One Step at a Time - August 2015

[fennel]

Hey guys, Nora,hope you're having fun in Carlsbad was thinking of past posters on this thread,Kradle,IAD,and Frequent Traveler,I wonder where they went,the why's, if they're ok,I remember FT was having chest trouble at one point and was scared of traveling, just wondering, I guess I gotta just focus on me,I think I had a cold cuz I'm breathing much better,but now I have PMS anxiety, its ok,happens every month, just sick of it,went grocery shopping and forgot about 5 things now I gotta go back,grrr,I told hubs next weekhhe's going,I'm sick of doing it! Gonna grill chicken and a few steaks later,just sounds good hope everyone is having a great Sunday,will be back

Pauly, I wonder about those folks, too.

Sorry about the p.m.s. I am so glad to be post menopausal! Have fun grilling out.

[paulywogg]

I actually went to Jehovah's witness "meetings" as a kid, my aunt would take me,they do believe a lot of out there things,but then most religions do in my opinion, that's why I just pray to whatever I believe in

[fennel]

I actually went to Jehovah's witness "meetings" as a kid, my aunt would take me,they do believe a lot of out there things,but then most religions do in my opinion, that's why I just pray to whatever I believe in

Yeah, I agree. I was raised Catholic and a lot of that stuff is really "out there" to a lot of folks, too. I hope I didn't offend. I really like the non-Christmas part of it.

Although now that I am single, I think I will begin to like Christmas again! With Mrs. Fen, I began dreading the Holidaze in October. :egad:

[Dottie Belle]

Evening all,
Rough day. It is the 6 month anniversary of hubbs death. And I helped with a funeral at church. I tried to tell Jerry why I was distant and upset but do you think he could muster up any compassion...NO...He is toast and I am done. I got more from Paul and Dave and I am not even in a real relationship with them. Jerry is used to being a manager and getting what he wants when he wants it and is way too controlling and jealous. And I am not taking care of him when the diabetes or other disease takes his health....I will buy my own darn Harley....MEN.....Dammit anyway...

[fennel]

Geez, Dottie...I imagine he's too jealous to be empathetic to your situation? Good riddance to him!

[Dottie Belle]

Yep fen he is toast..Paul came over and all he had to do was hug me....what the heck is so hard ???? But Paul is a widower and he gets my pain....Jerry is self centered and wants what he wants when he wants it....I was so smart to guard my feelings....Paul it the front runner....

[Lizann]

Evening all,
Rough day. It is the 6 month anniversary of hubbs death. And I helped with a funeral at church. I tried to tell Jerry why I was distant and upset but do you think he could muster up any compassion...NO...He is toast and I am done. I got more from Paul and Dave and I am not even in a real relationship with them. Jerry is used to being a manager and getting what he wants when he wants it and is way too controlling and jealous. And I am not taking care of him when the diabetes or other disease takes his health....I will buy my own darn Harley....MEN.....Dammit anyway...

Aww Dottie, I'm sorry. He didn't even try? Sending you a great big hug!

[Dottie Belle]

Morning all
Off to the gym then date with Dave tonight. Have not heard from Jerry and that is fine. I am not writing him.
Dating is the pits....but I know there is someone out there. Paul is very nice and I will continue to see him too.
Didn't sleep well guess there was to much on my mind, sigh......
Happy Monday!!

[paulywogg]

Hey guys, jeez just when I was starting to feel better,the sneezies attack again! Dots,don't let these guys make you feel bad,its not like you're looking for a new hubby,just enjoy yourself, but I am with you on thinking Jerry's self centered, I had a dream me and Nora met up and we got DRUNK! It was awful (fun in the dream though) I hate drinkin dreams,read on a PAWS site that the dream can sometimes carry over subconsciously in the brain and lead to cravings,so I need to be on guard,ugh,Mondayitis, poor me,hello to all back later

[NoraC]

Hey all - sorry Dottie. I'm sure yesterday was hard. :hug:

Had a wonderful weekend of not doing much. Both of our backs were bugging us so our romantic walk on the beach didn't happen. LOL But, we had fun just being together. We really needed that.

I hope that everyone has a wonderful day. Got to get back to work here.

[NoraC]

Hey guys, jeez just when I was starting to feel better,the sneezies attack again! Dots,don't let these guys make you feel bad,its not like you're looking for a new hubby,just enjoy yourself, but I am with you on thinking Jerry's self centered, I had a dream me and Nora met up and we got DRUNK! It was awful (fun in the dream though) I hate drinkin dreams,read on a PAWS site that the dream can sometimes carry over subconsciously in the brain and lead to cravings,so I need to be on guard,ugh,Mondayitis, poor me,hello to all back later

Pauly - I do want to meet you but let's not get drunk. Seriously though, I hate those kind of dreams. You wake up feeling so awful.
I hope you feel better!

[Dottie Belle]

pauly sounds like a strange dream for sure. I havent had any drinking dreams lately. Hope you feel better soon!!

[fennel]

Yep fen he is toast..Paul came over and all he had to do was hug me....what the heck is so hard ???? But Paul is a widower and he gets my pain....Jerry is self centered and wants what he wants when he wants it....I was so smart to guard my feelings....Paul it the front runner....

Empathy gets big points in my book. I'm glad you're not ruling him out, Dottie. :hug:

[fennel]

Pauly, those dreams are the worst! I get so freaked out before remembering that I didn't really do it.

And as an FYI, Nora is plenty of fun and I think you two should meet up...or maybe you already have? I wouldn't mind another Vegas trip, although I don't gamble. I liked the racy "Zumanity" show and going to the nuclear museum with Nora and Mr. Nora!

My allergies are all over the place. I took Afrin again today and then realized I can't take any more for a while or I'll get that rebound effect. So I'm going to have to get some more claritin.

Today was busy. I went to P.T. for my shoulder, showered quick-like, went to a noon meeting, met with my sponsor, took mom mall walking and grocery shopping, did my own grocery shopping and am resting a bit before I make homemade soup for my wives. It's chilly here, so soup is okay.

Mrs. Fen had the cajones to text me today and ask if I will go shopping for work pants for her. What on earth? Does she not remember that I don't live with her any longer and we are divorcing? The mind boggles. Anyway, I am afraid she will have to shop for her own togs.

[blue1]

Awwwwwww Fen.....my heart goes out to you.....how long were you guys together?