Army 27th............open all hours

[roxane]

deleted.
if the letter was not disguised bile i would feel differently.

[JackieClaire]

Crikey, love, blooming hard one and so unfair on you.

You and your husband decided on a way to handle things and that's exactly the way it should be.............I could be wrong but it seems to me the only one writhing with guilt is the sister and she's expecting you to put it right.

[roxane]

deleted.

[JackieClaire]

Honestly, Roxxy, I'm ever so grateful we haven't had agro in our family............yet

or does our family just gloss over it.

[roxane]

you may never, quite a lot of families dont.

i feel sick and anxious with it and had strong fuck its this afternoon.


deletage inevitable.

[roxane]

now griff rhys jones is at vic falls on telly, where we had our honeymoon.

[JackieClaire]

That's why I didn't quote......tbh not surprised you had the fuck its..................but you didn't.

[JackieClaire]

Ahh Roxxy, you're certainly being tried today.........watching Great British Castles............Mary, Queen of Scots about to loose her head.......after the adverts.

[roxane]

That's why I didn't quote......tbh not surprised you had the fuck its..................but you didn't.

thank you, much appreciated. and no i didnt, yay me.

[NoSugar]

Rox, I don't know the whole story here but I hope you don't let this woman have any more of you. If you can, and for your sake, forgive her and move on without her. I'm glad you didn't let this awful feeling undo all you've accomplished this year. Maybe watch that new-agey documentary I told you about - letting the past go is central to his message. xx NS

[roxane]

i will watch NS but not tonight, its 10pm here and i wont take it in.

i had nothing to forgive her for apart from how she made my husband feel. she didnt register in my life really at all after he cut ties with her, and she did nothing about it at the time. i had left her in the past. i will take my time to consider how i reply.

thanks ladies :hug:

[JackieClaire]

Yo there Sugarbabe

Found another Great British Castle............over to the settee...........Marmite on toast tonight.

[satz123]

Evening
Feck Rox-well done on not letting her mess with your head.
As NS says let it go if it causes you pain - it's not worth it.

If you want to be the better person and respond - then that's what you should do and set the record straight with her.
Unless you ever see a future relationship with her then say your goodbyes in your letter too & close the book .. :hug:

[roxane]

where are these castles? i cant find them.

i will be responding and sending the letter back in the envelope.

[satz123]

Morning Army
Can we breathe life into this thread ? - or it is just going to fade away.
Rox do you think deletion is the way to go ?
I know it's your life that's being discussed this time but it's the first interaction we've had here in weeks..... and I'm beginning to wonder what is the point of it ? .........................
Going over to the Loamers to see if there is any life.