Morning all.
Molls I love your plant story. I too feel guilty about herman and keep him going even if he is just a big wooden stalk with load of unruly leaves at the top!
Yes, the idea of a long illness and slowly coming back is what has been in the back of my mind. I must remember that being older these things will likely take longer to go both physically and psychologically. This time I have really taken the ODAT principle to heart. My last quit I never really understood it. I was of the opinion that once sober you simply just were a clean non drinker for all time because I was so strong in my resolve. I did not take into account what the mind can do at the drop of a hat. Now I am much more aware of that and find it easier to deal with in bite size chunks like one hour, one day etc.
Satzy I am delighted about your mum and love your humour attached to this. We had very black humour at times with my mum and it really helped
Today in the interests of familial relations we are going to lunch with the brother in law;s family who historically I have no time for. In my new found benevolence I will make the effort to let bygones be bygones and put a smile on my dial and play nicely for the day :haha:
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