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    well.it came home to roost

    Last night,my husband said he would be home by 8 which he was,but I had tried to call him on his cell phone. I got voice mail. When he came in he poured himself a whiskey. He sat at the opposite end of the sofa. He was just a little to lively and playful with the dogs. Then it hit me he had been drinking. I asked he at first denied it. He is such an easy drunk not hard to tell. I persisted tell me where and how many. He said he had picked some mini's up at the package store and had them on his way home .He never does this! I was very surprised. His job is very stressfull he is the president of a multi million dollar company. He said he had a bad day and didn't want to drink at home because of me. The temptation. I assured him I could stick to my 1-2 glasses of wine a night rule. So then he goes into his needy mood. how much he loves me, never want to loose me what a beautiful wonderful woman I am yada yada yada. at that moment saw who I was 3 months ago. I never want to be like that again. It was F'in annoying. This morning we had a talk and he promised no more. I belive him because his level of disipline is unreal. He normally dosen't drink back to to last night. So I put him to bed. Still being cheeky! I owe an apology here to Happier lucky and Chris c-k-d.& Sammys. because I went into chat( because Iwanted to talk) and I kept being distracted by him so I wasn't paying full attention to what anyone was really saying.
    I took a xanax and just went to sleep. yes I have a good husband I have already recieved flowers this week, I just wonder sometimes if he feels he has to buy my love. Where did that thought just come from? I don't know.
    Thanks for listening
    Mary
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    Maybe he has some insecurities of his own? No one is perfect. You do have a good husband, from what you have shared...we all get annoyed. You and he are entitled once in awhile....

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      :l Mary:l

      Don't really know what to say.

      Maybe the communication will be more honest because of this?

      Leveled the "playing " field somewhat? Both in the same boat in using alcohol to destress and realizing it is not a good thing?

      Hug each other and keep talking.

      :h Nancy
      "Be still and know that I am God"

      Psalm 46:10

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        Mary, us guys are usually pretty easy to figure out! I' wondering if his buying you things is simply his way of making us for the time is takes to run a stressful company (and of course little incidents like last night).

        Don't be too hard on him (or yourself). I'm sure it is a little scary to see him acting like you were 3 months ago.... You know where that can lead and what can happen, but you sound like a great team and I'm sure you'll get through his no problem.
        Sobriety Date: June 15, 2007 -- "It's not having what you want, It's wanting what you've got...."

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          :l

          Atleast you have an open relationship with good communication; a situation like that could have turned nasty if you did not.

          My hubby always brings me home flowers too when he has pissed me off...it's like their fail safe button.

          'Piss off Wife' = 'Bring home flowers or something shiney"

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            Smiley, I was here earlier just after you posted, I did not know what to say - but AA has said some very interesting things - you are lucky and it is never nice to see ourselves in others -or how we use to be. I always say that is one of the reasons I drank, so that I could understand those around me who drank.
            Though no one can go back and make a brand-new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand-new ending

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              GG;123695 wrote: :l

              'Piss off Wife' = 'Bring home flowers or something shiney"

              GG - I love it -
              Though no one can go back and make a brand-new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand-new ending

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                Thanks Guys, I know it's the long hours he works leaves @4am home 8pm. Plus the pressure of his parent's. Damn, I just remembered Monday night he said his Mom said she had found a house she wanted and it was 50,000 more than what we were going to buy one for. It is pressure. I should do something nice for him today instead of breaking his balls. GG, any more flowers it's going to look like a funeral parlor here. As for shiny I don't think he can top that ring he gave me for our 15th anniversary. Maybe a new car.uhmm. Just kidding
                Mary

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                  He can get your good friend..ME...something. Then I will have a little heart to heart with my good friend..YOU...on his behalf...giv me his number????? LOL

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                    You guys love having your balls busted and you know it!!

                    Anyhoo, even really great hubbys can be a pain in the butt sometimes. I feel your pain Mary. If they didn't act like a horse's a$$ once in a while, then we wouldn't know how great they really were.

                    That goes for wives too so don't you boys start any of your male crap with me :damn: . You probably liked me better when I was in a pissy mood.

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                      Hi Simey, Strange that because I found out that my husband has vodka hidden in the garage!! I've been devious though, I haven't told him I found it but will keep an eye on how quick it goes down!!!

                      Hang in there love, he probably was only trying to protect you ...

                      Love ya, xx
                      sigpicXXX

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                        #12
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                        Boopster, THAT LITTLE DEVIL! keep your eye on him. betty you always make me smile
                        Mary

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                          #13
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                          Don't sip it yourself Boop and blame him in a drunk...LOL

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                            Oh it makes so much sense now.
                            I was rambling on and on as usual in chat. I'm a talker. At first I am shy but once you get to know me I don't shut up. Then Simey kept coming in and out of chat and I'm asking all these questions.
                            But then once Simey left, Chris and Lucky cornered me and were asking the newbie all the questions. It was kind of like initiation but thankfully some other people starting coming in chat and they forgot about me. Then my husband told me to come to bed. So I had to go too.
                            I was going to ask you last night Simey how you got your name SimeyBear. So there! Now I asked and maybe I will get answered.
                            And your husband sounds like a very sweet man!

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                              Happier Simon is my beloved South Russian sheephound. His nick name is Simeybear or Bear BearI have 5 dogs and they all have nicknames
                              Mr.Coker-cokie cokester old man He's 11 and he will anwser to Freddy, Dementia?
                              Reardon-Reardy Reardy-poo and the spamster & Big Guy. He loves spam long story
                              Talulah- Little girl, woo woo,baby girl,baby woo
                              Mamie Eisenhower, May May, Maimster,And Bootsie Randolph.
                              So between all them the husband and xanax there you go (ironically Mother's little helper is playing in the background)
                              Smiles
                              mary

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