Lashing out? Hardly. To know that what you all think is bullshit, ok. I think you're all essentially good people. But, ok.
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nicelife;1689895 wrote: Cori - we've tried to support you many times. You've done tremendous damage here recently and still you were supported by most. I kept silent last time and waited for the dust to settle before I returned.
To lash out at a loved member here is NOT on! To lash out at any one of us, for no apparent reason is just not on either.
If you need to take me to task do so via PM.
Please don't cause grief in this special little place we have come to cherish.
Yeah right.
I am NOT LASHING OUT!!!!!
jeezus ...............really?! !
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nicelife;1689899 wrote:
And, Tawny, Oscar and I walked and talked and walked and talked. He sends you his spesh love.
Nighters from me now.
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byebyebridgetjones;1689907 wrote: My Dad likes Stir Fry too.It is not what we do, but how much love we put into the doing.
Mother Theresa
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Coriander,
I think we all need this thread to be safe. I sort of didn't understand your comments about lashing out, who did you think did that? ( I didn't see it anywhere)
I said to you in a PM - there is not an Undies "gang". What there is is a group of people just trying to support each other through kids growing up, cancer, marriage and divorce and all of the sorts of relationships that are in between, the death of friends and family, loneliness, redundancy, employment disputes, depression, births, growing older, animal worries etc etc
I really want you to keep posting and be with us on this thread. But posts that attack other people - as opposed to contributing by making supportive comments about how our other threadians are managing their lives, or enquiries for the stuff that other people are just speaking about - don't seem that helpful.
If you are angry and upset at anything that has been posted here, identifying exactly what it is that has upsets you or that you think is unfair would be good.
Nobody means you hurt or harm Corrie. I was thinking about this thread over the weekend and one of the things I really like about it is that I think we generally give each other recognition for our strengths. Yes, friends stick with you through thick and thin, but they build you up and tell you how fantastic you are. Particularly when you are a bit vulnerable. But that is partly about speaking for yourself and what is going on for you.
xxNever give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn
Harriet Beecher Stowe
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And whilst you all have me on ignore, other people can see this.
Damage......i am so sorry for this, and have expressed this on numerous occasions. but still the elite undies have frozen me out with no forgiveness. I honestly thought they were better than that. I had them all on The true" list. I harbour no malice, merely sadly acknowledge their closed ranks.
So be it.
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Miss Behaving;1689916 wrote: Coriander,
I think we all need this thread to be safe. I sort of didn't understand your comments about lashing out, who did you think did that? ( I didn't see it anywhere)
I said to you in a PM - there is not an Undies "gang". What there is is a group of people just trying to support each other through kids growing up, cancer, marriage and divorce and all of the sorts of relationships that are in between, the death of friends and family, loneliness, redundancy, employment disputes, depression, births, growing older, animal worries etc etc
I really want you to keep posting and be with us on this thread. But posts that attack other people - as opposed to contributing by making supportive comments about how our other threadians are managing their lives, or enquiries for the stuff that other people are just speaking about - don't seem that helpful.
If you are angry and upset at anything that has been posted here, identifying exactly what it is that has upsets you or that you think is unfair would be good.
Nobody means you hurt or harm Corrie. I was thinking about this thread over the weekend and one of the things I really like about it is that I think we generally give each other recognition for our strengths. Yes, friends stick with you through thick and thin, but they build you up and tell you how fantastic you are. Particularly when you are a bit vulnerable. But that is partly about speaking for yourself and what is going on for you.
xx
Thanks missy but sometimes others need to acknowledge their errors, as i think I have admitted to mine. It's a two way
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Corrie - as I said to you the other day ...... there is no "collective" undies gang, no elite group, no closed ranks.
I see Raggsy because she has been very generous in her time since we moved to Sydney. She made me feel welcome in Australia, and she and Mr Rags have generously had us over for dinner. I have felt very grateful for that. It has helped me feel less strange in a strange land.
I exchange the odd email with Tawny (over chickens) Reg (over music) and Mr G (0ver politics). One of the Undies works at the same place that I do so we talk about work sometimes. But mostly, all my posts are on the boards ...... and quite frankly I don't have time to spend more than about 20 minutes on MWO most days!!!!
I don't know that anyone has you on ignore .... I didn't even know that that was an option!! Personally I can assure you that I don't.Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn
Harriet Beecher Stowe
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Miss Behaving;1689922 wrote: Corrie - as I said to you the other day ...... there is no "collective" undies gang, no elite group, no closed ranks.
I don't know that anyone has you on ignore .... I didn't even know that that was an option!! Personally I can assure you that I don't.
I do know what I will ignore though, and for me, I'll be absent while ever this type of behaviour upsets me. And it does..........It is not what we do, but how much love we put into the doing.
Mother Theresa
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