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Morning Everyone.

I had a good and bad weekend. I've been going through some major decisions and I'm not going to candy coat it .... I haven't even attempted to stay on the program, I had a great excuse with the long 4th weekend and no kids to keep me "in line".

Anyway, woke up this morning with a major hangover to remind me that I deserve better than headaches, fuzzy memory and embarrassing moments!

I'm going for 30 days of abs to get back on track so wish me luck I really need you guys and all your great support!:d

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Good luck ThuzzyB. Your welcome in Absville. And even thinking about the program lets your subconscious keep working on it, even if your conscious is not...Feel better and take care of the head.

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Hey Thuzzy--
All the support you want here! Major hugs to you and no need to ever candycoat anything you say here...we've all been in the same place....

The good news is that you CAN wake up tomorrow feeling different by getting back on your program today! It's really that simple! Stay abs today, feel better tomorrow.... (I know, I know--nothing is really THAT simple...but it makes a good mantra to keep saying to yourself today....

In the meantime, make some decisions about which parts of the program you are going to put in place today; supps, CD's, exercise--and, of course keep reading and posting here!

We are really all here for you...and we really do know just how you feel...
:d
susan

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You sound like me last month. At the start of the month a project I really cared about fell apart and slowly so did I. A month of self pity basically gave me an excuse to return to the mixed comfort of drinking. Every morning of course I cursed myself...

But on 7/1, I returned to the program and the Abs board, and adjusted my sups to include more L-Glut. Today is only day 5, but it seems a little easier this time so far. We can't give up - to me this seems like a life and death struggle and we need to choose life.

I won't wish you luck, as I think luck has nothing to do with this. I will wish you strength, resolve and perserverence (and the same for all of us). A few bad days can't stop us and every AF or mod day is a victory.

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yep, yep, yep! All that stuff up there and more hugs to you Thuzzy. We are all here for ya. Gabby

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morning thuzzyb.
I know where you come from. I just found this site and its been abs for 36 hrs.for me this morning. Woke up without a headache and went for a walk by the lake. I was able to enjoy the noisy geese and the reflection off the water without sunglasses. Whenever I pass a mirror I see that stupid grin on my face. This is so new for me after decades of misery. I could have never done this without your posts and the fact that I am not the only miserable sod in the world. You just tripped, you did not fall down. You'll be find we know that for sure.
((((((hugs)))))) lori

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Thuzzy,

Oh how I love a good honest post like yours! Sounds like you're ready to make your move to Absville... And we've got a moving van complete with an entire crew to help ya, K?

I'm really glad ya didn't "candy coat" it. Sugar makes us crave booze, yk...

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And Thuzzy? Check out the thread on this page called "how long with MWO"... Misho had a great post on it!

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Thanks everyone! You guys crack me up! And make me feel normal again!

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Hey Thuzzy, Good to see ya back...you're gonna be just fine girl. Glad you're here.:h :d , ...Judie
Ps thanks for the honest post. maybe check out the meditation from yesterday's mods if ya want...

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Thuzzy;

You can do it, I'll be sitting over in the Cheering Section with my cheerleader outfit and pomp poms, with the huge signs saying

GO THUZZY!!, But after you win, you have to buy hotdogs for everybody!

:rollin Brandy

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Thuzzy,
I know, know, KNOW you can do this. L-glut is my best friend - just took one under the tounge for craving and it works every time!!!
We are all here for you.
And lori, you are not the only sod out there - the good thing is we are all a lot less miserable sober than drunk!!!
peggy

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hi thuzzy.

i just wanted to send you best wishes, keep trying, you can use the money you save for all those hotdogs! (just mustard on mine please!)

all the best. lj.x

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Hello,
I love reading this website because everyone is so generally nice. I just wanted to let you know I am not a drinker but my husband is a alcoholic, and I just wanted to let you know I beleive you can do anything. I don't really understand everything you are going through, but Once you jhit rock bottom then all you have to know is you can only go up from there. I commend you and everyone else on MAKING A DIFFERENCE AND CHANGING YOUR LIFE.:rollin . My thoughts and pryers arewith you and your family.:b
tanya

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thanks Tanya! Maybe someday your hubby can tune into this website and get some help. Meanwhile, you are welcome to keep browsing and know that we can understand some of what you might be going through. Thanks for your compassion and appreciation!

Kathy