Army thread Sunday 16 February

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

they really think they have the right. 'you have money, i dont, thats not fair'. only, now i dont.

funny thing is, shes so moralistic about other things.

how she sleeps at night i dont know.

[spiderwoman]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

Morning to those of you who've arrived since earlier. Lovely morning here, I am going to brave the shops for a bit on account of the fact I want tea and we have no milk, since I finished it for first cup of tea I best go and get some. Also Aldi were seducing me with some rather nice cast iron pans that need closer inspection - they only had a picture on Thursday when I was last in - today's special offer apparently

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

My one was my bridesmaid & my best friend at the time.
We were in our first house - married at 21 - struggling to furnish it.
I signed for a store card as guarantor for her - not knowing they would come after me if she didn't pay.
They were taking my furniture away to pay her debt FFS!!
She was giving them a false address.
I told my mother - she marched down to the house where she knew she was and I'll tell you the debt was paid quick smart !:H

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

roxane;1627615 wrote: they really think they have the right. 'you have money, i dont, thats not fair'. only, now i dont.

funny thing is, shes so moralistic about other things.

how she sleeps at night i dont know.

Oh I know Roxy - I am still taken as a soft touch - even by my own sister .
Yeah the 'your loaded' mentality ....

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

lifestyle choice and no morals.

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

spiderwoman;1627616 wrote: Morning to those of you who've arrived since earlier. Lovely morning here, I am going to brave the shops for a bit on account of the fact I want tea and we have no milk, since I finished it for first cup of tea I best go and get some. Also Aldi were seducing me with some rather nice cast iron pans that need closer inspection - they only had a picture on Thursday when I was last in - today's special offer apparently

:waving: Spidey
- now I have to go look at the pans I don't need :H

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

im going to persue it. even if i dont get anything back. i cant leave it as i would seethe and gnash my teeth.

i will stay within the law. i cant contact her 'too' much as she could say im harrassing her.

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

mollyka;1627621 wrote: you can chase her relentlessly and make her life a misery (I like that option) or for the sake of your sanity and sobriety you may have to let it go

I've been known to have black tea Sylv rather than go to the shops --- HATE SHOPS SO MUCH!!!!! Forgot cream today --- so dessert will be brownies and cream without cream

Think Molls is right - AGAIN - let it go Roxy for your own health. She will not prosper - it will show up somewhere mark my words. Just pity her now.


Molls-the sprogs are coming over ? They KNOW where the shop is ? quick text there Mrs..

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

roxane;1627627 wrote: im going to persue it. even if i dont get anything back. i cant leave it as i would seethe and gnash my teeth.

i will stay within the law. i cant contact her 'too' much as she could say im harrassing her.

Well ok then Mrs ........ make her suffer some more :H
I can send the lads around ( with my mother ) :bat:
Won't see me pushing the high moral ground too much - all talk - I'd love to kill her !
Was thinking of how this is hurting YOU more than her !

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

satz123;1627632 wrote: Well ok then Mrs ........ make her suffer some more :H
I can send the lads around ( with my mother ) :bat:
Won't see me pushing the high moral ground too much - all talk - I'd love to kill her !
Was thinking of how this is hurting YOU more than her !

it is, but if i leave it, i will still be stressed about it. i would so love to let people she knows know about it. i did tell a mutual friend. she froze me out. god knows what she was told by the bitch.

[JackieClaire]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

Good morning Dreamydooo, Tipperooo, Sweetpie, Spydysylve, Mollymoo, Marioooooo, Roxx, Satzuma,

Verrrrrrrrrrry late this morning as I was durty stop up and watched Inglourious Basterds 'til yon time...............forgotten what a damned good film it is.

What can I say that hasn't already been said, Roxx. Never had any money to lend apart from the odd tenner here and there so wouldn't know what to do however..............get the letter sent........get back on the sober horse.

Molls speaks volumes when she says we just can't allow negative people to get at us. I've drank too many times and for too long letting people into my brain.

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

mollyka;1627639 wrote: god yeah --- send MrsBenjy Snr!!!! I agree with Benj tho Roxy - do what is right for YOU - you'll know it in your heart - I would say to you tho --- if you're gonna chase her -- forget all thoughts of her as an ex-friend or anything --- or appealing to her better nature --- she obviously has none!:l

that door is well and truely closed molly. shes no friend to me.

i did start small claims, got as far as ready to send details. you can do it online. then she said she could pay me back end of january as she was getting a payment from a bank or somesuch. not seen it.

JC, i couldnt really afford to lend it but it was supposed to be short term.

anyway, thanks for letting me write it out, it really helps.

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

mollyka;1627642 wrote: Well that's only bullying -- have you no small claims court over there? Dunno if they deal with that sort of thing -- but certainly the threat of it may scare her if she would be worried about people knowing the 'truth' ---
I used to worry about people talking about me behind my back --- now --- don't give a shit -- I know the truth -- that's all that matters to me now --- let myself get upset a wee while back -- but tbh -- those others are just pathetic sad sacks ---- fuck them.....

Jazus where do you bury your dead ????:H:H



:waving: JC
Go over to the Shout Out thread - who KNEW :shocked:

[satz123]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

roxane;1627646 wrote: that door is well and truely closed molly. shes no friend to me.

i did start small claims, got as far as ready to send details. you can do it online. then she said she could pay me back end of january as she was getting a payment from a bank or somesuch. not seen it.

JC, i couldnt really afford to lend it but it was supposed to be short term.

anyway, thanks for letting me write it out, it really helps.

Glad it helps Roxy !:l

[roxane]

Army thread Sunday 16 February

satz123;1627649 wrote: Jazus where do you bury your dead ????:H:H

:H:H:H