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    100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

    Congratulations, Free, on accomplishing 100 consecutive AF days!

    You've done this in spite of the constant challenges in your work life that frequently take you far from home and put you in places where alcohol is readily available and yours for the asking.

    Over the time we've known one another I've vacillated between marveling that you manage not to drink given how accessible it always is for you to wondering how in the heck you ever did your high-stress, responsibility-laden job while drinking!

    I went back to the thread where I met you and found one of your posts:

    free at last;1476056 wrote: From what I can tell, the people who have been able to go a long time without AL have the following items in common: 1) they post almost daily; 2) they try to connect with a couple of buddies; 3) they drink copious amounts of water, tea, juice; 4) they have a plan for getting past the difficult hours; 5) they don't give in to cravings. 6) eventually the days add up and it seems a little easier for them.... we can do this. I want to look at this thread six months from now and see how far we all have come.
    That was written on 3/11/13 so its been ~ 7 months and it looks like you've followed your own advice well with many, many AF days and now 100 in a row -- all the while encouraging others to maintain or gain those precious AF days.

    I'm so glad to have met you and I'm so happy for you. NS


    #2
    100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

    :goodjob: Thanks for the tips too. I do know they work.
    AF 10/21/2013...ODAT :kudos:

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      100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

      Outstanding FAL! I'm very happy for you!

      Be very proud of this. Your life as a road warrior really puts you in "the trenches" of this fight. You are prevailing in conditions that would crumble someone who is not committed. I'm glad you're along with us!
      "When you have faults, do not fear to abandon them." Analects of Confucius
      AF 11/12/11

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        #4
        100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

        Yay, Free - you're my inspiration,

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          100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

          Free, such a great achievement! Congrats!
          14 October 2013 was the first day of the best days of my life!

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            100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

            Free

            I am so proud and happy for you. You have been a constant support for me here on MWO and your success is inspirational. I also used to have a job that involved a lot of travelling and I know how drinking is almost thrust down your throat! You have done so well by completely changing you habits whilst travelling and staying in hotels etc.

            Lots of love x
            AF since Halloween 2016

            Trying to kill my Wine Witch! :smileyb:

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              #7
              100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

              So PROUD of YOU, Free!!!! Keep up the GREAT WORK!!!

              :banana::banana::banana:
              :heartbeat:

              Star:star:

              08-13-15

              I am only one drink away from never being sober again.

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                100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                Thanks, NoSugar, for starting this thread, and to everyone else for your words of encouragement. As I was tossing and turning as I tried to fall asleep last night (jetlag was something fierce), I finally went through the past 100 days in my mind. I actually could remember each and every day and night. I thought about the difficult work dinners, the plane rides and waiting in airport lounges, and the times when friends came over with a bottle of wine to visit, and even throwing a party for work colleagues. Seven months ago, I would not have imagined it possible. I could not imagine how grateful I am to wake up every morning knowing I did not drink the night before.

                So for those of you just starting out -- it took me numerous efforts to get to this point. I joined MWO in April 2010 and made several efforts to lead an AF life, reaching 22, 25, 30+ days but not ever able to reach two month consecutive AF.

                This summer, I swallowed my pride (I figured I should be able to do this without any prescription drugs) and went on Antabuse because the constant exposure to AL was just too much for me. It has been a godsend. I take one 125mg tablet every 7-10 days and that stops the mind chatter, giving me time to accumulate the benefits of consecutive AF living. I cheer myself on everytime I take a tablet because I know I am working toward a better life.

                Oh yeah, as I write this, I am sitting in the hotel VIP lounge, staring at the bar with 24 different kinds of hard alcohol, several bottles of wine, and beers. I'm sipping my coffee, after having consumed more seltzer water and lime than anyone can imagine. Last AB tablet was over 5 days ago, and no thoughts of "maybe a glass." Instead, I am trying to figure out how I can get some work done and squeeze in another mini-workout yet today.

                All of this to say, thank you, for your support and encouragement.
                Free at Last
                "What you seek is seeking you." -- Rumi

                Highly recommend this video
                http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html

                July 19, 2013 -- the beginning of being Free at Last

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                  #9
                  100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                  CONGRATS on 100 AF days Free :wd:

                  I am very happy for you & proud to know you!
                  Let's stay on the sober bus together
                  AF since 03/26/09
                  NF since 05/19/09
                  Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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                    #10
                    100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                    Free you are an inspiration. I admire your determination. The ab really seems to be a god send to many.
                    No matter how far you go or how fast you run, you can't get away from yourself. ....said at an AA meeting. It stuck with me.

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                      100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                      I'm very happy to know you and to be able to celebrate with you on your 100th day Free!

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                        #12
                        100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                        Congrats Free! Way to go!!

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                          100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                          Hot Dang! GREAT JOB!!!! I am SO proud of you!!! You have arrived!!! You are indeed, Free at LAST!!! xxoo, Byrdie
                          All you gotta do, is get thru this day. AF 1/20/2011
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                            #14
                            100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                            Free
                            way to go there!! It feels great to shake that demon.
                            Liberated 5/11/2013

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                              #15
                              100 Days of Freedom for Free at Last!

                              Free! You make me proud! Keep up the great work and your wonderful attitude! Great job. Here's to the next 100 and beyond...
                              :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

                              Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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