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    One Step at a Time – February 2014

    Mama, my thoughts are with you and your family. :h

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      One Step at a Time – February 2014

      Aah 5 years! maybe ill wait til then to quit al,(bad joke)thanks for details Fennel,no my mom never complained like i said i think she just drank any discomfort away,i just turned 40 in sept(ugh)but i remember all of last year being all over the place in different months,some times going through 3 boxes of woman stuff(sorry guys)these past tcoupla of months i dont even finish a box,this month i dont need one,just mini pads(super sorry to the guys!)so i guess its here,im pissed!
      I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

      I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
      Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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        One Step at a Time – February 2014

        paulywogg;1626481 wrote: Aah 5 years! maybe ill wait til then to quit al,(bad joke)thanks for details Fennel,no my mom never complained like i said i think she just drank any discomfort away,i just turned 40 in sept(ugh)but i remember all of last year being all over the place in different months,some times going through 3 boxes of woman stuff(sorry guys)these past tcoupla of months i dont even finish a box,this month i dont need one,just mini pads(super sorry to the guys!)so i guess its here,im pissed!
        It's different for everybody, Pauly...since you're only using minis right now, you might be closer to the end of it than you realize. :h

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          One Step at a Time – February 2014

          Pauly...go to the doc. Hormones may help with moods...
          plus you will feel better knowing what is going on
          I stopped having periods at 37 due to chemo, but I am 53 now and swear I have mood swings and can be a downright mean bitch!! People frustrate and annoy me more than they used to.
          My three boys will " represent" tomorrow. Clay is in a silvery grey suit. 54 inch JACKET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
          Bret is in a black suit, and Grant is in black slacks and a silver blue jacket of Bret's. All have new dress shoes and belts. And....drum roll.....I got new pantyhose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY...not
          Pop's obit is in the paper and it was surreal to see his picture. I think I am processing better and don't feel so lost. Bret is struggling, but I am here and so are his boys.
          My virtual buds will be there with me and my Jacksonville girlfriends swear they will dress like redneck country bumpkins and black out a tooth and say they are my cousins.
          For me, laughter is the best medicine.
          K9....where are you?
          Off to make food for tomorrow
          I love you all so much
          I love my family more than alcohol.:h
          Live in the Solution....not the problem

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            One Step at a Time – February 2014

            Hey Liz....
            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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              One Step at a Time – February 2014

              Thinking of you, Girlfriend. Sending loving thoughts your way.:h I thought of you yesterday, so Belated Happy Birthday! I know your b-day was far from your mind, though.:l

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                One Step at a Time – February 2014

                I'm imagining the men putting their hands up between their eyes and the p.c. screen! Sorreeeeee! I'm just about to add to your pain!

                OK... My grumpage about this is it started at flipping 42... exact same age as my mother. And at 51 I STILL get symptoms although my, umm, periods, have ceased and desisted. But the hot flashes, night sweats, forgetfulness and damn mood swings continue on unabated. I used to be sharp as a tack and now I need lists for EVERYTHING. It was like someone flipped a switch when I turned 42.

                And I reckon the menopause is what got me in the predicament with AL. I went slightly bonkers with it for a few years... seriously... like a borderline personality disorder type bonkers. My mother was the same way... she describes hers as "she felt like a corkscrew, so twisted up inside".

                The apple doesn't fall far from the tree on this score methinks.

                I reckoned it would be well over by now and I'd be patting myself on the back for getting out the other end early but it would appear I'm not so lucky. I've been putting it off as I don't like mainstream meds, but I don't think it will be much longer till I get a hormone panel done and start on bioidentical hormones. I take DHEA but it's not cutting the mustard.

                An interesting snippet is Cheryl's mum. She is 80 and guess what... she STILL gets night sweats. However, she is amazing for an 80 year old, really youthful, and I'm wondering is it possible that the symptoms dragging on kept her younger? Probably not. Wishful thinking on my part!

                OK lurking menfolk... you can look now!

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                  One Step at a Time – February 2014

                  X-post city!

                  Took me a while to write mine as I had to take out certain descriptive words on account of not wanting to make the guys feel queasy!

                  Hiya Rusty and Mama! :l

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                    One Step at a Time – February 2014

                    I'm glad you have the clothes angle figured out for everyone Mama... that was a biggie. Hope the food prep comes together easily... X

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                      One Step at a Time – February 2014

                      I'm sure your boys will do you proud Mama - I'll be thinking of you. :h
                      There's two ways of looking at the holes in your shoes
                      You can dig the ventilation... or you can sing the blues

                      I didn't come this far to only come this far.

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                        One Step at a Time – February 2014

                        Jan - thinking of you and sending you love and hugs .....

                        Love, Sun XXX
                        How simple it is to see that we can only be happy now and there will never be a time when it is not now....

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                          One Step at a Time – February 2014

                          Will be thinking of you tomorrow mama...(())
                          I crossed over at 50 had night sweats for years and years but now I am not so sure it was hormones as much as it was the darn wine...but that is behind me now for the most part so I am so glad of that!!
                          Went to get my hair cut a little and the red put back where it belongs.....darn gray hair creeping out when I sleep.....
                          Dottie

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                            One Step at a Time – February 2014

                            Hey everyone. Just finished making a load of bruschetta for tomorrow
                            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                              One Step at a Time – February 2014

                              I'm here! I'm here! Finally.... My internet wasn't working all morning. I started having MWO withdrawals!

                              Mama - I will definitely be thinking of you tomorrow. I'm sure your 3 fellas will be quite handsome and make Pops proud! How is Nana holding up?

                              Sorry I can't chime in on the Menopause discussion. Maybe I will never ever have it if I just keep this implant in my arm I will say that I DO have nightsweats, but that may have something to do with my down comforter, flannel pajamas and heater...ya think? I hate cold, what can I say.

                              Ok time to catch up around here since I was away all morning.

                              Love you peeps!
                              :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

                              Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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                                One Step at a Time – February 2014

                                Checking in quickly. Haven't read back. Am at the orthodontist with Sedona. Gave her a low codeine dose with aspirin before we got here...she was so nervous !
                                Waiting............
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