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    Well, THAT didn't work

    First day back at work and the Stress-O-Meter soared! Found myself deepbreathing on the freeway in a rush to daycare. Not a good sign. And then realized I'd left the CDs at work. Yipes! At home? Chores, stress, laundry, stress, exhausted child, stress. Half a bottle of wine open on the kitchen shelf....

    Long story short, fell off the wagon and had the three drinks left in the open bottle. Refused to open a new bottle telling myself I wouldn't be up to my walk tomorrow if I did. I didn't open it and that's something new and good. Drank lots of water, took my Topa and went to bed (after three loads of laundry, changing the linen, vacuuming the upstairs, etc.).

    I tried to replace the cravings (yes, I'm now SURE that's what they are---ah, pride goeth before that fall) with a mental picture of something else: SoBe's Green Tea in a cool glass, but it only worked for a bit. (Should have gotten my butt in the car and gotten some right then!) I've got some ideas where to start: better planning in getting chores done in the morning and over the weekend, making sure I've got something else to drink that appeals (ie, SoBe's), figuring some way to leave the stress at work, or maybe moving to a Zen retreat on a desert isle? It's not that my workplace is harsh, just our crunch time and I'm a stress sponge.

    I'm going to up the Calm Forte at lunch and see if that helps. Also, tonight's my exercise class so that will mean a change of pace--I'll drop JuJu at husband's work and he'll attend to dinner, etc.-- and I'll be getting home past the witching, uh cocktail, hour.

    Any of you working parents out there have any suggestions for breaking the weeknight cocktail habit?

    Damn, damn, damn!

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    Well, THAT didn't work

    Honey..ALL parents are WORKING parents!!:happy

    I didn't "work" until my kids were older so I didn't have the get home and de-stress thing. I always wondered why my hubby had to have that 2-3 beers when he got home though:rolleyes

    When I did go to work, it was with kids in a daycare so I got to see the other side of things. Didn't drink much back then but I did feel the stress. The parents were a hoot! And I loved "my" kids. Six 18 month olds in a room all day mostly by myself!! Talk about job stress!:rollin We all survived and they got fed and went home clean...some didn't want to leave with their real mom, so I guess I did a pretty good job! Couldn't do it now though!
    OK...how to de-stress after long day at work and then facing long night of more work??? Don't know....maybe cut something out or organize " home" work better? Ask hubby for help? Threaten to quit one of your jobs?
    For sure clear out that pantry of wine and replace it with that green tea.....cases of tea to take up all the room there!
    Pray..............alot..........
    todays and everydays prayer...HELP..HELP..HELP... THANKYOU...THANKYOU...THANKYOU..
    He does hear even the most simple ones
    I'm livinproof
    Blessings,
    Nancy:d

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      Well, THAT didn't work

      I'm not a parent, but I KNOW that I would not be able to keep a bottle of wine in the house and not drink it....especially, if it were half opened! Why just this afternoon I had an vision of myself sipping a glass of cold wine...and I've been abs for 86 days and really don't WANT to go back to my drinking "life" at all! If I had had some wine in the house I'm not sure I would be sitting here sober now....

      I don't know if it's feasible for you or not, but I would suggest getting rid of ALL the alcohol in the house and replacing it with yummy teas, etc....

      Hang it there, it's worth it!
      :h
      susan

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