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**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 09:36 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Wow Jen;

I'm so sorry you had such an awful experience! I hope that is a friend that you stay "far away from"..Friends like that you don't need...

Sounds like you have a very supportive Hubby..

I'm sending you good vibes...You know your friends here are real!!

Brandy

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 09:37 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

wow

Oh my gosh!!! Yes, I agree with you. It would be hard for me to ever speak to that supossed friend again. Take care of your self Jen. This sort of behavior probably wont stop. Dont subject you and your marriage to it. Gabby

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 09:40 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jen,

Wow.. here is a thought ...Although you are furious at her right now & perhaps do not want your anger to lead your decision-making regarding your relationship with her.. one thing for sure...her drinking & lack of control will not be helping you on your personal quest of self-improvement...you do not need her in your life, at this time anyway...Chrysa

As far as thinking things through before acting -- who would not be emotional if they heard that about their husband..don't be hard on yourself there..

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 10:01 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jen,

I have honestly never heard of such a thing! I agree with Chrysalis in that you should not be too hard on yourself here. As far that friend Jen, holy cow, that is NO friend! I am so glad you and your husband were able to work this out! Take care of yourself Jen!!

Donna

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 10:09 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Hi Jen-
Sorry to hear about this episode in your life. Your hubby sounds like a great guy. Your friend sounds a bit scary though - stalker like. What kind of friend would try to break up a marriage so she could have more time with her friend?
I know it is hard to 'give up' friends but....sometimes it is really the thing to do....again...scary behavior from your friend
Lisa

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 11:43 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jen,
I am so sorry you went through that! Your friend sounds like she could use MWO!! I'm glad you and hubby were able to work it out - may work out well for you in the long run after all.....
Peggy

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 12:07 PM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Thanks guys. YOU're right about my friend. I told her about MWO. I hope she does get help, and until that time, I am going to have to keep away. I hate to do it but she really hurt me.
Thanks for listening
Jen

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 12:39 PM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jenneh oh my goodness!! What kind of person would do that?
You must stay away from her. She needs help. I've never heard of anyone that would go to those lengths to try to get attention or keep a friendship- to try a destroy a marriage!!
I feel terribl for you but relieved that your husband did not do that. :d

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 01:33 PM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jenneh,

I am so glad that was all a lie. Stay away from that person and DON'T tell her about MWO! Who the hell needs her on this board??? Stay away from her and don't be apologetic ... she could have ruined your marriage. That is not a trifling matter.

I am glad that your hubby understands how this stopping drinking can make your emotions go up and down, up and down ... perhaps suggest short-term counseling for this big change? Or at least get couples workbook? You will feel so much better in month, but things will rear their ugly heads at one point or another. Most of us slip, too. Perhaps discuss that fairly early into your sobriety. That might well give him good scare.

We are all so glad that you will have topa soon. Beware, when I knew was going on topa had myself a good trashing for few days!!! Wasn't nearly as bad as before, but definitely more than slip, more like slide ... on ice.

Take care, Jenneh ... keep us informed and give hubby lots of hugs,

Pansy

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 04:05 PM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jen,

OMG! No no no.... NOT a friend at all! Can you say "DISTURBED FREAK OF NATURE"??? How bout "PSYCHO CHICK"???

RUN... don't walk away, girl!

Uhmmm... Hows about me and some of the "girls" come on over and kick her boney lil *ss to the curb for ya??? We can be pretty efficient at "taking out the trash"... Grrrrr

**Guest** · July 2, 2006, 11:07 PM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Uh... hello...
I would be ONE of those girls that Jane would be bringing! And did we mention we have a few Gators we are bringing to knaw on her toes while she explains herself?????

Or... you could send her here???? (Florida that is...) We would take REAL good care of her.

Sorry.... I really am a nice person when I am not a gator. Hee!

**Guest** · July 3, 2006, 02:50 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Boy, I'm with Allie, on this one! Don't think that sounds very "friendly" to me! That, to me, would be.... Unforgivable... or least unforgettable... pretty fine line. What kind of friend do you have?.. If you have NO TRUST?8o

**Guest** · July 3, 2006, 06:05 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

Jen, I'm glad that things worked out and that you found a "vampire" for what she is. I have a cautionary note for you...keep her away from your husband! If she's lonely and jealous of you and your time, she wants your life, your love, your family, etc. Cut her out, cut her off and keep her away! Stay strong.

**Guest** · July 3, 2006, 08:37 AM

well it was all a lie. Supposed friend!

I would agree with everything, but wouldnt we welcome anyone to this board? It seems to me that she would need this board more than anyone?

Just a thought
Syd

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