December Army (Chrimbo) 2016

[starty]

Kuya that sounds horrific. I cannot imagine how awful that must be. I am sorry you are going through that

Morning Tabbers, how are things with you?

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Hi Kuya, as a parent myself that sounds like a nightmare.
Hi Starty, not too bad, dogger still with us but I ain't hopeful.
Mario, you are a mad lad driving that far in Dec.

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Kuya I wish I had some sage words to offer you but I dont, however I will say people can and do change so never give up hope. We on this site probably know that better than most.

[IamMary]

Jaysus Kuya - thats nuts.
Same as tabbers, no answers or suggestions.. You are probably doing everything you can. How did his dad sort himself out?

Startys - who are you dining with for Crimbo??

Anyone done an unavoidable Christmas party yet? Had one on Friday, it was grand actually. So much more comfortable this year than last. Dropped 2 drunkards home - hilarious conversations.. and the best bit is not having to write off the next day..

[starty]

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Me n dogger at our christmas party

[starty]

Jaysus Kuya - thats nuts.
Same as tabbers, no answers or suggestions.. You are probably doing everything you can. How did his dad sort himself out?

Startys - who are you dining with for Crimbo??

Anyone done an unavoidable Christmas party yet? Had one on Friday, it was grand actually. So much more comfortable this year than last. Dropped 2 drunkards home - hilarious conversations.. and the best bit is not having to write off the next day..

Dining with the bro Mary. You?

Yep done my one and only party today. Loved it and have decided the only parties I am going to do are like that! Pic above

[satz123]

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Me n dogger at our christmas party

Perfect - so simple a pleasure !!!!! :hug:

[satz123]

Thanks Ktab ....it IS a nightmare and one that I thought was going to improve this last few years.......but it hasn't, and isn't, and I am losing hope tbh.

Kuya - the only thing I can say - and I'm not sure I agree with it .....
Unless he behaves - you must put him out. Withdraw all finance.


This is what I was told - that we are actually enabling them. I know we worry they will end up the the gutter - but at this stage that is their choice.
He must know how this affecting the family & take responsibility.
I told young Satz I was done and would not help again until there was FULL acceptance of his problem and he asked for help.
Don't give him the 'out' of it's not his fault it's genetic - that is a cop out.

[Guitarista]

Yo troopers!

Hi Kuya. If his girlfriend is living in an abusive relationship, maybe some womens support services info could support her to look at the bigger picture and get another perspective? i.e. hand her a phone number or 2? Take care of yourself.

Who are the 2 cuties in the pic above then eh?! :sendflowers:

[spiderwoman]

Hello army! sorry for the absence but been in a bit of a black hole, no booze though I'm relieved to report.

Congratulations on the 100 days Mr G

Taken on another course and how I wish I hadn't, its only a refresher thing but its two long hours every Tuesday evening

[starty]

Hi Spidey. Good to see you. Whats the course?

[mario]

Good morning Army

[mario]

Don't know what to add or say to your problem Kuya,

Hi spider woman long time, nice to see you still on the sobriety road as I am,


Hi Katab,

[mario]

Morning Molly :-)

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Greetings all.