
[12:15:14 AM] Lisa Chapman: anymore
[12:15:42 AM] Christian Thorson: They don't work that way because you have in your head they won't work
[12:16:06 AM] Christian Thorson: I get sick and tired of people whining about this
[12:16:23 AM] Lisa Chapman: No because that is reality. Why do you think women started working? Because so many women got left behind.
[12:16:59 AM] Christian Thorson: That's bullshit
[12:17:02 AM] Lisa Chapman: most of my GFs make more money than than husbands and we ALL work and always have
[12:17:25 AM] Lisa Chapman: are you trying to fuss with me
[12:17:41 AM] Christian Thorson: So why are women having 5 kids with 5 different guys than
[12:17:57 AM] Lisa Chapman: Hell if I know..I have 2 kids by the same man
[12:18:09 AM] Lisa Chapman: SAme reason MEN are fathering 5 kids I guess
[12:18:26 AM] Christian Thorson: Why did you let it happen?
[12:18:35 AM] Christian Thorson: You could have said no.
[12:18:37 AM] Lisa Chapman: let what happen?
[12:18:43 AM] Lisa Chapman: I wanted children
[12:18:56 AM] Christian Thorson: OH....and that's the reason to make a mistake
[12:19:08 AM] Lisa Chapman: My children are not mistakes
[12:19:10 AM] Christian Thorson: I want children so I'll just do it
[12:19:22 AM] Christian Thorson: See you don't get it.
[12:19:55 AM] Christian Thorson: Men are going to use women for sex and they don't care how they go about it.
[12:20:10 AM] Lisa Chapman: Youare saying because we dont live in the same house we ont raise our kids together and you are wrong. We soend holidays together attend events together...we divrced we didnt divorce our kids
[12:20:22 AM] Christian Thorson: Women telling men your not geting it if you don't commit will save all this crap from happening
[12:20:34 AM] Lisa Chapman: We were married 18 yrs..I hadly thinkI was used for sex
[12:21:17 AM] Christian Thorson: I don't know. I have a huge disagreement on what you think on this.
[12:21:46 AM] Lisa Chapman: well since you have never been married and no children...Im not really looking for advise
[12:22:03 AM] Christian Thorson: I was not giving you any.
[12:22:27 AM] Christian Thorson: I was just stating what I have seen
[12:23:04 AM] Lisa Chapman: we can agree to disagree. you are grouping me with someone that has 5 kids by 5 men. I have no idea why anyone would do that frankly. I didnt do that
[12:24:26 AM] Christian Thorson: Number One I never said you were that person. What I am trying to say is that there is a break down in our culture based upon broken homes. That's it. That is all I am trying to point out.
[12:24:53 AM] Christian Thorson: I am not singling you out or anyone else.
[12:26:27 AM] Lisa Chapman: I certainly dont disagree. But,no one gets married thinking they will divorce. We tried it didnt work, we do what is best with what we have now. Does everyone..NO. But, thank God I didnt solely depend on him finanically because Id be up shit creek right now.
[12:26:58 AM] Christian Thorson: And I understand that.
[12:27:33 AM] Christian Thorson: You had to do what you had to do.
[12:28:01 AM] Lisa Chapman: You asked if I would have wanted to stay home..no and thank God I didnt. If I grew-up in the old days SURE, but i didnt
[12:28:36 AM] Christian Thorson: I apologize I did not mean to make you feel like your a bad wife or anything.
[12:29:09 AM] Lisa Chapman: Its fine. I wasnt a bad wife. You cant make someone love you or stay
[12:29:20 AM] Lisa Chapman: if they wanna leave...they will leave
[12:29:52 AM] Christian Thorson: Yes it is life. You can't be forced to do anything.
[12:30:19 AM] Christian Thorson: It's not like I am not proud of you for doing it alone. I respect that.
[12:30:44 AM] Christian Thorson: I just asked a question. Sorry I did.
[12:30:53 AM] Lisa Chapman: I had 2 kids because iknew id always be able tocare for them alone if i had to. i would have had 4 kids if times were different. i love kids. But, i was a working mom and 2 was all i could give attention to and work. i choose a career that i have been able to work from home for many years.
[12:31:50 AM] Lisa Chapman: im not alone! he is very active in their lives. We both see them both daily
[12:31:52 AM] Christian Thorson: See I love hearing passion. I am on your side.
[12:32:17 AM] Christian Thorson: I am seeing fire from in you. I love it.
[12:33:10 AM] Lisa Chapman: we divorced not our kids...we are not typical divorced people. our kids are and have always been #1. it was very important to us. I grew-up without my dad because my mom was a better divorcee and he lost his first child cause his ex was bitter. we didnt do that
[12:34:12 AM] Christian Thorson: Lisa, when I see you fired up. You have to use that inner passion in sobriety.
[12:34:15 AM] Lisa Chapman: im am very passionate about it. i wish things had been different. they werent.
[12:34:35 AM] Lisa Chapman: Im bout to cuss your ass out..LOL
[12:34:48 AM] Christian Thorson: We all wish things were different. Hey life sucks at times. LOL
[12:34:48 AM] Lisa Chapman: ROFL..gettin me all worked up
[12:35:16 AM] Lisa Chapman: Crap I feel my face gettin hot LOL
[12:35:25 AM] Christian Thorson: LOL
[12:35:44 AM] Christian Thorson: Hey......I didn't mean offense to you okay
[12:36:09 AM] Lisa Chapman: I just said today on MWO not to let folks in cyber space get you riled up too. ...Im laughing
[12:36:22 AM] Christian Thorson: So I learned a lot about you today.
[12:36:33 AM] Christian Thorson: well tonight
[12:37:44 AM] Lisa Chapman: I suppose so.
[12:38:31 AM] Lisa Chapman: They are going to read this tomorrow and be like DAMN...we thought one of you was swinging out soon LOL
[12:39:08 AM] Christian Thorson: Real freinds can be real with each other
[12:39:39 AM] Lisa Chapman: Im teasing about that and I agree.
[12:40:07 AM] Christian Thorson: I would give you a big hug right know if i could
[12:40:44 AM] Christian Thorson: we can disagree but i know we are friends to come back and laugh it out
[12:41:35 AM] Lisa Chapman: Thats the type of relationship you want? A wife that stays home and cares for the kids? Ya know most men dont want to take care of their family alone anymore.
[12:42:53 AM] Christian Thorson: I don't know lol
[12:43:03 AM] Lisa Chapman: As a matter of fact, my children are almost grown but I can assure dating would be nearly impossible if I didnt work.
[12:43:11 AM] Lisa Chapman: Oh hell
[12:43:28 AM] Lisa Chapman: You just wanted to get me riled up
[12:45:30 AM] Christian Thorson: Well. I have always wanted to go to work have my wife at home taking care of the kids me come home play with the kids mow the lawn...fix stuff up around the house take my kids to the park maybe play baseball...
[12:45:51 AM] Lisa Chapman: i will tell you dating has been an issue for both of us...me and my ex because most people do NOT put their kids first. if someone doesnt accept that our kids come first, they gotta go. we do not fight.
[12:46:19 AM] Lisa Chapman: the thing too, the kids are only little 5 years, then they go to school
[12:46:35 AM] Christian Thorson: I get it.
[12:47:00 AM] Lisa Chapman: if ou work together, you can both take care of everything together.
[12:48:53 AM] Lisa Chapman: sports, any school activity, all costs money now those things used to be free at school. not anymore. it takes two incomes.
[12:49:40 AM] Christian Thorson: Good night! I am wore out from this conversation. We can talk about it tomorrow.
[12:49:54 AM] Lisa Chapman: LOL me too...goodnight

[finallydone]

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And for clarification purposes it was the response I gave you that you didn't like the response of. And I am done playing this little childish game with you. Go talk to someone else. I have better things to do than waste my time on someone who doesn't like what they have to hear from me. There are posters on here who value there time and I want to value there's as well. If you want to hold a grudge against me go for it. It's your time your wasting. I reached out to say I'm sorry and you want clubber me with it. It shows what type of a person you are when you can't reconcile differences in a timely matter and than you resort to name calling. Well I said I am sorry and that's that. If you want to keep mulling over it all that's your problem not mine. Have a good evening.

[gettinitright]

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You brought it in. Im not the one that continues to bring it up on here. You have started threads, posted. I didn't say anything all day about you. If you're going to attacke publicly all night long you better believe I'm fighting back.

[finallydone]

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[QUOTE=gettinitright;1573764]You brought it in. Im not the one that continues to bring it up on here. You have started threads, posted. I didn't say anything all day about you. If you're going to attacke publicly all night long you better believe I'm fighting back.[/QUIt

It won't matter because I am done with this! You can FUCKING GO TO HELL!