folks I am overwhelmed. Got the title to his car put in my name but the damn RV is considered something "special" and I have to jump through some legal hoops. Called the lawyer and she is not in....I want to cry and run away...too damn much for me alone....I really want a drink to numb all this.....I am on the ledge folks....
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Dottie -
I am here....what do I need to do???
I completely understand, but if you do this, you may fall into a hole that will take a LONG time to claw your way out of....I love my family more than alcohol.:h
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I know mama but the grief and sorrow is just choking me.Comment
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the funeral home fellow brought his urn today and that just sent me over the edge.Comment
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I completely understand. You have my cell if you want to talk.
Put his urn in a beautiful spot that would make him happy.....I love my family more than alcohol.:h
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Dottie :heartbeat:
I'm still at work but will be here soon."Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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The urn is on the entertainment center above the TV.....damn this is so hard...Comment
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Dottie - I cannot imagine the pain you are in. Just know that you are loved here, and will be for a long time.
I am here....but I have been up since 3 am for some stupid reason, so forgive me if I fall asleep. Some of us are willing to come be with you, but I can imagine that may feel awkward,
As much as I bitch about hubs, I would have to be in a rubber room if something happened to him.
God is looking over you......I know you have a deep faith.I love my family more than alcohol.:h
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Dottie I am sorry. Maybe you could put the urn where you don't have to look at it all the time for now..Drinking doesn't ease the pain. I drank so much when my hub died I was having hallucinations, and it did not help....I see my last post did not show. I wonder where it went? Bacinabit...Comment
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Aww Dottie, he is with you at home again! Honestly, you do sound like you have a good handle on this legal stuff. I know you are hurting. I heard a physiologist on the radio on my way home from work. A woman lost her husband several years ago. The doctor asked her how she got through it. Her answer was just one foot in front of the other. Don't overthink things right now. Like mama, you have my number if you want to talk. I am here for you! How are the dogs dealing?
Bird I think your advice is so valuable. You have been through this, for that I am sorry.
Mama happy about the job. I get that your boss is sad, but good for you. That's coming up real soon, 3/20,Comment
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I know...trying to keep my eyes open until at least 8....God I am old!I love my family more than alcohol.:h
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Don't know what happened there, guess I accidentally posted.
Jane and Pauly, we used to paint our shells with colored nail polish(kids and I). It is mindless, yet busy work.
Sendak and rags, yes stay with us. We are. Fun bunch.
Rusty, love your POETS day. Never heard that one before, but I will be using it.
Sunny, have you seen mum yet? How's your tummy?
Nora, sometimes routine is good. I personally am glad I have nothing big on the agenda ahead of me.
Hubby is going out with his friends tonight. Mark is at school late. CJ is still home but will likely hang out with joe and sleep there again. Erin was here for dinner but left. I guess tht leaves me here alone with Lucy. Like you Dottie, but different still. (Don't mean to be insensitive, just thinking of what it must be like for you.). Up early for work so I guess I'll call it an early night. Happy weekend loves!Comment
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Mama I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open too!!! Why fight it?
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Dottie, can you call someone to talk to for a bit? Must be another hard first. Do you have Netflix , Amazon Prime or a Roku device? Maybe you could start watch a new series. I started Brothers & Sisters recently & am enjoying it very much. Sally Field is one of the main stars. Losing her husband suddenly is one of the major themes. I watch it via Hulu Plus through a Roku I have connected to the tv, but you can also watch it via computer/laptop.Last edited by jane27; March 6, 2015, 08:40 PM.AF since January 7, 2014 *Never, never, never give up. ~ Winston Churchill*Comment
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Jane I dont have any of those. Watching cable tv right now. I have been texting a friend. And reading on a grief board. Looking for support groups etc..trying to stay busy .....I have things to do tomorrow but I have to get through tonight first.
I will be glad to see the time change so it is not dark so early.Comment
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