One Step at a Time - October 2015

[red67]

Mama, I am so sorry that happened. I think that job worked you too hard anyways. Life is too short to work all the time, you need a work life balance. You are a very smart woman and you will get back up very quickly. I believe everything happens for a reason and I know you will get a job that works better for your life and happiness.

Sit back and relax today, you deserve it.

[mama bear]

Thanks Red.......I will be ok, eventually.

[paulywogg]

Sorry Mama jeez,after ALL the work you did for them,assholes!!

[SKendall]

Mama, I am furious! What were the grounds? I am with the others who say this is a blessing, but getting unreasonably fired is still a bit hit to take. Don't let this shake your confidence. We all support you unconditionally here.

Their demands of your time was bordering on cruel.

The One Step at a Time Posse will be out there inflicting damage to those idiots.

[Dottie Belle]

mama I am so sorry but they were working you way too hard and I do think this is a blessing in disguise too...You are one smart hard working woman and there is a job out there that will appreciate your talents.....

I am just flying by to let he dogs out and regroup...been spending so much time with Jon....either we will fall in love or kill each other......LOL

Love you ALL!!

[fennel]

Mama, I am livid on your behalf! You worked like crazy for those peeps, and to what end? I am so sorry! The good news is that you are a hard working employee- I hope you find something soon.

[NoraC]

I agree with everyone else. I am FURIOUS and am joining the Steppers posse! Mama - I love you! You will find something much better that won't take over your entire life. :hug:

[mama bear]

Thanks so much everyone. I have been sending resumes all day, so something will happen. I found out she has already hired my replacement....I know the girl and she will not last....but she will kiss ass and worship my ex-boss......narcissistic bitch that she is.
Tomorrow is a new day and I wake up ready to fight......you all should the words hubs is using....cover your ears!!
Dots - get some lovin for me ok?

[Rusty]

My dear Mama-I am sooooo sorry, lovely one! I have been fired from a few jobs...I feel your pain. I was devastated every time because I wasn't told WHY i was fired...just that "it's just not working out." WTF?????? I find men much easier to work for and with as part of a team! Women are so often threatened by another woman they perceive to be stronger or more intelligent than they are. Your boss probably feared for her job. Also, dearest one, I would REALLY, REALLY limit what you put on FB that is work-related. You might be an easy target because it's obvious that you are smart, popular, and beautiful. Too many jealous eyes out there. Good for you for getting back on the horse ASAP and sending out resumes! That's my girl..."when the going gets tough, the tough get going...." Kick some ass, mama!! I hope you can find a job where you won't have to work so many crazy hours!

Pauly-I am glad you had a good time with your mom!

Skendall-sorry you are blue...hope the B6 and gaba help.

Big hellos to everyone else.

[fennel]

Mama, you are going to do just fine...and thank god you got away from that toxic job! That woman was working you to the bone. You will do much better, trust me.

[fennel]

SKendall, what is gaba? Gabapentyn?

[abcowboy]

Posse?? Someone say something about a posse?? I'm in!!

mama, any severance, dismissal pay? I'd be looking into an unfair dismissal charge if I were you..... Hang in there, when one door closes, another one opens..

[Dottie Belle]

I am home without Jon...need a break. Yes he stays at my house but the dogs wake us up barking. He is not used to dogs in general but seems to like them OK but who knows. I do like him a lot but need to be watchful of his need to have me with him so much. I am used to having my own time and things to do. His late wife was glued to his side and I dont want that again so I have to watch how this develops. I enjoy being with him but not to the exclusion of the rest of my life....sigh....
Watching DWTS....and relaxing...and letting my dogies feel the love...

[NoraC]

Cowboy - glad that you joined the posse. You made some good points regarding the unfair dismissal.

Dots - I'm glad that you are having fun but you are definitely right about watching his neediness. That would get old quick! Have a relaxing evening.

SK - Feel better. :balloons:

[SKendall]

Mama, I know your financial position regarding the house, etc. is problematic and we all want to kick that woman's ass big time.

But, before you go back into the working world you need a small break. Breathe, know that it's all okay and will be okay, lean on Brett and most importantly heal from this experience. You need to heal to regroup because you put so much of yourself into these endeavours and you deserve to be restored.