One Step at a time - July 2015

[Dottie Belle]

Morning all,
Liz no I would never have thought I would be at this point. Enjoying life and dating.
Date with Jerry was so much fun. I love riding on his bike. But now I have a problem. He is falling for me. I can see it and he has as much as said it. I guess I was naive to think this might not happen. The chemistry is there for sure but I also have chemistry with Dave. They both want to take it to the next level too. And here again I should have figured this. They are men and Dave is in very good shape and our dancing close has been a turn on for sure. I am not so sure Jerry is up to that. He has many health issues. He is a large man, diabetic, high blood pressure etc. But I like him so here I am. I am enjoying my time with both of them and I think I have created a no win situation. I have juggled them both for a little while now and it has not been easy. If I have to choose I am not sure how to even do that. UGH
I am seeing Dave on Friday and Jerry on Saturday.
HELP folks!!!

[Lizann]

Oh dear Dottie! Do they know you are a widow and have just started dating? I think they would understand if you tell them you need to take it slow. If they really care, they should be able to do that for you. Just my two cents!
Fabulous day for me. Spent the afternoon at my girlfriends and we talked for hours. We sat outside and just enjoyed ourselves. Tonight, my niece came over her and my girls were out so it was more fun talking with them. Cjs boyfriend stopped in and it just turned into a fun lovely evening! Why can't everyday be like this?
Good night my loves. Sweet dreams:love:

[mama bear]

Late night at a Board meeting,....then walked out into a wild thunderstorm and my effing van would not start...so I got a ride home with a friend and hubs is going to try and fix it today.
Dottie - I agree. You are newly widowed and need some time.
Hi to all....off to work

[NoraC]

Hello everyone - sorry that I haven't been checking in at night very much. Just going home & reading & going to bed. Busy taking it One Step at a Time.

Dottie - dating is fun......but being rushed into an exclusive commitment right now is too stressful. You need to enjoy yourself for quite a while first. :hug:

Blue - how are you doing?

Addy - You are still sounding very strong!

Love & hugs to everyone - I'll try to sneak on here again in a bit. The person that sits where she can see my screen is on vacation thsi week so it has been a tiny bit easier to post.

Have a great day!!! xxxx

[blue1]

Hello everyone - sorry that I haven't been checking in at night very much. Just going home & reading & going to bed. Busy taking it One Step at a Time.

Dottie - dating is fun......but being rushed into an exclusive commitment right now is too stressful. You need to enjoy yourself for quite a while first. :hug:

Blue - how are you doing?

Addy - You are still sounding very strong!

Love & hugs to everyone - I'll try to sneak on here again in a bit. The person that sits where she can see my screen is on vacation thsi week so it has been a tiny bit easier to post.

Have a great day!!! xxxx

Hey guys!

Nora-I'm well...thanks! Sitting here with my sister waiting for her ambulance from the hospital. She had to see a gastrologist(don't think that's how you spell it lol)...she's on dialysis three times a week. And was diagnosed with cirrhosis five years ago but she just started having symptoms in January. She hasn't drank since the diagnosis so we don't get it. Right now she can't keep anything down...she weighs 70lbs. They are going to do an endoscopy next Thursday to see what's going on.

We pray she gets better...we just lost our oldest sister in December...she's next to the oldest.

But anyway...everybody have a successful day!😘

[Dottie Belle]

Hello all,
No exclusive relationships. I agree.
Off to visit dad. They called and he needs to transition to depends..how horrid for him but he probably has no clue that there is a problem.
Date with Dave tonight. I have to say that I am very attracted to him. Good dancer and fit build. He has been very patient and is a really good kisser.....LOL
Jerry is tomorrow night. I sure wish he would take better care of himself. But he has been single a long time and works a lot so I get it...been there done that. But I am not making him my next project.
Gotta run.

[Coco--Nut]

Hello everyone! I have been absent from MWO for quite some time. Back now, and on Day 8. Glad to see there are some familiar faces! (Hi MamaBear; hello again Nora - and thank you for inviting me over!)

Happy Friday to all!

Coco

[NoraC]

Coco - SO GLAD YOU FOUND US!!!!!!!:welldone::yay:

[mama bear]

COCO!! Welcome back dear friend!! Some of us are still here. So glad to see you.
I am afraid we have lost K9, but I keep trying.
Blue - I hope your sister is OK! Prayers up!
Dottie - just keep having fun. You are so sensible and I think that rocks. If I were suddenly single. God knows what would happen.
Hi Nora!
I am tucked in with cold meds and a Stouffer's dinner.
Pauly, are you ok?

[Lizann]

Mama, you sound cozy, feel better!
Welcome Coco, I look forward to getting to know you.
Nora, I'm going to be like you, pick up my book and read.
Pauly, how are you?
Dottie, sounds like your leaning toward Dave? Have fun.
Rusty, where are you?
Busy day at work. Erin came for lunch and we sat outside such a beautiful day. Messaged with Mark today. He is doing well. Still hot there in Switzerland. He is heading to Germany tomorrow. He likes his roommates and he is settling in. We hopefully will Skype tomorrow.
Eight thirty on a Friday night and I'm having trouble keeping my eyes open. Good night!

[Lizann]

Blue, sorry to hear about your sister. Hope she's ok. Will you let us know how she does? I work in the endoscopy unit and sadly know all to much about cirrhosis. You'd think that would be incentive enough for me to quit drinking. I will keep her in my prayers.

[paulywogg]

I'm fine guys, thanks for asking, I've just been posting on my thread trying to regroup my thoughts, hope everyone is well

[Dottie Belle]

:sohappy::applouse:
Fireworks....nuff said....

[NoraC]

:sohappy::applouse:
Fireworks....nuff said....

:woohoo2::dancegirl:

[Dottie Belle]

Morning all,
Slept very well and now I have errands and chores to do. Very interesting evening to say the least.
Back later