Army Thread Saturday 8th February

[roxane]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

hi dream

[sweetpea29]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Good morning all :wavin:

[satz123]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

roxane;1624328 wrote: thanks satz, but it would turn into war and peace, and a messy one at that.

this is what i put on loamers thread.


i woke up slowly this morning where your thoughts go where they like. a load of of baggage with my mother. had to snap it off and get up. then tears appeared wtf! i was so frustrated because i know i cant bring anything up with her. i have tried in the past and she immediately gets aggressive defensive and grabs victim status. she then goes to her husband and tells her version of what i said and he comforts her. shes got it down pat.

how do i know? he has come out with stuff (when hes talking to me) that is completely not what i said!

no proper adult conversation there!



i have come to some resolve in accepting she is damaged by her childhood and its just the way she is. but it still gets to me how selfish she was when we were younger. she stopped parenting and partied. in front of us.

NOW is your time to be selfish Roxy ! Do what you have to do to take care of #1

[roxane]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

ha ha! that what she always said i was!

[satz123]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

roxane;1624334 wrote: ha ha! that what she always said i was!

No shame in being selfish Roxy -we all are 'specially when we are young -we think the whole world revolves 'round us
An ye know maybe it does .... 'cos who else have we got at the end of the day? Us being unhappy -taking on their shit- will not help them be happy.
You look after you Roxy. Don't keep going back for more beatings (emotional) you will drive yourself nuts!
Make some space between you for a while ?
I don't know the in / outs so I am coming from not knowing the baggage and maybe not needing to know - just look after YOU now!
BE SELFISH .

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

satz123;1624333 wrote: NOW is your time to be selfish Roxy ! Do what you have to do to take care of #1

Exactomundo.

Big :wavin: to Sweetypea.

Must go to the orifice.............fiddle faddled around so long I'm only going to get a couple of hours in................shame.

[Marioisback]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Morning all, up to my eyes at the moment hope all is well with you all.

[spiderwoman]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Morning all! well its just morning, faffing and getting nowhere here but at least it isn't raining. Don't know where my life is going at the moment, getting nowhere fast!

[satz123]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Hiya Mario & Spidey :wavin:
Dunno what's goin' on here but posts I tried to submit disappearing ???

Sylv are you generally not knowing or just today ?

[satz123]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

ok outta here

much much later gaters

[spiderwoman]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Evening all, been an odd sort of few weeks really Satz.

Not been feeling right for some weeks now, had a cold that's been hanging around which is not at all my norm. Been to see the quack, which was an absolute waste of time, apparently its viral and it was recommended I inhale menthol crystals or Vic, yeah right, can just see myself sitting doing that 4 times a day at work!!!

Add to that a fabulous surprise in that OH is taking me to Las Vegas for 3 weeks in September which has had me all stirred up about getting weight off, time off and saving enough cash to really enjoy it instead of going with the flow and just enjoying it. Although I've lived in other countries I've never really had that kind of holiday. Probably just need a good kick up the backside really ...

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

:waving: and evening all.

Wise words again from our Molls.

Been in ages from the orifice and just took to the settee with a hottie bottle............me back was killing me................but there's not a fecking staple to be seen.

[roxane]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

Did you put them all on his chair?

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

roxane;1624446 wrote: Did you put them all on his chair?

:H:H You're never going to believe this........... but the thought actually went through my mind.

[roxane]

Army Thread Saturday 8th February

It was the first thing that went through mine, but he's not my boss