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    Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

    Morning all,

    I havent read back properly but.....
    Jax, the ADs although can be great are not always the answer. I stopped mine last year after many years on them and really do feel better. Yes I do get very low at times but also very happy. I guess that's life. Kudos to you for realising that they are just a band aid. Helpful but not always the answer.

    Molls, I am delighted to see you back! You have been missed.

    RC, sorry your job is not turning out as you hoped. Maybe it is time to move on somewhere that you feel appreciated. It is always a real downer when work doesnt work for us. But it doesnt have to be that way. I am expert at learning that lesson of late.

    Satzy, MANY MANY congrats on your 5 years! Very impressive and well done !

    Mary, Wales is beautiful, truly wonderful. It is a bit dodgy with the weather tho !

    And as for me. Iceland was shall we say traumatic. The accommodation was a hostel which was heaving with young folk and along with our party of 50 was crowded and noisy. The football was on and there was much chanting and banging of tables. Overnight rumpas and general overexcitement. Plus it was falling apart and not very clean. I had about 6 hours sleep for the whole 3 days and was beyond exhausted. We had to do the race after being up for almost 24 hours. There was delays in luggage and the plane was overbooked for the way home. We were offered 600 euro to stay there. I managed to get a seat on the plane after huge amounts of stress but 11 of us had to wait. For this old girl it was too much and I drank on the second night. 2 glasses of wine to see if it would help me sleep and release some of the tension in my tummy. It did not. I had to share a room with a lady who flaps and panics which also did not do much for my demeanour. I was desperate to come home as soon as I got there. However, I did see some amazing sights and the team spirit was good. But it just was not for me. I regret drinking, I did not crave it or really want it but I felt desperate to do something to make myself feel better. Anyhoo I am home now and have slept loads and feel good again. On the plus side we have raised over £6000 for 3 local charities, a homeless shelter, a hospice and a charity that helps families who have lost children. What an experience

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      Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

      PS, today I have booked myself in for a luxury facial and an indian head massage to ease my trauma :haha:

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        Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

        [MENTION=22456]starty[/MENTION]..........big thinks are needed for a stress reliever next time, eh???? Couldn't think of the acronym.............got it now ......HALT.........Hungry, angry, lonely and tired. Although my A was always Anxiety.

        Excellent news on the fund raising :welldone:

        The doctor agreed with helping me treat myself holistically. Actually she seemed delighted but she's worried about the weight loss...........would you believe nigh on 20kg since the beginning of January. I'm having blood tests next week and see her again in 2 weeks. I'm now a UK size 10........ fabulous on a 22 year old JC but haggard on 62 year old JC. For one of these doctors that in the past has been get 'em in and get 'em out as quick she can she was fantastic today.
        It could be worse, I could be filing.
        AF since 7/7/2009

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          Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

          I wonder what it is? I also lost loads this year.

          I tried the HALT thing but as I was completely stuck there was nowhere to go. Either a dirty noisy hostel that was cold or a noisy restaurant. I will never go on one of those again unless I am certain the acomm is OK and I have my own room. Probably will avoid them all together.

          Glad the doc sorted you. Try the CBD when you are ready it does seem to help with all sorts

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            Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

            Hello Army,Starty I'd never stay in a hostel after watching the "Hostel" movie!! Sorry it was such a shitty experience but at least there were some positives Jacks,there are so many natural things for the blues,I'm sure you will find something that works for you to get you even,I still recommend magnesium glycinate for anxiety it can really help,waves to the whole army have a great day!
            Last edited by paulywogg; June 26, 2018, 07:47 AM.
            I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

            I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
            Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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              Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

              Hi Pauly, thank you. Yes there will always be positives thankfully. Also the knowledge of where I do not want to be How are you doing?

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                Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                I'm ok Starty thanks for asking
                I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                  Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                  Evening all. So sorry you had such a hard time Starty. That would drive me crazy. Look after yourself and get lots of rest. You are a wise woman JC and I am sure you will be fine. Good to have hubby onboard too. Great to see you back Tabs. How is the new job and the dog? Must be well out of puppyhood now. Did you ever get the kitten Mary? Another beautiful day here, walked at 6am as working and it would be too hot for the doggies later. Having a spa day with daughter tomorrow so looking forward to that. Feet up now for a while until I have to go and do the watering, not my favorite chore

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                    Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                    Thanks Rustop. Yes, I have learned a lesson there. Absolutely no cravings before I took the drink just an all consuming desire to feel better. Why I thought the wine would do it I have no idea! I went for some spa treatments today. Was lovely and my equilibrium is returning. Hope you have a lovely day at the spa tomorrow

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                      Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                      Evening,
                      The S&H's just been round to collect his GF's girlfriend's birthday present looking all smart in his Sainsbury uniform...........he's only been there two days and got tomorrow off and they're away to Majorca next week. Nice for some.

                      [MENTION=17650]paulywogg[/MENTION]........waves to you too, pet. Will definitely take a look at the magnesium.

                      [MENTION=22456]starty[/MENTION]........eeeek I hate having facials. Too much in my personal space. I just use lard these days
                      It could be worse, I could be filing.
                      AF since 7/7/2009

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                        Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                        Me too [MENTION=7008]JackieClaire[/MENTION]! not a fan of anyone 'at' me.
                        Your approach to the pills sounds very sensible. Starty is right, life has ups and downs, we just need to be able to ride the storm when it comes.

                        Disaster! [MENTION=22456]starty[/MENTION]. Poor you. Ive stayed in many hostels in my back packing days, but they are a young peoples game.. That little sleep is useless too.
                        Where is your head now about drinking? Id be worried about those thoughts 'hey, you had 1 or 2 and no harm done'! Because we all know that would be short lived..
                        Good job on the fund raising!
                        [MENTION=15758]rustop59[/MENTION], we did get 2 kittens, they are getting big now! girls are in love.
                        Much to my kids disgust, I am still more of a human (vs an animal) person.

                        ..and for not visiting Wales, shame on you JC!:no:
                        AF - July 19th 2015 :happy2:

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                          Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                          Morning all,

                          Back to work today boooo.

                          Mary, yes that had crossed my mind too re the no harm done. I do not like drinking, it immediately makes me feel a bit out of control and even those 2 affected my mood the next day. It did not even do what I was hoping to achieve which was to make me feel better for an hour or two. I do worry about situations that I might feel that way again. To help reinforce I am reading a book called The Unexpected Joy of being Sober for some additional oomph. Its a great book as I can relate to it back in my pre 2008 drinking days (never been as bad as that since, despite falling off the wagon. Pills were my real nemesis)

                          Anyway, still feeling somewhat battered so maybe going back to work for some normality will be good for me

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                            Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                            Morning,
                            A couple of years ago when we got new ducted heating in we decided to add air-con...............its about as useless as a three-year-old blowing a toy windmill.
                            [MENTION=22411]IamMary[/MENTION].........I've seen Wales.....we were on a boat in the Bristol channel and you could just get a peep in the distance. Tbh don't know why we've never been.
                            It could be worse, I could be filing.
                            AF since 7/7/2009

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                              Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                              [MENTION=22411]IamMary[/MENTION].........I've seen Wales.....we were on a boat in the Bristol channel and you could just get a peep in the distance. Tbh don't know why we've never been.[/QUOTE]

                              Ive seen it too, way, way in the distance from the top of Lugmaquilla mountain OMG what a scorcher, had lovely morning at spa, all chilled out. Thinking of bringing the doggies to the beach later but afraid it will still be crazy 😜. Catch up later.

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                                Re: Join up!! Army against the grog !!! June 2018

                                Evening,
                                I was just thinking that it must be hellish tough to work outside at the mo........dawned on me the window cleaner hasn't been. I've seen this man do the windows with the snow two rungs in his ladder and lashing down........the heat has melted him.

                                Our Bess for a 14 year old Lab is holding out in the heat better than me. She's found a sweet, cool spot on the floor between the back door and the living room that a beautiful draft comes through to the open front windows. Trouble is she won't shift.
                                It could be worse, I could be filing.
                                AF since 7/7/2009

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