One Step at a Time - Dry (And Healthy, Self-Caring) July 2018

[NoraC]

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Hubby is in a bad mood so we won't be dancing tonight. I'm just going to stay in my own little corner on the couch. :moonwalk:Actually, he's just in high pain today. That would make anybody grumpy.

I'm getting near the end of my Dean Koontz book. I like John Grisham too but I haven't read any of his for years.

[NoraC]

Re: One Step at a Time - Dry (And Healthy, Self-Caring) July 2018

Savannah news

She is in the 81 percentile (big baby). J is having some bp issues so they are going in on Saturday for a stress test. If bp is up or amnio fluid is down, they will induce. They will be going for 2 stress tests next week and be given a date to be induced but if something happens before then, they will induce.
So, anytime now. :baby: Actually, I have been showing off Logan & Romeo to hubby.....getting him excited. LOL

[NoraC]

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Been a lot of great discussion in the Army lately. Definitely worth taking a read. Very wise people on that thread.

[paulywogg]

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Bird,congratulations!! Nora,it's humid here too,,feels awful cannot wait for baby Savannah! Just hoping everything goes smooth for mom and baby yes the Army is a great read,I usually check into the cafe first,Army next,then post here,then abs,then read NN it's just my routine,I just started crocheting a blanket just for kicks,I'm using super soft,chubby, baby yarn and my fingers are numb had to put it down for now,sorry hubs is in a mood but I guess they're allowed once in awhile haha,Liz,hope to hear from you soon love

[NoraC]

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I had better get busy with my blanket. Might finish it this weekend if I get with it.

I contacted a caretaker agency. They are coming out on Tuesday for a meeting. A caretaker will come out & sit with mom for a minimum of 4 hours - $28.00/hr. I'm really anxious about it but it's got to be done. We have to be able to go out sometimes. My friends & cousin have offered but I don't feel comfortable asking anyone to do it. I just want to hire someone.

[NoraC]

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Pauly - that's really great that you check all the threads. I used to do that but just don't have time lately. But, there is always such great info going on in the Nest and the Army.

[NoraC]

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has anyone heard from [MENTION=19302]Lizann[/MENTION] or [MENTION=1214]Rusty[/MENTION] today????

[Lizann]

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[MENTION=5628]Nora[/MENTION], how exciting on the baby Savannah front! I hope DIL is ok, there seems to be a lot going on with her. Any day now! [MENTION=5628]Nora[/MENTION], may I ask how mobile your mom is? Does she feed herself? $28 an hour is pricey. We were told here it's about $20 an hour with a minimum of. 4 hours.
[MENTION=2634]bird[/MENTION], also very exciting with the house! Fingers crossed it all works out. Dare I say you sound happier about this one than the original? And dd job, things seem to be falling into place.
[MENTION=6149]Paul[/MENTION]y, good for you keeping up with all those different threads. I peruse them sometimes. I'm usually just so tired by the time I post at night.
[MENTION=6262]Cowboy[/MENTION], thanks for popping over and commenting about dad. It means a lot.

Went by dad this morning. He was more awake this morning and nurse said she fed him his breakfast. It was an eventful day with dad I'm not even sure I can explain it all. His ability to swallow has decreased. They couldn't start an IV so they called in a specialist to start a "midline" IV. She was unable to do that. They will try again tomorrow. TS and I were with him tonight and it was hard to watch him while they tried to do that procedure. He didn't acknowledge us in any way. We were all shot by the time visiting hours were over. TS and I decided to head over to the mall, just to do something "normal". It was therapeutic. BTW, my niece the one who is addicted to gaming, is the only grandchild that comes by herself and cares for her grandpa:heartbeat: I'm sure it's hard for the kids to see their grandfather like this, but I'm so proud of K. For stepping up to the plate and offering to care for him.
[MENTION=1214]Rusty[/MENTION], I hope you're ok. Haven't heard anything from you in a bit and I hope it's just because you're busy.

Waves to everyone else and I wish everyone a restful AF night!

[Lizann]

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Cross post Nora. I'm fine, thanks for your concern!:hug:

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Hi All, [MENTION=19302]Lizann[/MENTION] I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. Exhausting for all, isn't it? Glad for him that he has his family, So many folk have nobody at the end of their life. [MENTION=2634]bird[/MENTION] I'm so pleased for you. For some reason I thought you rented for years. Not sure if that's correct. I hope this house is all yours. [MENTION=9757]NoraC[/MENTION] looka like it's all action with that baby of yours. Soon eh?

I am on day 5 now, Friday night, a bit of a crave-fest on the way home past the bottle shop but I did not turn off, and I will not deprive myself of a lovely weekend of pottering.
What are you all up to for the weekend?

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Morning friends,Nora,usually I'm on in the evening but 600 lb life was on then Dr.Pimple popper omg that show makes my stomach churn but hubs was loving it! Probably be a great appetite suppressant to watch an episode of that before eating? Cinders,wonderful that your daughter has one year sober! You know it's one thing for us to have this addiction but a whole different level when it's your kid,I think worse,Nora I've never heard that about your dad's liver before,how scary,Liz,keep us posted today ok? Waves to all and have a great AF Thursday!

Does Dr Pimple Popper have an actual show??? That is hilarious.

[Glass Half Empty]

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Hello Bridget

Bird, that’s great news about the house. I’m so glad you’ve found one you love.

Seems like you’ll be joining us Grandmas very soon, Nora. How exciting! :baby:

Liz I’m sorry your Dad isn’t making any improvement, but I’m glad you and TS are supporting each other. I saw the video of Logan walking – he was so cute! When did he start doing that?

Pauly – you’re sounding a bit better these days, hon. I’m so glad to hear it.

Rusty – where are you?

Have I shared the NOURISH acrostic before? I think it’s from Jolene Park and it’s great to remember for some self-care tips. It stands for:

Notice nature
Observe your breath
Unite with others
Replenish with (healthy) food
Initiate exercise
Sit in stillness
Harness your creativity

I’m trying to do a little bit of each one every day, but sitting in stillness is a struggle.

[bird]

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Hi all,
Nora, hope you get a good caretaker. I know what you mean about paying someone. Many times I would rather pay someone to do something (car repair, etc.)..how exciting about the baby! DD2 weighed 10-6 and that was tough......Pauly hope your blanket turns out nice. ......Lizann, that is nice niece visits with him. She sounds like a sweet gal.....Briget, great on day 5. Must be getting the good sleep again by now huh? And yes, I have rented for many years. Been in this same ramshackle trailer for 15 years now. An old friend passed and left me his house and some money, so I am moving on. My girls at university now...Glassie, loved the nourish......I have been using an app called insight timer for awhile now. It has a lot of helpful stuff on it like guided meditations, and podcasts. I try to use it in the mornings to set my day.....guess I will go work on my friends house. He had an old deck laying out in the back yard. I need to dismantle it and burn it. Have been putting it off....owner of house I am buying will sell me some of the furnishings. We don't really have any decent furniture, just old goodwill junk, so that will be nice. Was gonna buy new, but maybe I won't have to, some things anyway.....b

[Lizann]

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Bridget good for you, 5 days is great. I am sure you're feeling better now. Pottering? Is that pottery? I would love to get into that. Sadly I don't have an artistic bone in my body. Maybe in my next life?

I have seen commercials for dr. Pimple popper. Um, a bit odd I'm thinking? Do tell Pauly, is it gross? I guess Hollywood is running out of ideas?

@Glassy, I love your Notice acronym. I intend to use it starting today! Logan took his first steps about a month ago and is walking a bit more each day. He was cranky and super drooly yesterday, probably due to teething. I fall in love with the kid a little more every time I'm with him.
[MENTION=2634]bird[/MENTION], that would be great if you could get some of that furniture. Although honestly, I don't mind furniture shopping at all.

What's everyone up to this weekend? I'm going to try to get in the pool today for a bit and read and relax. I have a care package that needs to be packed for CJ and Joe. It's a small fortune to mail, but I love doing it. I am sending them a small rug, I bought CJ a shirt last night and just some food and fun toiletries. I bought them a mug with NJ towns all over it, just so they remember where they came from! Tomorrow I am meeting a friend for breakfast. We have not hung out together since our boys were young. Sunday we are having a church BBQ and a little going away cake for Mark.

How is everyone's dry July going? We are almost half way through. I think I might be lacking in the self care a bit, I'll make up for it today!
Have a great Friday!

[paulywogg]

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Morning friends and Happy Friday will check back later,gonna run to the store while it's still early and see if there's any deals on steak!