Question for the Women

[Guest]

Question for the Women

Oh good! I thought I messed that all up with what I was trying to say..

On a good note I learned today; if you Oxy ravioli right away off the persian, it takes away the stain somewhat... hah!

[Jacy]

Question for the Women

I know what your going through when I had my son I felt awful about myself unfortunately I was alone and didn't have a spouse to rely on. It took me time to feel good about myself and make time for me.

It has now been years since he was a baby and I truly miss some moments I wish I could still have. It will take time, but it will all fall into place.

Another thing is we don't just have to have a baby to feel like that. I have been feeling like that for awhile especially since I am trying to refrain from alcohol. I have noticed how much weight I have gained. I cut my hair because it was to much work. So I am truly feeling worse about myself than when I had my son. I have a lot of work to do.

Enjoy your daughter!!!!!!!!!

[Bella]

Question for the Women

hi GG, being a mum is strange. I walk around sometimes holding my sons hand, and pretending to be a grown-up! Its like, hang on a minute, i'm responsible for this small person. I don't feel old enough! I'm 38 now, so i dont think i ever will. Before having my boy, i felt like quite a sexy, good looking girl. Post child, i dont get the time to work hard on myself. But i dont mind. I had my mad, bad, fun, wild times in my 20s, so my 30s are now dedicated to family. thats not to say i dont want 'me' time. I do. Its soooo important for self-esteem to get time alone, dont you think. Bye for now, Bella xx

[hereatlast]

Question for the Women

GG of course you didnt mess up we all know how much you cherish your little one and we all needed time to ourselves when ours were little i think we are all a little jealous well i am that you are at such a fab time in your life (i know youve had a tough run lately but in general) and as we get older we forget the times we were desperate for a few hours to ourselves and we start to wax lyrical, i love the thought of you in 5 yrs with another litle one mind you i may be a grandma by then, i didnt mean to offend you

[happycamper68]

Question for the Women

My hubby seems cool with the way I look, I however do not like the way I have recovered from my pregnancy. It's amazing what it can do!

The only time I get the real sexy "rush" is if I get a look or some sort of amorous attention from a different man. Doesn't happen often (don't get out much right girls!), and I don't act on it, but I know it it truely genuine if it is from a stranger (mind it cannot just be anyone, it must be someone I find attractive, not just any ole joe schmo) and THAT makes me feel like my old self. I feel like I've still "got it".

I know, I'm nuts. Please tell me I am not.