I know this thread won't be popular, but I just had to say somethign about having a missing child.
My son was missing for 12 years, I know not in the same category as Madeline's parents, as i knew it was his dad that took him.
But for 12 years I didn't know where he was or if he was ok, or whatever.
But I know the bigger fuss I made, the more the information shut down, sorry to say but if someone takes your kid they don't want to be found, and the more media fuss the more underground he will go.
I really hope she is found and soon, before more damage is done, but if I had had the money for private investigators, I think my son would have been found sooner, and would have been less damaged.
Both of us are trying to come to terms with the years lost, and because he wanted to know me his dad has now disowned him, where is the love?....
I shouldn't compare, but I feel empathy with these parents, and feel they should be doing it privately, as to avoid the worst, don't know if anyone understands????
My son was missing for 12 years, I know not in the same category as Madeline's parents, as i knew it was his dad that took him.
But for 12 years I didn't know where he was or if he was ok, or whatever.
But I know the bigger fuss I made, the more the information shut down, sorry to say but if someone takes your kid they don't want to be found, and the more media fuss the more underground he will go.
I really hope she is found and soon, before more damage is done, but if I had had the money for private investigators, I think my son would have been found sooner, and would have been less damaged.
Both of us are trying to come to terms with the years lost, and because he wanted to know me his dad has now disowned him, where is the love?....
I shouldn't compare, but I feel empathy with these parents, and feel they should be doing it privately, as to avoid the worst, don't know if anyone understands????
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