I am sooooo very sorry. There is a neat online place called Over the Rainbow Bridge, or something very similar to that- you might want to google it. It helped me.
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Hiya Jay,
Cats are so very special. They are the guardians of our souls whilst here on earth. I feel your deep sadness. Tabu my cat is my shadow, she reads my thoughts, protects me when I feel beaten or ill and rules my house/life! Many times I have returned home from the bush to find Tabu has been missing a long time during my absense. Each time I feared the worse...BUT I know that there's more than meets the eye to the saying that cats have nine lives . Greta's on a new wild adventure.... a magical adventure in a far off place. The time will come when you will meet again.A BushBaby with Attitude
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my beloved cat passed away this morning ....
Jay,
I 'm so sorry about Greta. I know it is devestating to lose a pet, but please don't hide away and drink as it won't bring her back. Try to keep busy doing other things and gradually you will feel better...I love cats too and can understand your grief.:h
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my beloved cat passed away this morning ....
I can't imagine how awful it must have been to have to find her. I am truly sorry for your loss. There really aren't any words. To me my pets are my family. At my vets office there is literature about different support groups for this. Please contact your vet and ask for some help with this.
My thoughts are with you.Here we go again.
AL FREE since Saturday the 14th of March 2009
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my beloved cat passed away this morning ....
Jay,
I am so sorry about your loss of Greta. Pets are family.
I had to put down by beautiful cat 2 1/2 years ago and I still miss him every day. My cat was A Siamese/Himalayan cat and he was MEAN!!! Years earlier my babysitter had to go to the emergency room because he attacked her and she was allergic to cats. He liked to fly through the air and just bite people. I have many stories.
But when a cat grabs on to your leg with his teeth and won't let go and growls and snarls you know that it's time for the cat to go. Plus he decided that he would pee all over the house and he had no bladder infection.
I gave him away for a day(free) because I was so mad at him but the lady brought him back because he bit her in the head. I told the lady all about his biting and peeing habits. That was when he was 7 and then I kept him for another 3 years and I dealt with the biting and peeing. The peeing was off and on. Just when he got mad for some reason he would pee.
His temper and peeing started to rise and I couldn't take it any more. My older son could not have friends over without this 18 pound cat pouncing on them and then these 180 lb. kids would be jumping on the furniture because they were afraid.
I took my cat in the vet and was bawling because I new I couldn't give him away because who would want an attack cat. He would only let me hold him. He was very special to me and had the most beautiful blue eyes. I knew that he had to be put down.
When the vet. had sedated him (his name was Lincoln) he attacked the vet and boy did he jump and 4 other assistants came running. They said that I was doing the best thing for Lincoln.
So then I drowned my sorrows in alcohol and I was crying all weekend and it didn't help!!! SO don't do it!!! I kept saying to my husband "I want Lincoln back" "I want Lincoln back. " My poor husband felt so helpless that he didn't know what to do. He knows I'm an animal lover so he decided to finally let me get a dog.
I still think about my cat all the time and we even built a cat door in our new house for Linc
so it's always a reminder.
As I am typing this I am getting tears in my eyes because I still feel bad that I had to put him down. The vet says that I was very tolerant for many years of Linc and most people would not have put up with it that long. I just wish my kitty would have passed away on his own because I still have tremendous guilt. Anyways enough of me. This is about trying to cheer you up Jay. You will never forget your beloved kitty. Hugs to you Jay
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my beloved cat passed away this morning ....
thanks for all your replies on this such a sad day for me
immmiss her so much
but no amountof drinking cant bring her back,,, not my friends ,parents or anything
im drinking yeh.. but ill be ok
we are all alone really
i will go on ......
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