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    One Step at a Time - April 2014

    Kradle - My Cat got scared and for some reason jumped on my stability ball. POP!!!!! So, watch out for the kittens.

    K9 - So awesome that you are that much closer to your new career!!! :h

    Mama - I can't believe that you played checkers TWICE!!!! I will even play jacks at this point. :H
    "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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    AF - 7-27-15

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      One Step at a Time - April 2014

      Zenstyle;1646769 wrote: That's really sad Fenny. It's life... but it doesn't make it any easier.

      His partner feels worse than he does. Poor guy. Does he have any say in this guy's care plan?
      He does. He is paying for his partner's care, thus the dementia home. Honestly, though...his ideas of where his partner is, cognitively speaking, is way off. He wants us to treat the man his partner once was...but that man is gone.

      Basically, the client's partner is the only reason the client is at the dementia home. If it were up to the county, the client would be at the home for the violently insane. I am afraid the partner is wrong in his estimation of where the client is, mentally.

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        One Step at a Time - April 2014

        Zenstyle;1646772 wrote: I agree. The living shouldn't suffer on behalf of the dying... as harsh as that sounds.
        It's true, Zen.

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          One Step at a Time - April 2014

          Zen he is in a really nice clean place. I did my leg work and homework before moving him there. That does ease things but I know it will hit the fan someday...but I will have to deal with that later.
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            One Step at a Time - April 2014

            Nettie - my cousin got violent in the end. Wanted to kill his sister. Was making elaborate plans for his partner to help him escape. Then would get upset when they wouldn't do that. I think it was awful at the end for them.

            I know that when my Dad was in ICU for weeks on end, he ended up with ICU psychosis. It is an awful thing to watch/experience. One morning the 'lung doctor' (can't remember his official title) came in and just patted me on the arm. He said it's ok, I've seen much worse. :upset:
            "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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            AF - 7-27-15

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              One Step at a Time - April 2014

              Ok - I'm sorry but I can see that I'm running way behind. I'm not going to try to catch up. But, I'm here now.
              :welcome::welcome:
              "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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              AF - 7-27-15

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                One Step at a Time - April 2014

                Oh gosh...Nora, Dottie...
                You all have done all you can. Please do not feel badly about your loved ones and where they are at.

                Some things are a normal part of declining and leaving this world. We all love our parents and other relatives. Some stuff just cannot be avoided. :l

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                  One Step at a Time - April 2014

                  Nora if I dwell on it for very long I will want to run to the wine store....it just worries me and so out of my control..and I am such a control person...hard to detach...
                  Dottie

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                    One Step at a Time - April 2014

                    There goes Nora's Stability Ball!!! :H Was wondering if that was gonna work for us... guess not!!! ;o)

                    Dottie... you must put yourself first my dear... you are the priority.

                    I'm taking my wheezy sneezy self off to Tudor-ville! I can't believe I've been sick with this shit so long... I'm really peeved. Whatever this virus is, it got me good.

                    Bill is out, the cats are fed and snuggling with me, the house is quiet... just about to fire up the Tudors again and chill. I don't give a shit if I'm not well tomorrow, I am DONE with convalescing. Mama might have to come down and bail me out! Or Niner now that I think of it... that girl's getting SERIOUS connections!

                    Love youz! Sleep tight. I'm off to watch men wearing tights............. X

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                      One Step at a Time - April 2014

                      Evening Steppers!


                      Wanted to comment and send hugs to everyone's wonderful, witty post tonight but the twins had a huge awful fight...Sedona threw up in the car and I am just tired and dysfunctional now....looking for the remote to keep watching breaking bad. ...

                      Has anyone seen the remote????:upset:

                      Love you all,
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                        One Step at a Time - April 2014

                        Morning loves. Fen, your stories made me sad.
                        I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                        Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                          One Step at a Time - April 2014

                          Good morning, my peeps!

                          Bright and sunny so far today, and my daffs are really coming along. After my shift today, I'm going to run a load of yard waste to the dump.

                          Back later...

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                            One Step at a Time - April 2014

                            Hey all,those stories are sad,people work so hard all their lives just living,loving and in the end sheesh some just arent all there,ugh today is one of those days when i look at Winslow and wish i was him! he gets to lounge all day,eat,watch t.v,and doze,no responsabilities at all(man i spelled that shittily)you get it though,im jealous haha,its supposed to be 90 today,i love the heat,what i dont love is a/c it doen't have to be 68 degrees in the shop,i freeze,i dunno if its because the girls i work with are chubby or what but they crank that air!! im reading an awesome book written by the drummer from GNR,its all about sex,drugs,drinkin,i guess Axl Rose is bi-polar but didnt know it back in the day,he did some bizzaro stuff,well off to dry my fro,lata
                            I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                            I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                            Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                              One Step at a Time - April 2014

                              Hi all
                              Sun is out but not too warm. Off to the gym shortly then wait yet again for the cable guy.
                              Going to a cooking demo tonight. I need to get cooking more...the darn scale is stuck..not fair....boohiss....
                              Dottie

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                                One Step at a Time - April 2014

                                Happy hump day! I'm at lunch right now, going for a walk. Feeling those cravings today. I will not give in!

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