One Step at a Time -February 2015

[Dottie Belle]

Morning all,
K9 glad u are back and feeling better. We missed u!
No gym today. Trainer sent me a text saying he was sick so now I can get something done today. We will go visit dad and hit Costco so sorry for trainer but good for us. No we wont go anyway....I will walk on the treddie later while the laundry sloshes around.
Cold and getting colder....bbbbbbbbbbbrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Back later.

[mama bear]

YAY K9.....so glad you are here...we were all getting worried sick

[mama bear]

x post Dots...

[K9Lover]

I still haven't had time to read back but I need some advice. Y'all know I kicked Clark out. Well now he won't even talk to me and I'm feeling so rejected. Not a good time when I already feel sick, lonely, sad about moving...now rejected by someone that isn't even worthy of me. Waaaah.

[Dottie Belle]

He sounds immature to me. Not worth your time. He is probably pouting because u didnt let him take advantage of your kindness and accommodations. He is being a brat..IMHO...

[K9Lover]

I just called him because I had a voicemail from the Home Depot about an application that I put in for him, so I was passing on the message. I told him I don't appreciate the way he can't even be a decent person towards me after all I've done for him. We made it clear we are not in love with each other. So I kinda feel like shit but whatever. That's that. I hate to be mean, but I am not even physically attracted to him. Ugh, I dunno. I am just blabbering on now.

[mama bear]

blabber away sister
I, too, hate rejection, and have been a little psycho a times about exes....but at the end of the day you deserve better, honey.
I know it's easy for an old, married person that is not alone to say that, but it's true.
I know it must suck to go to an empty house, so I am not real sure what to tell you. I am sure Doctor Rusty has some ass-kicking single advice.
And he is being inconsiderate and mean.

[mama bear]

ps...I broke Peter Rabbit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[K9Lover]

Mama you are a wild woman!!!!
Oh and believe me, Clark is being sweet as sugar now that he needs the information that I filled in for him on his application. And he said he was "going to" call me last night but he fell asleep. Whatever. It's not like I am in love with him, I just hate being used. What do you want to bet he calls tonight and tries to be all friendly? Well guess who is going to be the immature one now??? ME! (Sorry Dots, but I just have to....LOL)
I think I just need a Peter Rabbit (but industrial strength obviously...lol...). Since I'm on a roll of being mean, I couldn't even tell when (or if) Clark ever managed to get it in anyway. Sorry for the raunchy talk.
osteroops:

[Rusty]

Doctor Rusty is in.:applouse::hug:

K9-I echo what Dottie said. He is immature and pouting. Who the hell wants that? You already had 1 baby. You do NOT need another one. Yeah, I get the coming home to an empty house, and not having any plans on the weekend. Been there and done that. Even though I was the one who broke off my 5-year relationship, I was still angry and sad, because it was the loss of a relationship I busted my butt at, and I ended up alone...with no reason to get dressed up on the weekends, and lots of spare time I had to fill. Would I ever get back with him?? NO WAY. Even though he is a lawyer, he didn't "get" why I was breaking up with him. Not my problem that he wasn't smart enough to understand. Same with Clark. He can't be decent to you because his ego is bruised, and you caught him in his deception. It's a guy thing. Sorry, FT...if you are lurking. Don't go out of your way to help him with his job applications, either. That's his problem. Don't feel rejected, K9 and don't beat yourself up. I think you are still smarting and feeling rejected because Sierra moved out. I understand that.:hug: Surround yourself with people who appreciate you and make you feel good about yourself. You used to be so active in the Newbies Nest, helping people who were struggling to become sober. You were so compassionate and supportive. The people you advised were so grateful, and I know you'll start feeling better when you can move away from your hurt and focus your energy on a smooth move to your new place and spending time with people who need you and love you. HUGS. Oops...our time is up. That will be $500. HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHH!!!

Mama-my birthday is tomorrow. :-0) ;-) . I am exactly two days older than Mama! Yup, we talked for the first time right after our 50th birthdays. How the hell did you break Peter Rabbit? Just get a cucumber...it will be easier and cheaper. Hahaha.

Big hellos to everyone else.! I am with a client today and he is peeking at me through the window. Lunch is over so better get back to work.

[mama bear]

a cucumber....hmmmmmm

[K9Lover]

Doctor Rusty has done it again!!! You are so right my dear friend...and $500 seems like a hell of a deal!! You're right, it's not even really about Clark right now, it's the move and seeing all of Sierra's things (and having to throw some away), and just being sad and lonely. Being at home sick with the flu drove me bat-shit crazy too!!! I am better now that I am around people again. I didn't want any of my family coming over and getting contaminated as the doctor said it's very contagious. I am actually looking forward to getting into my new little place and kinda starting over with the decorations and stuff, I may even change up my style and go for something completely new! Oh and no, I am not helping Clark with anything else, he's on his own!

On a bright note...my baby girl is coming from Friday - Monday...I CANNOT WAIT!!! :heartbeat::heartbeat::heartbeat:

[mama bear]

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Adina is coming home!!! let us help you decorate your new pad Niner!! It will be fun....
I am SO bored at work right now
Lucky Cat gets to come home tomorrow night....$4,000 later......he better live a REALLY long time!

[K9Lover]

Holy cat on a stick Mama...$4K???
So here's my luck...the place that called Clark this morning (The Home Depot) has already called him back after talking to him. Just watch, he's gonna get some job paying more than I make, and I'm the one that did all the effin' work!!! Sometimes things are so stupid that all you can do is laugh about it. (Or cut off their 1.5" penis).

[Dottie Belle]

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