One Step at a Time - March 2015

[Dottie Belle]

Up early again. The train fellow will be her shortly. So sad. Hubbs had started to actually do some things on the layout and now we take it down...what a freaking mess.....
Gym later.

[Lizann]

Dottie, so sad! I hope a good workout at the gym will help. Cry here if you need too. Hugs!
Mama, your pictures look like you guys all had a good time. Looks like a good group! How exciting about tonight. Hope your tummy feels better by then.
Kitchen floor is coming along, maybe another night or two. I will post pics maybe later.
Enjoy your Thursday guys. Off to run on the treadmill, ugh!

[bird]

I'm at work in the potty..just saying hi..Nora I struggle with quitting this place daily..wish I could see it in a different light...later

[Dottie Belle]

We filled up the back of train fellows car with boxes of his train stuff and we are not even half way through it all. He will be back on Monday and I think it will take a few more trips to get it all.
Makes me so damn sad and cant believe I am having to do this.
The inspection on my folks found some "items" and they are writing an addendum for more $$$ off I am sure...so what choice do I have....damn it again...
So much for me to process. But I do feel that he would have wanted me to sell his trains through the club. So that is what I am doing.....
I hate being alone here...

[K9Lover]

Hi Everyone!
Bird - I hope you don't quit us...we love having you here!
Mama - Have fun tonight!!! Do you work today or are you officially done there? I'm anxious to hear about the new place, I'm glad we get to go with you! lol
Dots - So sorry about everything you are dealing with. Hang in there my dear friend! Can I ask your opinion on what to do with my dogs for the few days I will be "homeless"? I cant seem to find anyone to take them, and the Chihuahua doesn't have papers since she was a stray so can't go to a kennel....
Hi to everyone else...will be back in a bit...too many people hanging around!

[Dottie Belle]

K9 where are u going to stay??? Some hotels will allow dogs.LaQuinta I know does.

[bird]

I mean my job..not mwo..still at work

[Roadside]

I wished I lived closer; if you were within 300 or so miles, I'd take your dogs until you located a new place for you and your furries. Surely there are some friends/acquaintances around that would watch your dogs for a month or two. . . I do feel for you. I also commend you on deciding to keep your furries. They are family, through thick and through thin.

[paulywogg]

Hey all, Dots I can only imagine how long the train stuff will take to load up, I seen it on Facebook and he had a big setup, still proud of you for doing so well hello to all, not much going on with me,not drinking so I'm glad, take care peeps

[Dottie Belle]

where is everyone??????????????????

[Lizann]

Hey, Dottie, I'm here, So how much of the train stuff is gone? I loved looking at your pictures of it on FB. (((Hugs)))!!!
Not much going on here. Did some shopping today, ran, laundry. Awaiting BIL, hopefully they can finish the floor tonight.
My big sister called me this morning, checking up on me. We didn't bring up al at all. Seems like conversations are getting more normal. I just need to keep my self together and build back up that trust.
Pauly, good for you for not drinking. You sound a little down, are you ok? I'm still just taking it one day at a time here.
Mama hope you have fun tonight! I saw your post on FB, hope the traffic wasn't too much of a downer.
Well, tomorrow is my early day at the hospital. Off to get my stuff ready and call it an early night. Good night, sweet dreams:love:

[Dottie Belle]

Liz I would say 1/4 of it is gone. He is coming back on Monday for another load. I am keeping a few things but most will get sold and his Lionel stuff to I think. His kids dont want it and if something happens to me no one will know what it is so off it goes too. He had been talking about selling them anyway so I feel OK about that. I just HATE all of this but what choice do I have. NOT what I planned for the rest of my life. I am too young to be a widow and too old to even attempt to start over...I am doomed to be alone and that is just not what I wanted...
Anyhow I feel better after a shower...

[bird]

Now I am on the darn tablet. Dottie,that would be hard about the trains. Glad you are staying busy.... K9 lots of motels take pets these days...Pauly good for you😀...work was blah..Pouncer is getting very slow and not eating much. She has congestive heart failure and is very full of fluid. ...raining again? Geezzzzz

[sunshinedaisies]

Just a quickie to say I got home about an hour ago - minus my suitcase ! What is it with me and suitcases ? They lost it on the way over and had to taxi it to my mums, and now have 'misplaced' it - they are not even sure where it is this time - fingers crossed ! Lizann - it took me a lot longer than you thought to get home - I left home (mums) Wednesday afternoon at 3.00 (would have been 9.00 am here) and have just got home - Thursday evening ! It is a LONG journey !

Going to go and veg for a few and will try and catch up tomorrow .... it is almost 1.00 am in my head and I do not do late nights any more !!

Hugs, Sun XX

[Lizann]

Welcome come sunny! I hope they find your bags. My nephew went to Amsterdam on Tuesday. They lost his bags as well! What is it with these airlines? Anyway, sis said he finally got the bag today! Meanwhile the poor thing had business meetings with nothing to change into. Hope the jet lag isn't too bad.
Bird, poor pouncer! How old is he/she?
Dottie, I was going to suggest to keep a few things from the trains. Don't worry about being to young or too old. God has a plan for you. Just get through the days right now. ((More hugs))!!!