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One Step at a Time - January 2014
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
Glass Half Empty;1608135 wrote: I'll be the dice. Probably the only way I'm going to get rolled in the foreseeable future! :H:HOn My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
*If you think poorly of yourself, you can fail with a clear conscience.
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
I'm sure someone has a Get Outta jail free card, Allswell.
Let's Roll Liz and find out!On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
omg.....laughing out loud this morning
all I know is I wanna be at Park Place.......sexy!!!
Pauly- you ok this morning?
went out for seafood dinner last night and had two glasses of wine. I want to get 30 days under my belt, but having issues with that right now. But I stopped at two and came home and went to bed.I love my family more than alcohol.:h
Live in the Solution....not the problem
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
Hey guys,didnt mean to be an ass last nite but shoot its hard to focus on sobriety rite now when i just have too much on my mind,and for me staying sober is work,not super hard work but it still takes effort that im having a hard time doing atm,and no drinking wont solve anything,i just wanna scream! this has gotten old,i just love my hubs and i dont want anything bad to happen in court,im scared guysI have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:
I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
Paul...listen to me
I got a DUI in April 2012. I had to go to a probation officer once a month. I had to go to counseling. I had to take Safety Courses. I still do not drive. I have to depend on my kids and hubs to haul my ass everywhere. I wrecked my van and it is sitting in the garage. My car insurance is going to double.
And you know what....I am making it. I had to put my head down, pay a small fortune and deal with it. And the good news is...it forced me to admit that I had a problem. I went from a 12 pack a night to drinks on Saturday night, if I feel like it. Sometimes I drink more than I should, sometimes I don't. All this mess has made my hubs and I much closer.
Has it been fun...HELL NO.
Has it ben easy....HELL NO
AM I surviving and learning and growing and slowly being able to forgive myself....HELL YES.
NOw...quit freaking out and know that you and hubs will be fine. And stop turning to the bottle. It is making your anxiety worse and you are using this problem as an excuse to drink.
Please stop and know that my words are said with love and compassion......OK??
I promise you will survive this....xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
MamaI love my family more than alcohol.:h
Live in the Solution....not the problem
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?Be who you are and say what you feel because
those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.?
Dr. Seuss
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
I know all this stuff,it is an excuse,im being dumb but i just dont want him to lose his job,hes a mechanic and i dont know how its gonna pan out bleh! i cant do the bills on my own if he gets let go what the hell kinda job can he get?cripes he was on unemployment for 3 years before he got this job 2 years ago that was hell! we didnt talk,i had no respect for him just sitting around all day, im just nervous,oh itll be o.k thank you guysI have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:
I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!
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One Step at a Time - January 2014
Hey Pauly - I hear you. Boy, do I hear you. I was talking to my therapist yesterday and she told me that I need to think of today. Stop thinking about the what ifs, etc. She said it much more eloquently, of course. And it made much more sense. But, the bottom line is.......I can't change things by worrying. But, I can get thru the minute without drinking....or today. Tomorrow will come tomorrow.
Thinking of you Pauly. I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. Love & hugs.......:h:l"Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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AF - 7-27-15
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The saddest part for me is i want and need to be strong rite now,i think this happening rite after the holidays just sorta makes it a little fucked up too,i had a sober christmas,new years and it was bliss,work but still happy,truly happy,then the after holiday blues yada yada,man it really does sound like excuses once i type it,sorry for hogging the thread but i guess i just needed to talkI have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:
I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!
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