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    Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

    Haha!
    You RocK Chief.

    Just wanted to say that.

    I laughed outloud imagining a 50 something papa (or mommie) sitting in a kid sized bean bag playing on a Wee all afternoon long.
    Funny!!

    And such a good point.
    Oh, lord. Yes, much easier to not drink than try and get yourself to stop at 2.
    I wasn't like this my entire life however, I had to work up to it, but I did manage. I thought perhaps I could undo what I had done ... but it doesn't work. And I am tired of trying. I know some folks have this reaction from the start. I think living in the Caribbean did it for me, no one cares how much or when you drink. Quite remarkable really. I cannot imagine doing that in the US!

    Peace.

    Chief;1674183 wrote: Orimus, remember....drinking 0 or 12 is easy.......drinking 1 or 2 is impossible. For me, it's much easier to not drink a drop. I tried many, many times to moderate. It doesn't work. We're just not wired for that. And we can't change the way we're wired, but we can change what we do.

    What if you had a friend who was having all sorts of problems....physical, emotional, financial....problems at home with his family, problems at work not performing 100%, and it was all because he was obsessed with buying and playing video games. What would you tell him to do? Wouldn't you tell him that 90% of his problems could be solved if he just gave up that one thing.......that one small thing that millions of people don't do?

    I know that sounds crazy, but sometimes I think we give alcohol too much importance. We can convince ourselves that we would be SO deprived if we didn't drink....that it would be so awful and terrible.....

    Just trying to look at it in a different perspective...

    Don
    (AF since 17 May 2014) 2 years 5 months sober

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      Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

      Chief you hit the nail right on the head!!! It's zero or twelve. None of us wants to be here, that's for sure, but your perspective has helped me a lot. Keep it coming! Happy Saturday. Off to sip my pink lemonade all day!

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        Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

        Hi all,Orimus i know you can do this,you sound passionate about your dojan and meditation,focus on those and making your body healthy,are you taking kudzu and the st.john's wort still?i found whenever i tried to drink on that duo i would puke,and if i didn't puke i certainly couldn't drink much even if i wanted to,just try and get your focus back ok?supposed to be a hot one here in Vegas,it's o.k at least it's predictable,have to work today and i'm not digging it,hate working Saturday,rather be home with hubs,but then again he's a trigger on the weekend sometimes,he'll crack open a beer at like 1 p.m and just sip on it for an hour,if i crack open a beer at 1 i'm gonna chug that mofo! hope everyone has a safe,super,sober,Saturday
        I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

        I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
        Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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          Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

          I've heard from someone else on MWO that L-glutamine taken sublingually helps quickly with sugar cravings. My alcohol cravings seem to be replaced with sugar cravings now. I guess it's part of the process and I'll take craving sugar over AL any day. I'm going to carry one around in my pocket today and try it under my tongue as soon as the craving hits. I'll let you guys know if it works. Hope you all have a great AF day/night (depending on location ).

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            Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

            Ginger - thanks for the reminder. I used to take L-Glutamine all the time and it does help with the sugar cravings. I need to grab some of my son's and start taking it. I have been fighting the sugar cravings because I know how bad it gets.

            Today is Day 3. Just took my Antabuse. I'm already playing the mind games about when I stop taking it. :upset: So, I got up and swallowed that pill.

            It is really helping reading this thread and all the support here. :h
            "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
            ..........
            AF - 7-27-15

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              Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

              Eloise;1674307 wrote: Haha!
              You RocK Chief.

              Just wanted to say that.

              I laughed outloud imagining a 50 something papa (or mommie) sitting in a kid sized bean bag playing on a Wee all afternoon long.
              Funny!!

              And such a good point.
              Oh, lord. Yes, much easier to not drink than try and get yourself to stop at 2.
              I wasn't like this my entire life however, I had to work up to it, but I did manage. I thought perhaps I could undo what I had done ... but it doesn't work. And I am tired of trying. I know some folks have this reaction from the start. I think living in the Caribbean did it for me, no one cares how much or when you drink. Quite remarkable really. I cannot imagine doing that in the US!

              Peace.
              Eloise
              so sorry I missed your 30 day party!! Good on you. Hope you're doing the do!!
              Sam
              Liberated 5/11/2013

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                Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                Samstone;1674490 wrote: Eloise
                so sorry I missed your 30 day party!! Good on you. Hope you're doing the do!!
                Sam
                Oh - GREAT JOB!!!!!!
                "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                ..........
                AF - 7-27-15

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                  Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                  SS - I just read your blog from Friday. It made me cry. It was so beautifully written and touched my heart. :h:l:h
                  "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                  ..........
                  AF - 7-27-15

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                    Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                    Hi everyone and Nora, maybe you can cut that pill in half because I am In mind game hell here at the dance recital...:egad:

                    There was simply so much *%*#+* that went down the second I walked through the doors I have been playing with stopping on the way home...

                    I'm in a corner here reading so trying to stay strong!!

                    Where's SS? I love her blog. incredibly we'll written and just so....detailed and determined! Love you SS :l:h
                    On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
                    *If you think poorly of yourself, you can fail with a clear conscience.
                    https://www.mywayout.org/community/f11/tool-box-27556.html tool box
                    https://www.mywayout.org/community/f19/newbies-nest-30074.html newbie nest

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                      Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                      Hi Kradle, stay strong!!
                      Xx
                      Patrice

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                        Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                        Hey Kradle - :l:l I am so sorry that you are having to deal with all of this.
                        "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                        ..........
                        AF - 7-27-15

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                          Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                          Stop playing with the idea, Kradle. You don't want to do it, The Beast wants you to do it. Think about the 2 scenarios......

                          1. How will you feel if you drink? .....guilty, mad, ashamed, sad, remorseful, sick, hungover..

                          2. How will you feel if you take control and don't succumb to The Beast?....strong, proud, in charge, happy with yourself, clearheaded...

                          What do you want to do?


                          Don

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                            Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                            Don - you sure make a lot of sense there!

                            Kradle - just texted you. :h
                            "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                            ..........
                            AF - 7-27-15

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                              Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                              I love you Chief! You are so right! Gotta focus on the good. I want to feel strong and proud. Mostly clear headed! Just wanted you guys to know one of my test results from the other day came back normal!! Relief for sure! Still waiting for one more, maybe tomorrow. But my anxiety has been greatly reduced!

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                                Anyone in the First Week of Their Unpteenth Quit?

                                Lizann, That is fantastic news. Keeping you in my thoughts as you wait for the next "normal" test result!

                                Morning everyone! Don, that was a great post. Thanks.... That needs to be a pumper sticker or something. Tat maybe?

                                Kradle, Hope things are better today. Lots of good posts for support. The great part about this thread is we all benefit from them even if we aren't in the throws at the moment. It's a wake up call for all of us that the "Beast" is always lurking. Thanks again SS for starting it.

                                I'm headed out in the AM for another trip, which happens to be my 50 AF day! This should be an easier time because I'm going with my non-drinking sister and kids to the beach. However, I'm staying alert for the beast!!

                                Love knowing you are all here!!

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