One Step at a Time - December 2013

[NoraC]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Love & hugs to everyone......

Welcome Kramer. I tried Campral but didn't help me at all.

I am ready to move on. Last January I was feeling so positive. I am ready to get to that again. So - here's to an AF year. Or - at least to One Step at a Time. :h

[Caper]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Pauly - I remember back a few months ago, when you were reeling from your DH's DUI and everyone here was telling you not to worry about the Jan. court date for him; just to "stay in the day" and get yourself sober - Today, I have to congratulate you on what a "trooper" you've been. You got yourself and your family through the holidays, the stupid work stuff and all the everyday crap and you've done a great job. Okay, one day "off" - but you know what... forget about it.. you are an amazingly strong woman, and I think you'll do fine with whatever the outcome of your husband's situation is - you still have you - you still have your friends here - and it doesn't get any better than that!
Mama - I know that most of us, if we had to vote for our favorite person on MWO - it would be that crazy Byrdie Lady - with her unparalleled good advice, funny awards, attention, dedication. But you know what? If I knew how to do it - and secretly, not being a huge fan of emoticons - I am, unofficially, awarding you, the Most Compassionate Contributor of the Year Award. Thank you, Mama, for always responding to my sporadic posts... you are such a good person... and very forgiving; you know what I mean. And a kindred soul.. No, to answer your question about taking on my mother's cat .. I already have 2 cats - abandoned by sellers; and these 2 cats hate each other... my DH will only put up with so much! Nora, hope you are well, and that you never reveal (to me at least) that your name isn't Nora - I really love that name. Dottie - thank you for thinking of me; I know you've been down this road too; it isn't easy is it? Take care of yourself...

[paulywogg]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Thank you Caper,i needed that

[Kradle123]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Caper, I'm with Mama...WTF??? I can't imagine the rift this must cause in your family. I know caring for our parents can be complicated but is there anyway you can talk to her and explain that this solution is simply unacceptable? Hugs and hugs to you :l oh and I'll take the cat...my new kitties need a good example...so far my dog is falling down on the job...

Liz, I know this is hard but remember that at the start of this expedition she was leaving for three years In three weeks the only thing she can get is a nice tan.

Pauly I agree with Caper. I remember when all that happened. This may sound strange but he did that to himself. I think the support you have given is above and beyond the call of duty. Only good can come of this now. :h

Nora, 2014 is almost here. We can do this together...I have your number!!

Dottie and allswell- the big Bolten is coming here to Seattle...thanks A lot!!! :egad: (just kidding) could be worse though...it could have been Kenny G...shudder!

Mama, I second your award and I love Byrdie too. You never fail to check in and check up....just lIke my own mom used to do. Means the world, believe me. :thanks:
I read your wise words on my Kradle thread...yes, it does sound and feel a lot like old fashion depression which I suffered a lot last Summer...Hubs is way on board and as supportive as one can be in these situations.
I can't go to counselor...I don't have the money. However, I am starting the Family Therapy next week with Mathieu and His counselor and I believe I will find some relief with that.
Oh, and speaking of which his counselor called tonight and gave me the heads up that Mathieu is sending me a letter basically admitting to all the stuff he has stolen from our family over the years ( he apparently said he affected the family this time....not just me...his crazy mom...) I'm still processing this. Mathieu spent years stealing from us and other people and denying it with complete ferocity. His Counselor said there was a lot we might not have been aware of. God that makes me so sick,,,I'm amazed he would admit to his stealing, the harm he has done but I don't know if I'm ready to hear the extent of what he's done.... Ignorance might be bliss in this situation.

Anyway, I'll stay posted and I'll stay close to here. Had a nice day today with my niece...such a better day than last night with her brother. The twins adore here and she's a wonderfully funny generous young lady. A really fun day out in Seattle. I do love that city....

K9 sending you snugly thoughts and hugs :l and please stay away from that Mucinex....I remember a distant conversation on here about that OTC drug and I never chimed in how sick that stuff made me!

Love you all. I'm safe and sound tonight. Wishing everyone the same.

[paulywogg]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Hey all,new years eve already,Kellie wants me to watch Louie overnite yikes! he usually only wakes up once but its like 1 a.m,paulywogg doesnt do 1 a.m haha,oh well see how i feel later ive been getting tension headaches again at the base of my skull/neck area,its my own fault cuz i had been neglecting to go to the chiropractor all nov/dec cuz i needed christmas money must get back soon,and today is gonna be balls out busy,nye always is,people dont get spiffed up for thankgiving,christmas etc,but to go party everyone comes in,im gonna make hot wings tonite and get one of those cheese stuffed pizzas from pizza hut,sounds good and easy,well hope everybody has a good tuesday

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Morning Loves
What a nice way to be greeted by reading all your kind, loving words. I feel all warm and fuzzy.
I doubt seriously that I am the number one cheerleader here..there's Byrdie, K9, Lavande, and so many others. But I DO care about my peeps here...really, really care.
Kradle....go see your family doc.....he can assess depression. And I glad you are starting therapy, and it sounds like the gut wrenching decision you made for Matt is beginning to pay off...I am glad you enjoyed your day yesterday.
K9...DO NOT TAKE MUCINEX. I thought I was having a panic attack.
Ok....damn phone has the nerve to ring at work
love and hugs to all...
Muah, muah, kissy, kissy

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Good Luck with court Pauly....

[paulywogg]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Hi Mama,i second the mucinex! first two times i took it i was fine,it didnt feel like it worked anways,3 rd time i thought i was gonna die,woke up with my heart racing drenched in sweat,avoid that overpriced junk!

[Dottie Belle]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

MAE all,
Off to run the train display at the hospital one last time for this season. We both enjoy this but have been sick this season and have not been able to enjoy doing it....boohiss.
Then we are staying in..I have a pizza in the freezer to make and watch TV I guess. Going to drink hot tea since it is 24F here today and will drop lower tonight...hate winter....
back later.

[K9Lover]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Well I am sitting here at working looking like a chia pet with a huge red nose. Sneezing and blowing. You'd think someone would take pity and tell me to go home.

NO Mucinex for me! I took some Alka Seltzer yesterday and it knocked me out nicely and I woke up feeling "dried up"...which is a good thing. LOL

Maybe they will cut me loose early today. If not, I'll just sit here and spread the love all day.

I'm thinking of all of you and need to catch up on the latest. I hate being out of the loop!

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

epic post just disappeared
staying home tonight, despite sister trying to guilt me into driving north two hours to see her while she visit my parents
chilling tomorrow...may tackle a closet to re-organize:shocked:

[Caper]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Thanks everyone for your kindness and support. Kradle, I'm afraid it's a done deal. My sister has had Power of Attorney for years so she has always decided on her own, what is best for our mom. I just can't get my head around it - all day yesterday I was useless at work - today I brought work home and it's still sitting there in a pile while I look out the window and play a mindless game on my phone. I don't know what's worse - taking my mother away from her cat - or taking away what little independence she had left. Doesn't pay to get old....

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

love you Caper and I am so sorry

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Happy New Year Lovies!!

[Caper]

One Step at a Time - December 2013

Love you too, Mama... I don't care what K9 says about you in her PMs to everyone; they don't come any better than you. Just kidding, K9, just kidding. Happy New Year all....