One Step at a Time – February 2014

[NoraC]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

Oh Mama - :l:l:l My dear friend. You are all in my prayers.

[NoraC]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

Pauly - good for you for exercising. I must get back to the gym. Glad your daughter had a good birthday.

Ok - off to get ready for work. I finally slept last night and everything looks so much brighter today.

[NoraC]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

Fen - so glad that you are having fun!!!!! I can't wait to see some pics.

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

yes...pictures please

[Dottie Belle]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

(((mama))) too much on you right now...stay strong and we are here for you!!
Off to run some errands before the next round of snow.
I am so glad I am not drinking because yesterday or last night with that dud of a game would have been a mess....boredom would have driven me to the wine box for sure...but NOT this time..woohoo!!

[K9Lover]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

Gray/pink polka dot panties today!

Had a good weekend, it actually rained!!! I made homemade almond milk with vanilla and cinnamon in it...I never knew it was so easy!

Sierra's interview is at 4pm today. She spent most of the weekend running around, so I feel like I haven't even seen her. When she whines that I didn't help her prepare for the interview, I am going to point out that it's her fault!!! I was home all weekend!

Bri MIGHT be pregnant Mama? Oh lord. Now why would she even bring that up until she is SURE? Oh yes, she loves drama, that's why. Do I dare ask if she'd know who the father is? Is she aware that they make all kinds of nifty little devices that prevent pregnancy? You many need to school her on that!

I am really behind on this thread so I will just say HI EVERYONE!!! I know FT is playing checkers soon, and for that, I am jealous!!!

Love y'all! :h

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

several pregnancy tests came back positive and she is going to the doctor on Friday
she "thinks" she knows who the father is....the on-again, off-again asshole...and she has had four miscarriages and what if this is her last chance blah, blah blah...I am not sure I believe anythi
ing she tells me anymore
I am straddling a fine line between boss and friend.....and she is being very sheepish and quiet. I think she is ashamed if herself...she should be
I have ALOT to say, but it could backfire on me, so I am trying to stay quiet...and it's killing me
Honestly, I want to be away from all the trash and drama, but I have a family to support, so I will focus on work and just see what happens...my heart is turning to stone
Love y'all to bits though....you are my rocks...

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

for some reason checkers sounds very unappealing right now :-)

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

I am reaching deep to find grace and compassion and do the right thing for someone that needs me
went to the restroom and had a long, private talk with God...

[K9Lover]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

:l:l Mama - you are such a good person. :l
Maybe there's a way you can re-draw the line and go back to being boss, instead of shoulder-to-cry-on. I know it's hard to undo once it's done. Does she have a sister or a mother that she can unload on instead of you?? It's so hard to see people that we care about making these dumb mistakes! In this day and age, no pregnancy should be an "accident". It's one of those things that really gets my polka dots in a bunch!!!

:h:h:h You Mama!

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

thanks Niner
I am backing up, but she has no one...or no one with any sense...HAH!!
(Like I have any sense)
I was so stunned this morning, but it is what it is and I will deal with it....
and you are right...there should be no accidents....grrrrrrr

[fennel]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

Holy cow, mama! That woman sounds like a train wreck. And yes, as K9 said, there is no reason for accidents. It's not like we're living under sharia law here. B.C. is readily available. I suggest you withdraw a bit. I'm telling you now, nothing you can do or say for or to this person is going to cause her to change. Don't mean to sound harsh, but I've been there. She makes stupid choices.

Hang in there. :l

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

thanks Fen
I know you are right, but it's hard cause we work 12 feet away from each other
I called and confided in my boss, so she knows what's going on

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

hope you are enjoying you trip
sorry to make it all about me today

[K9Lover]

One Step at a Time – February 2014

I agree with the Squirrel....you gotta withdraw a bit. People like that will drain the life out of you...and you have enough of YOUR OWN stuff to deal with right now. Have you asked her "HOW" she could let this happen? Seems like she subconsciously wanted it to...with the miscarriages and thinking her clock is ticking...I hardly think this was an accident.

Sierra has her first interview at 4pm today! At lunch time I helped her pick the perfect outfit (awww...she looked so cute). Nails are a nice neutral color. Small hoop earrings. Hair neat. I told her the main thing is to have confidence and smile. Start off with a firm handshake and sit up straight. Be prepared with a notebook in case you need to take notes. Write down the interviewers name (for the follow up thank you card)...and most of all...be pleasant and excited to be there. The last thing they want is some dopey kid with no personality! I think she's got this one down! :thumbsup

oh P.S. I tried watching The L Word on Saturday night, just couldn't do it....(?)