Talk to him about the potato masher for a while
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Originally posted by mollyka View PostHindsight.. mmm - well like I said to Bridge - I wish it had been different - and it was only going to be different in one of two ways - #1 if I HAD given up my job and been the prime minder or #2 If I HAD faced them down...tbh I think that would have been WW111 - Enda was very unbalanced.. and any time I did confront them about something she was perfectly happy to shout and abuse me in mum's room -- I couldn't have that so I used to run away... I regret it all but don't see how I could have changed things.. my job was my sanity -- literally..
I think that is one of the main reasons I looked for a job so that I wasn't available 24/7.
F*ck that - they'd have loved that - but as I said before here I do not believe ANYONE should give up their lives completely to caring for someone else - it just doesn't feel right.
( told yiz I was selfish - but we have to be to survive)Last edited by satz123; August 30, 2018, 03:51 AM.
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Originally posted by mollyka View PostHindsight.. mmm - well like I said to Bridge - I wish it had been different - and it was only going to be different in one of two ways - #1 if I HAD given up my job and been the prime minder or #2 If I HAD faced them down...tbh I think that would have been WW111 - Enda was very unbalanced.. and any time I did confront them about something she was perfectly happy to shout and abuse me in mum's room -- I couldn't have that so I used to run away... I regret it all but don't see how I could have changed things.. my job was my sanity -- literally..
Jesus! Who are these people? Must have been fucking fun growing up with those bitches...
Amuse you....right...have you seen that candle up there?If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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Originally posted by mollyka View Post- #1 if I HAD given up my job and been the prime minder .
Where would you be now ?
A sad ..... bitter ( gave up your life) drunken Molls ?
Joe would have felt left out & run off with a youngwan
The kids would be delinquents - and living all over the world to get away from you
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Originally posted by satz123 View PostAnd isn't THAT the truth too !!!! FFS !
Talk to him about the potato masher for a while
Originally posted by satz123 View PostYes I think I could feels the vibes of "she's not working - SHE can be chief carer"
I think that is one of the main reasons I looked for a job so that I wasn't available 24/7.
F*ck that - they'd have loved that - but as I said before here I do not believe ANYONE should give up their lives completely to caring for someone else - it just doesn't feel right.
( told yiz I was selfish - but we have to be to survive)
Originally posted by byebyebridgetjones View PostJesus! Who are these people? Must have been fucking fun growing up with those bitches...
Amuse you....right...have you seen that candle up there?
I adored Enda growing up - she nearly reared me - it was her and me against the world - the other one -- Christ - she was a weapon!! but one of those weapons that are all sweetness and light to the world - heart of a turd.... but it was in Enda's interest to have Dee kept sweet cos she needed Dee to mind mum so she (Enda) could get on with her own life - hence the ganging up -- wow - just talking about them - so glad they are out of my life - so fucking glad!!!!Contentedly sober since 27/12/2011
contentedly NF since 8/04/14
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Originally posted by satz123 View PostNO NO NO ..... you did the right thing Molls.
Where would you be now ?
A sad ..... bitter ( gave up your life) drunken Molls ?
Joe would have felt left out & run off with a youngwan
The kids would be delinquents - and living all over the world to get away from you
:egad:Contentedly sober since 27/12/2011
contentedly NF since 8/04/14
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Originally posted by mollyka View PostHAHA -- (haven't got one)
Well work WAS survival for me - my marriage was in tatters and all that stuff with mum - and it (somewhat) kept the drinking a bit at bay... but...…..???
fucking AMAZING candle:congratulatory: (would you like a picture of Joe's lawnmower?)
I adored Enda growing up - she nearly reared me - it was her and me against the world - the other one -- Christ - she was a weapon!! but one of those weapons that are all sweetness and light to the world - heart of a turd.... but it was in Enda's interest to have Dee kept sweet cos she needed Dee to mind mum so she (Enda) could get on with her own life - hence the ganging up -- wow - just talking about them - so glad they are out of my life - so fucking glad!!!!
Yep we don't have to have them in our lives just because we share DNA. There has to be a better reason than that.
So these girls are a fair bit older than you then?Last edited by byebyebridgetjones; August 30, 2018, 04:09 AM.If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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Originally posted by mollyka View Postsmellin a bit of autumn in the air!!! LOVE IT!!!
I think I'll get a skip to cheer me up :yay:
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Originally posted by byebyebridgetjones View PostErm...no thanks.
Yep we don't have to have them in our lives just because we share DNA. There has to be a better reason than that.
So these girls are a fair bit older than you then?
Originally posted by satz123 View PostI usually do - but this year I loved the Summer - and with 30 year old fecking dodgy heating - who knows what the shaggin winter will bring.
I think I'll get a skip to cheer me up :yay:
Finally persuaded Joe to go more 'designer stubble' than 'wild mountainy man' beard so he's off to the barbers -- unfortunately he seems to think he's on a promise cos of the stubble -- oopsosteroops:Contentedly sober since 27/12/2011
contentedly NF since 8/04/14
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Originally posted by satz123 View PostAnd isn't THAT the truth too !!!! FFS !
Talk to him about the potato masher for a while
Molly, you're a fecking hero in my eyes to put up with that.Last edited by JackieClaire; August 30, 2018, 04:44 AM.It could be worse, I could be filing.
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