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    #16
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    Hi Luv,

    I admire your tenacity to stay abs to prove them all wrong! Good going!

    I hope this site, your kids, your doggy, your garden, your work- all help to lighten the heaviness on your heart. You are an amazing woman so I know your mother is also. My love and prayers go out for each of you.

    With respect,
    lucky
    xoxo

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      #17
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      Hi,

      I have to admit to a certain type of envy, I know my family would shun me if I was really sick.

      My nan is 80 and suffering from ovarian cancer, I call her and feel bad that i have to work full time and can't do more, maybe I should???

      The type of family I have lives up the river nile, denile, so we are spread out and don't speak much, to try brings up too many feelings, a true dysfunctional family, and each of us are trying to get our lives together.

      All I can say is thats it's wonderful you care, because I know I should, and while I try to work on forgiveness, I really don't care very much, and dont want anything from them, how sad does that sound?? but truthful.

      I will be happy to see my dad go, out of his pain and misery, whatever sickness he has.

      I'm working hard to feel some love and forgiveness,

      You have alot, more than me.

      Love jas
      :thanks: :h

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        #18
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        Hi L

        boy, you get your fair share don't you? Love strength and courage to you from me.

        Kate x

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          #19
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          Prayers & Hugs to you and your mama Luv!:l :lilangel:

          I'm glad you have each other right now. I think ya both sound amazing.:h
          The only thing worth stealing is a kiss...:flower: zwink:

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            #20
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            Luv, I've been thinking about you all week because I've been thinking about what you might be going through. I will post more in the morning (my eyeballs are hanging out of my head right now. 1:45am here) when I've had a chance to think about how I can lend you some support. I hope you've got a good support network around you who understand your commitment to AF. I'll send you a PM tomorrow.

            Hang in there... I'd be furious if one of my siblings reacted the same way in same circumstances. Your mum is lucky to have you and her mother too. Big hug!

            Scoobs xo
            :heart: Sobriety - Keep it simple :heart:

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              #21
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              Hi Luv. Family sucks sometimes. You are the best daughter. Love to you and your mama.
              Enlightened by MWO

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                #22
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                More you are SO sweet...my Aunts boss is looking now...that REALLY means so much to me...you are making me cry. We will get her here. My point was she is willing and on a fixed income!!! They are just SORRY, both of them and have means...when it is to late they will be the ones crying the loudest and the first in "want" line, it just irks me. I have just learned that you can't replace them and if you have the chance to say things and give hugs and kisses, GRAB the damn chance....you will be SO SO glad you had that chance. That is a chance you can never replace. And a necklace or dollar is not going to fill that void either.

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                  #23
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                  I am obviously very passionate about this, I just wish they would see it before it is to late. The guilt will eat you alive and they will feel guilty afterwards. If they have any heart at all , they will. And I think they do. Plus, she wants to see them...

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                      #25
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                      Luvuall-

                      I have had this time and again in my family - 'never around to help or care, loudest to cry, first in line for money, gifts, hearing the will etc'

                      Keep strong, keep away from the bottle and keep smiling - on the outside at least !!
                      I feel as though it's all happening to someone right next to me.
                      I'm close, I can feel it, I can hear it, but it isn't really me.

                      Marilyn Monroe

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                        #26
                        Family

                        Luv, I went through this same situation with my siblings and it tore my heart out that they did not want to spend more time with either of my parents who were two of the most beautiful people ever, but I was the lucky one because I got to spend all of my time with them and I still see it as the biggest gift in the world. Whether your siblings will regret not being more of a part of this journey remains to be seen. You need to just worry about you and your mama and enjoy this time as much as you can. Still sending prayers!!!
                        I'm really easy to get along with once people learn to worship me

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                          #27
                          Family

                          Luv, you know how I feel about ya, I have said it a hundred times nobody can do you over like family. You are strong and kind and generous. Mama has to be so very proud of the woman she raised. I know you you would say you learned it from her. Always prayers for Luv and Mama
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                            #28
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                            Luvuall, your mama is very lucky to have you. I hope you are able to enjoy your time with your grandma, cherish the time with your mama and rise above your feeling about your siblings. You are in my prayers.

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