One Step at a Time - August 2015

[Rusty]

Good Evening Friends, from the plane.....

Pauly-I feel for Kelly....I hate being bored at work! :-( Sorry your weekend didn't live up to your expectations. :-( I would have been VERY upset if my Mom were drunk most of the weekend. Yup, being around little kids for a whole weekend can drive a person batty.

Madame-if you are still lurking...just the fact that you revealed something that was told to you in a PM (do you understand what PRIVATE message means...it means you're supposed to keep that information confidential) tells me you're not to be trusted. Did you used to be "caper" on MWO?" If you are, then as I understand it, you were booted off MWO for your abusive behavior towards people who were AF. Changing your name obviously didn't help.

Mama-I hope your trip in Atlanta is going well.

Liz-so sorry to hear a liquor store is going up near your house. :-(

Blue-you are sounding strong! Good for you.

Nora-this client had had a totally ineffective auditor for the last MANY years, so today I wrote 1 MAJOR and 3 Minors...the client was very nice. Their subcontracted internal auditor (consultant) is an incompetent buffoon.

I think I'll do a little paperwork.

I hope everyone is having a peaceful evening.

[blue1]

Stopping by to say goodnight...I might not be able to get online for a few days but I'm fine.

Have successfully days ahead!!!

[Lizann]

Hey rusty. Glad your headed home. Hopefully you don't have any trips coming up too soon and you can enjoy your pool.
Pauly, I enjoy a quiet day at work now and then, especially if I'm alone.
Nora, how's it going by you? Are those fires anywhere close to you? They are talking A lot about here on the east cost too.
Dottie, what are you up to? What did you and Paul talk about, if I might ask?
Bedtime for me, goodnight guys

[Rusty]

Liz-I have 5 days at home!!! My cousin is coming into town from Denver on Saturday and will stay with me til next Monday. She is my alcoholic Aunt Rusty's middle daughter. Aunt Rusty was mean when she was drunk...which was 24/7 and that went on for 10 long years. I so rarely saw her sober. She forced her husband and her kids to keep her secret well-hidden, so my cousin Anne did NOT have a happy childhood. When she comes into town, we talk A LOT. I have nothing but contempt for Aunt Rusty. She and my uncle bought vodka in CASES, but then they would run out of money for food and my cousin's school lunch at age 10 was white bread with mustard on it! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ok, rant over. Thanks, I feel better!

Liz-how is Mark doing? Do you Skype often?

Nora-I forgot to ask you...have you started your job search yet/

Dottie-I hope Madame has not been harassing you via PM. Someone said here...and I forgot who...that she is trapped in her own dysfunction. Ah, I remember now...it was Addy. Thanks, Addy, you are right. Glad things with Paul are heating up. Checkers anytime soon or are you going to play "Go Fish" for a while? Hahahahahahah

[Dottie Belle]

Evening all,
madame is not harassing me. If she is who I think what we discussed was done via private emails. She just said something that no one else would have known to comment on...maybe coincidence but I think not.
Paul and I talked about his family and his wife and my husband and life in general. He is a good man. Rusty, Checkers are a possibility. He is not pushy which is a huge change from the rest of the men so far.
But I can only play checkers with ONE man......so that presents a problem.....sigh He wants me to meet his kids and wants a relationship. He has more of a chance with that than Jerry did. I would never have thought that these men would want relationships and I am not sure if I do. Seems like the shoe is on the other foot. I want to date around which is what the man usually wants to do..what has happened here???? But he might change my mind. I wish Paul was a little more financially stable but it is not his fault.
Date with Dave tomorrow night. Dancing and dinner I guess.
Life is good.

[NoraC]

Madame - please find somewhere else to play your hurtful games. You still won't admit your other screen name and why you are doing this. I sent you a PM asking you why you are doing this and you didn't reply.
If you want to get and give support, you are welcome here. Otherwise, please stop posting here.

[paulywogg]

Who is it Dots? I'm over this,and I hope there wasn't any trash talking PM's about any of us cuz that would upset me very much,hope everyone has a nice Wednesday, back later

[Dottie Belle]

Morning all,
madame is Fen...I am very disappointed in her behavior. She reached out to me when my husband died and we had, what I thought was good, empathetic conversations. But I guess not. It is not for her to judge me or what I do. As I have said walk a mile in my shoes before you attempt to comment. Why she has decided to attack my behavior is beyond me.
Gym later then date with Dave. I am enjoying my new life and I think hubbs would approve.
Back later.

[paulywogg]

Thanks for telling us Dots,although it upsets me cuz I always thought she was so sweet and was so disappointed when she left,obviously she's off the wagon, poor dear,hmm can't really trust anyone, this is like working with a bunch of women in real life, feckin backstabbing, two faced ho's!! Damn I'm pissed,the hell with her,I still love you guys

[fennel]

Morning all,
madame is Fen...I am very disappointed in her behavior. She reached out to me when my husband died and we had, what I thought was good, empathetic conversations. But I guess not. It is not for her to judge me or what I do. As I have said walk a mile in my shoes before you attempt to comment. Why she has decided to attack my behavior is beyond me.
Gym later then date with Dave. I am enjoying my new life and I think hubbs would approve.
Back later.

Nora texted me and told me what was going on here...Dotts, there is no way I am "Madame"! Please, have the admins compare our IP addresses! I swear, I would never do anything so unkind to anybody!

[NoraC]

Morning all -

Dotts, This really does not sound like the Fen I know. I have known her for years. So, I asked her straight out. It is not Fennel. I don't know who it is but I don't think it's worth our time to continue to respond to her anymore.

I hope that everyone has a wonderful day.

[NoraC]

Fen - great to see you. I wish you would stick around. :hug:

[fennel]

Peeps, flag that person and contact admin...get her banned.

[Dottie Belle]

fen the comment that madame made was one that u and I had a conversation about. That is why I had to figure it was you. And I did try to email you with no response.
If I accused you unfairly I am sorry but it sure looked like you from where I sit.

[fennel]

Thanks, Nora...what a crazy way to get back to posting here!

Dotts and others...please search your hearts and ask yourselves if I would really do this to any of you...or anybody! I'm not capable of inflicting harm on others.

I am in the midst of divorce and have been in a lot of pain for the last two months...but I would never strike out at another to make myself feel better.